What do you think is the best way to attract girls?

United States
June 8, 2011 6:09pm CST
I'm only 16 and I haven't had many girlfriends. Only like 7 and I wonderd how I would make that number go up. I've asked many of my friends but they never give me any good ideas. So I'm asking people other than my close circle of friends to help me out. So please give me some good, great or crappy advice and I shall see what I can do. if it works I'll be grateful.
12 responses
• United States
9 Jun 11
Relationships are about quality, NOT quantity. That is the first lesson you need to learn. Ultimately, be yourself and be honest. Girls who are worth it will respond.
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• Malaysia
9 Jun 11
Well said my friend. You hit the nail right on the head. Just be yourself, those who are worthwhile will seek your compamy instead.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
running on dunes - boy and girl running in dunes
Hello Kronzez! You're only 16 but you already had 7 girlfriends? How's that? May I ask what do you gain from having too many girls at that age? You are still young for that, my friend! Don't rush things for it may come to you at the right time. Did it come to you that you really feel in love with that 7 girls? With that age, I know you can only have puppy love which means it can fade away fast. It's not that serious of course. Unless you really felt like being with her with the rest of your life. Just have one at a time. But now, please have more time on your studies not girls. Cause girls will be there and love will come at the right time...
• United States
9 Jun 11
i think a boy who has lot of quality and good figure is enough to attract girls. and by the way it's not the puppy love he has got talent so, he is able to make so many girlfriends.
@zhpshql (693)
• China
9 Jun 11
Hi,Kronzez this is Frank...You are so young,,you are only 16,and you can do everything you want.. First,be a man,that means you must dare to take responsibility,,when you are right,you should insist on it and never give up...and if you are wrong,you should appoligize to the others and take the others' advice.. then,do something big...that means you should do somethings that make sense..Life is long enough for you to do at least one thing. and last,love your girl with heart and seoul... and good luck ,young man.
@pro_ojha (600)
• India
9 Jun 11
Dear Kronzez Why you want make a lots of girlfriend.Why you not make just friend. Friendship is a natural process it cant make you by force and do some external thing .
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
That's right, pro_ojha! Friendships are the great foundation before entering into relationships. In this stage we learn to understand each other before getting rush into being lovers or into relationship. I just don't understand why some people rush things specially when they are still young...
• United States
9 Jun 11
I don't understand why you would want the number of girlfriends to increase because that would be that you want to have the same number of break ups... If you really want to meet girls, you first have to be an open person. You have to interact more with people so that gives you a chance to meet potentials. First impression is rather important since girls you don't know will probably label you the way they first view you. After the girl is initially attracted to you, whether it be just being friends or her wanting more, at least now you are acknowledged. You take this chance by getting to know her more and just be yourself. If she can't like that, it ain't the right girl. The way I think you want things is more of hook ups than girlfriends. For those, you can hit some parties. In college, you are definitely going to meet a lot of girls and a lot of them are easy going. Take that opportunity and sooner or later you will get a certain number of girls to hook up with, but I prefer having a long term relationship with that one girl more.
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
You can never really fully understand girls and what goes on in our heads. I can give you this advice though: BE FUNNY. Girls love to laugh and having a sense of humor is really sexy :) Also, I like it when a guy sings. Maybe that's just me. Hope I helped :)
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
Yes, I also like funny guys at times. It just make my day bright. I know most girls really like guys who can be funny at times. As long as he can carry himself in serious matter also.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
You are 16 and you already have 7 girlfriends!??! i mean what are you doing collecting them? you really do not need that many, you can have one and make a difference. Be yourself, why do you need to attract girls? to boost your ego? there are ways to be attractive but for me, being yourself is the best and improving your attitudes and who you are..acquiring skills and intelligence too,
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
Why would you like to have many girlfriends? Girls are impressed if you have lesser girlfriends. Because, if you have many, they'll have this notion that they'll just be a part of you collection. Girls want to have a real relationship, not a collection of flirting relationship. As much as possible, they want it to last because they want to be last. And I think 16 is too young. Why don't you focus on your studies first? And impress different girls when you already have your own money to earn.
• United States
9 Jun 11
hi Kronzez, it seems you wanna get as much experience as you can with girlfriends, huh? it's good because you will learn much for your marriage in the future. i think you should read books about girl (like Men are from Mars and Women from Venus) to understand what girl really wants. from those readings, i conclude that you can attract girl simply by giving her more attention than any other people. you should listen to her personal problem without judging her or giving solutions to her. other important thing: you should be able to guess her feelings. this is hard for me but at least i did it several times well. for example: you should know why she suddenly keep quiet when you both walk together to school. maybe you forget to reply her text last night or you say something that makes her upset yesterday. she hopes that you will understand her. but she seldom say it straightforwardly like we men are used to do.
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
the best way to attract girls is just be your self,, always remember that ''its always good to be hated for what you are than to be love for what you are not'' and besides you are still young dont rush things because life is so good and lot of adventure just enjoy it...
• India
9 Jun 11
its very weird to hear from a guy of your age that he hasn't had many girlfriends, and you also said you had 7..ha ha. well definitely you are going for making a record in number of girlfriends. Anyways its not about just making a girlfriend, its about making and carrying forward a relationship buddy...You should keep in mind that relationships are not always fun to deal with, you or your girlfriend may get badly hurt or heartbroken and that may affect your whole life. So be careful because at your age to deal with heartbreaks for you or her will not be that easy....But for the sake of answering the question... The best way to attract girls is having good sense of humor (Its best till now).
@anRcy99 (26)
• United States
9 Jun 11
hey, don't flirt all the girls otherwise girls will tell you playboy. instead you can go on slow and steady and you can increase your number. don't ask with your friend you can search it on internet and download video how to impress girl from the internet. good luck.