I still miss him terribly

no one ever surpasses that. besides it is needed time for people to just be ok again. im sure that it isnt easy for you to just accept that you lost your father. dont worry and take your time to just feel a bit better. sure there is no person that just accepts it. its normal that you wont be happy this day bcs it takes you bad memories back. dont feel bad about still feel sad with this. sure everyone would feel the same you are feeling. cheer up^^

Why thats just silly. you NEVER quite get over loosing a parent. i didnt even get along with my mom that well, but sometimes i still miss being able to talk to her as cranky as she was. after 9yrs. I still miss getting home and hearing my answering machine with her voice saying, call your mother!! i miss dad to but i seldom seen him the last few yrs. and sometimes i forget hes gone except around this time of year. i actually miss my late hubby John , tho the most as his birthday usually was on fathers day. since his is 17th. its been 8 yrs and i still miss him.

I wish you would have told that person there are huge oceans out there, and that they should pick one and jump into it. How rude. I can't imagine losing my dad. With my mom's dementia so awful, if I lost my dad I'd be a wreck. He's my rock. I'm sorry you lost him. But like you, it is answer to prayer when they are in so much pain. My mom is just 51, but the dementia is so terrible, we wish it was something that would just take her on to Heaven. Just to give you an idea - I had to go in the bathroom stall with her on vacation, and make her sit on the toilet, to sit back down when she got up without actually using the toilet, and then I had to wipe her. We wish God would take her, but we seem to be facing years more of this.

Sorry for your lose; you never get over losing anyone you love,especially and parent or a child, I have lose both. Don't you listen to anyone who tells you that you should be over losing someone that was so very important in your life. However, you must not let the lose keep you from the living the fullest life possible, he would not want you to mourn his dying forever. Celebrate his living and the time that you shared with him(hopefully great times) My mother has been gone for sometime now (cancer as well), I am so fortunate that I still have her voice on my answering machine saying that she was just calling to check on me. I love that I have her still calling to check on me. Let the pain subside, but let his memory live on.

It is hard, and it is not easy to cope with. A parent is someone you always depend on besides your future spouse. They are you lifelong friends, and they are the only ones you can trust with. I love my parents, and I wish their happiness forever too.

I know losing someone special is very hard and sad to think but as we all know that we just borrowed our life from God. So He has the right to get it from us anytime. And just think that your dad is at peace now with Him. Don't worry because your dad is in good hands right now. All we can do now is pray for your dad. Hope this could help.

No, the pang of separation lingers forever and since the earthly affair has to go on we tend to forget for a while. I am sorry to know this carpenter. Liver cancer is deadly but if it is detected early and it is replaced by a small portion of any of the family member the patient recovers. Now since it is already past lets pray for the soul to rest without pain.