Have you encouter a person who don't say thank you?

Philippines
June 11, 2011 12:17pm CST
A friend of mine was so hurt badly when her friend she was helping forgets all about her even to say thank you. Maybe, the same to you when we helped somebody and she or he don't show any feeling of gratitude we feel like my friend feels. We call that kind of person THANKLESS, who seems oblivious to the extra effort his or her subordinates have made. Good day.
4 responses
• Philippines
11 Jun 11
A lot of people seems to be doing this to me for the last few years. I usually have no qualms on helping people or doing favors for them if I am capable but many of them don't say 'thank you' or be civil enough to let me know that they appreciated my work or my effort. They think that they are entitled to what other people has done to them, so they don't even feel that a word or two could make a difference. As much as I would want to them to say 'thank you' to me, I can't force them to or the the meaning of the words will be lost. At every instance that it happens to me, I would like to think that I did something good without being asked and I did something for other people. For me, it's already satisfaction that I have done something, instead of nothing. I guess the most people today are getting more self-centered than ever but somehow I don't blame' them. People will always act on their own interest before others even if others do their best to help other people without thanks.
• Philippines
12 Jun 11
Yes you are right. For me, I am happy that I can help others its up to them if they remember to say thank you, as long as they need help from me, I do my part. But its sad that those people whom you are helping forgets all about what you've done to them.
@chhetp1 (467)
• India
11 Jun 11
I think those people don't have the spirits of courtesy in their bones. I would actually remind those people that I owe a simple thank you for my help.
• Philippines
12 Jun 11
There are kind of people like that. And the very sad thing is that when the time that you are in need, they forgot all about you.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
12 Jun 11
There are lots of people who belong to this category. There are several factors why people are ungrateful. One thing is.. the way they were trained when they were young. If their parents and the people around them used to say thank you for everything they will receive, this will be implanted in the minds of the young and when they were old, they will always do it. If the environment they grow up are full of people who always say thank you, this will become an instinct to the young minds and wherever they will be in the world, this attitude are already built inside them. Therefore, it is the duty of all parents to cultivate this virtue to their kids and when this will become a habit to them even when they are old.
• Philippines
12 Jun 11
Yes i did. And i can't believe that there is someone who can't even say those two words. I am easy to please, just a simple thank you will really go a long way for me. I associate it with breeding or upbringing. If someone don't know how to say thank you all else follows.