religion problem

India
June 10, 2011 9:48pm CST
me and my boyfriend have been in relationship for three years now and are still in relationship . we both love each other a lot and wish to end up marrying each other but he thing is my parents after getting to know about this guy went and asked some great fortune teller and advisor to whom we were the constant and all time disciples till now and will continue to be in future also . thing is it turned out that the fortune teller advised me to stay away from my guy because according to them he might cheat me anytime and leave me and go .... i love him a lot and it makes my heart break to approach him every time with this thought of him cheating me haunting in my mind because till now i believed in all that this fortune teller had told for our family as such . i even spoke to my boyfriend about this and he says all this is stupid things to follow and that it was really idiotic to break our relationships for this reason and that he loves me a lot and will not leave even if i leave him .... NOW PLEASE TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO ???? SHOULD I TAKE IN THE WORDS OF FORTUNE TELLER AND WAIT FOR THE DAY WHEN MY BOYFRIEND WILL CHEAT ON ME OR JUST NOT BELIEVE IN THESE FORTUNE TELLERS AND BE HAPPY WITH MY GUY !!! YOUR OPINIONS WILL BE VALUED PLEASE RESPOND
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@ritzz07 (788)
• India
11 Jun 11
hi kittie i am agree with your boyfriend,these are all crap and hight of stupidiy in this 21st century we do still believe in this things. as you narrated about your boyfriend here i come to this,he loves you too much and if a person is in such deep love he never thinks to cleat,becouse cheatting you is like cheatting himself........so please think possotive and get marry to your guy he must be good by heart as he has such good feeling for you.........
@ritzz07 (788)
• India
11 Jun 11
i would like to suggest you watch hindi movie lage raho munnabhai so it will help you to take dicission........
@ritzz07 (788)
• India
11 Jun 11
finelly i would like to say if you will not marry then you will cheat him........and you can stay together without marrage,,today many people are in living in relationship.........
• United States
11 Jun 11
What you should do is follow your heart and be with your boyfriend/future husband if that is what your heart is telling you to do. Fortune tellers are full of baloney, and will say anything desired by the person(s) who pay(s) them money. Fortune tellers are con artists. People who pay fortune tellers to tell them what they want to hear are gullible fools. Do not listen to either. If this is your man for life, you know it. Live YOUR life -- not the life the superstitious people around you (and that includes your parents) demand you live. If you are underage, you will have to wait. But as soon as you are legally able to do what you want, do what YOU want -- and never look back.
• India
14 Jun 11
hey thanks for ur comment i shall follow it n be wid my guy !!! thanks for the response
• United States
14 Jun 11
My pleasure, kittie. May you and your guy enjoy all the happiness live has to offer!
• Malaysia
12 Jun 11
Hi Kittie, I noticed this isn't religion problem as there's nothing mention about religion. It's more on believing your bf or fortunr teller. I'm not into fortune teller as my religion prohibited it as I wasn't interested to know my future. But sometimes they do get it right though not always right. Love conquer it all, I don't think it's really good idea as lots of people out there who hold on this phrase end up in misery especially their kids been victim. What I trying to tell here, just take a little bit awarness or be carefull not to be regretful in future times.
• India
5 Jul 11
hey i dont get your last sentence are you asking me to believe the fortune teller or are you asking me to trust my boy friend???? and what phrase are you talking about that people hold on to ??? please be elaborate .... i am just bit tensed that's why could not properly get your point clear .. no offense meant ... sorry if it did ... your writing was clear only that it dint give me a clear idea about what it is . sorry for the trouble
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
11 Jun 11
don't believe it. it's a sin to believe in fortune telling. trust in GOD it's only him who can tell us about our future, only GOd knows what will happen to us. Follow your heart. Be happy.
11 Jun 11
Girl, what is most important to you? your own happiness or the nonsense things that the fortune teller says? Your boyfriend is right by telling that all those things are stupidity. Lean not on your own uderstanding, Trust God not the fortune teller :)
• India
5 Jul 11
thanks dear for taking time in answering my query...:):):)
• Canada
11 Jun 11
There have been something or someone in this life impact your decisions especially one is in your condition. The life is yours, not the others. Spending your time to listen to what your heart says! Hope u'r happy!!!
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
11 Jun 11
I was wondering where was the 'religion problem' because I didn't find any. I think you meant 'beliefs problem'. Anyhow, I have one question for you, did all the guesses and 'readings' of this fortune teller come true for your family? I mean, you have said that she's been with your family for a long time now, did everything she say really come true? If you would answer "YES" then perhaps you should think about what if he truly would cheat you. On the other hand, if you'd answer me "No, not all came true." Then just believe for now that it won't, or it would be one of those readings that don't come true. However, I know you are a woman and you'll always think about this forever. In fact, you may say that you love him and would rather forget what the fortune teller says, but deep down inside you would be thinking about it and waiting for the day that he'd cheat you - if you'd do this, you are actually attracting the negative thought and thus it could possibly happen since you are yearning for it to happen. It was wrong that you opened up your relationship with this fortune teller. It's wrong in the sense that you have triggered something that may or may not happen. Because by this act, you have assumed that your boyfriend would cheat. Further, it's really hurtful on his side because it proves that you believe the fortune-teller more than him, your boyfriend for 3years and someone that you wanted to marry. As for what to do, perhaps you should think about it. There might be a possibility that she may be right. If you pursue the relationship, are you ready for him to betray you? I'm sure the your family would say "We told you so" are you willing to face that. On the other hand, if you leave the guy because of these fortunes, are you ready to let go of that someone because someone said he isn't good for you? What if she was wrong? If I were in your shoes, I probably would talk to my guy and tell him that cheating is one of the things that I cannot take, and if he promises me, with all his heart, soul, and mind that he won't cheat - and help me get through this trauma, then I'm willing to fight for our love. But the moment that he will break this trust, I would leave him. Anyway, take care and I hope that you can get through this phase. Have a great MyLot experience!
• India
11 Jun 11
"Why to take chances?" Hey hold on. I am not telling you to stay away from him, But just ensure you don't have any kind of physical or Financial relationship with him... he is your loved one & let him be the same. you can always be with him & enjoy every moment of care & love from him & you can give him the Same.. But be away from the two things which i mentioned before
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
11 Jun 11
Hello my friend, Do you believe that Love conquer everything? If both of you love to each other whoever tell you about relationship to your boyfriend unable to happen because the power of love within you... Also don't beleive on fortune teller because that is their business to lie and to lie... so stick on your feeling with your man and fight it for your love.... explain to it carefully to you father... see you around
11 Jun 11
Do what your heart tells you to do. The future is not carved in stone and can change. Fortunetellers know this but never get around to sharing this knowledge with anyone else!
• Philippines
11 Jun 11
Hi kittie123! Girl you should follow your heart don't let any one dictates you or tell you what to do.. no matter what happen in the end that's part of what we called "LIFE" so be happy and stay in love :)
@MBBerry (24)
• United States
11 Jun 11
The thing about fortune tellers is when they guess right we remember what they said and forget everytime they are wrong. The truth is she was making a guess based on the fact that a large percentage of people in a relationship do cheat both men and women. Your boyfriend may not be one of those people. If he has given you no reason to believe he has cheated on you in the past why believe he will in the future. I would never take the word of anyone who has not even met your boyfriend. So, please trust your heart and your instincts and don't listen to those who just want to be negative.