i don't want to worry that I am still single now
By janefatima
@janefatima (347)
Philippines
June 7, 2011 5:45am CST
Almost 3 years ago we separated with my boyfriend I never tried replacing him. I am running 25 now and I am single but I don't go hangout with friends. After a busy day from work you can always find me at home where I usually hangout all alone watching different types of movies which I enjoy the most. Out of 5 siblings I am the only left alone who is single which it made me try to question some what if's? Do i need to worry now that with the things I am doing would probably/ might put me into single for the rest of my life???
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4 responses
@ravisivan (14078)
• India
7 Jun 11
yes. U have to worry. Why your parents are not there to get u married.? Are your sisters not helpful in ur finding a match? After a few years you will be taken as very old and apart from that you will lose the charm that is surrounding young age.
I wish u get married before December. have a good day.
@ravisivan (14078)
• India
7 Jun 11
You are a young lady. why should u have an avatar that makes people get frightened? Are u particular about having that. Otherwise u can go to preferences and put a new avatar or ur photo also. have a nice day.
@ravisivan (14078)
• India
8 Jun 11
No. It is not a big deal for me. But it is an important for janefatima, her parents. I know the mental tension of parents before getting their daughter married. U will find a suitable man soon ! Please tell us after ur happy marriage.
good day.
@janefatima (347)
• Philippines
8 Jun 11
Do you think that it is really a big deal if I don't get married?huhuhu.... Being single up to now for me doesn't make sense for now but I afraid that someday I might regret the things I didn't grab as of the moment. Take for example like going out or hangout with friends but now I choose to stay at home most of my time after work. Thank you so much for your wish. I just hope and pray that I could be able to meet the right man for me. Have a good day too.
@redvakaurvaki (4217)
• Indonesia
7 Jun 11
hi, janefatima, that's right, you dont have too worry, single in 25 is not end of the world.I have friend that still enjoy her single momen in around 30 yo. The most important thing is don't feeling down but widen you society with people outside. Open your heart, open your mind and enjoy life.
@janefatima (347)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
Hello redvakaurvaki. I believe that it is not that easy enjoying life without a partner in life. As the saying goes "No man is an island". With that it just shows that we need someone for us to appreciate life. And now I want to share it with you I don't need to worry at all because with or without a visible partner I know I have God with me to be always there for me as my partner in life. :)
@redvakaurvaki (4217)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 11
But we always need someone else beside us...
Happy lotting!
@janefatima (347)
• Philippines
8 Jun 11
You're right. For now my only inspiration in life is my family and God. I just hope and pray that God will give me the right man for me in the right time. :D
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
8 Jun 11
Hi Janefatima, first of all welcome to MyLot. I think you don't have to worry about since you are still young. Being single is perfectly fine at your age.
Some people are very in a hurry to jump into a relationship, and yet they ended up in breakup or divorce because of unreadiness with lots of misunderstandings.
Just enjoy life and stay happy, who knows one day there will be someone out there who is really deserving for you. Just wait patiently and put everything into GOD's hands.
I am also single and yet I still enjoy being single hehe..
God bless and take care always!
@janefatima (347)
• Philippines
8 Jun 11
Hehehe.... Thanks. I believe that God has always set a partner for us in the future. I believe in God's plan and there is always a reason of the things that might happen to us in the past, for the present and the things might happen in the future. That's what I kept on thinking just to enjoy every single moment of my life being a single because I know if I meet my partner in life I can't be enjoying the things or the experiences that I am having as of the moment. And most of all if i'll engage in relationship I don't want to end it to divorse and not even hurting ourselves..breakups..... You take care also and God bless you..
@xyzm12 (26)
• United States
7 Jun 11
I think you know the answer already, that the only way you're going change this is if you go out and meet people. You really have to just get out there an try to be more social. Join clubs, go to events, hang out with friends, etc. You might be missing out on some great guys if you just sit there at home every night. Don't sit there on the sideline and watch your life go by, get out and be an active participant. You don't want any regrets in life right?
@janefatima (347)
• Philippines
8 Jun 11
Yeah, I don't want to have regrets in life. I always want to make things nearer to perfect. Knowing for the fact that there is no such thing as perfect. I wanted to try those suggestions to hangout, and try to socialize with other people most especially to guys but unfortunately, I don't know how to start it since I don't really have so called a group of friends. And I think it will be so awkward to try if I'll just go out all alone.
