fallen in LOVE with a boy/girl who is already taken?
By chinitz10
@chinitz10 (12)
Philippines
June 10, 2011 11:40pm CST
It's really hard to fall for someone who's already taken, Like now i like someone who's already taken, but he don't know what i really feel for him i just hide it. I'm just being nice to him and i'm happy everytime i see him it really completes my day, Do you think it is ok to tell him my feelings even though he's already taken? or should i hide it? im afraid of he's answer if ever i tell him what i really feel for him. what do you think you're going to do if your'e in my situation?
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7 responses
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
22 Jul 11
Hi Chinitz10, I would say since he is already taken, it would be rather make him unhappy or make him worried if you have to let him know. Because, when i am confirm about that he is not for me, I would let him go happy with life and doesn't make him feel guilt of my feeling. I would respect your feelings chinitz, but make sure it doesn't affect him as well. You will find a good partner of your choice soon, just wait for the person! Cheers and god bless!
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
7 Jul 11
I was in this situation and I told him how I feel
I have no intention of breaking his marriage
he has both a great family and an established career life
not to mention a great personality with a whole lot of wisdom himself
it's rare to see anyone with those these days
I wouldn't want to be the one that ruins it
it's not a matter of having, or even sharing your feelings
it's a matter of what you will do about these feelings
whatever you decide to do, just beware of the consequences
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Jun 11
I wouldn't fall for someone who is already with someone else. If they are happy I would be happy for them and move on. Have respect for their happiness and don't make waves. I wouldn't say anything to this person. I would respect the situation and be mature enough to stay away from it and get busy elsewhere.
@simpleplan (22)
• Bangladesh
11 Jun 11
You just said what is happening to me. I love someone and she is already for someone else. I Love her a lot and i told her too care for her more then that person still she is not mine. All because she is already taken. Just like a website username if you register 1st then you take the username or else someone else going to take it. Its really hard and painful right.
@herdcloudy (13)
•
24 Jun 11
I also experienced it now. I loved her. but I do not know what to do, because she has a boyfriend
@abatencila (970)
• Philippines
11 Jun 11
I'd rather hide it than hurt someone else because of wrong emotions. It is not fair to hurt someone else just to get what we want.
