have you encountered this..?

Hi anjiel, There are people I know have the same situation to you and they also asked for my advise regarding that matter. Here I am now trying my very best i can to help you too. There are some ways to convince them that you are the right person to their daughter/son but it really takes time and effort. If you have a long patient then this will work for you too. First, tell to your girlfriend/boyfriend about her/his dad and mom. Ask a basic question like "What's your dad job?", "Is your dad interested in sports?", "What is your mom favorite food?" Bring or prepare a favotite food to her/his mom. out of that, make a little notes to yourself. Get together with her dad/mom. Get to know them more. Second, You have to impress them in everything you know that qualifies them to their daughter/son. Third, You have to get their trust, Let them know that you can be trusted in whatever way. Lastly, Show them how you really care for their daughter/son. Tips to you. You have to pray to the person you really love. Ask God to let his/her parents to have an interest to you. everything you need. God is always there to back up you. ^^,)/ May God Bless you!

I encounter that problem before with my partner parents. But because I showed good things to them they are slowly accepted me and now respect me as their son-in-law...

Well, though I was not able to experience this myself but I've seen this situation in my friends' life. What I can say is that, no body can stop two people if they are truly in love with each other because true love will endure and always find a way. A couple who love each other would stand the test even if only the two of them against the world. Once the relatives, parents, friends who are against the relationship would see that they can not do anything to hinder the relationship and would see that they are happy with each other, they will also learn the like the person.

You said that the parents have somebody else in mind. Then it would be very difficult to prove to them that you're much better than the one they have in mind. I'm a parent and we always think that parent's knows best. Nevertheless, I'm not telling you that there's no way you can prove yourself worthy foe their child. But it's just gonna take a lot of effort and the percentage of success is very low. So if I were in that situation, I would give up. It's one of my weaknesses. I just can't force a parent to like me for their son. I always think like this: if you don't Ike me to be a part of your family, then why would I want you to be a part of mine!

if i really loved that girl and that girl also loved me, we believed that we would be able to surpass any obstruction to our happiness. then we would run away and did not care about the disagreement from parents. it's a blessing if we get agreement from parents. but if we don't, then the show must still go on. parents don't have the right to determine who is the best person for us. we are adults and know our spouse more than our parents. and it's I and her who will build the marriage life and face all the problems in it. parents here can function as advisors, but not decision makers.