what would you do if the boy/girl you love has a gf/bf?

That should not happen to any one but unfortunately if it happens to me then i will definitely leave her and will never ever talk with her but i will not hurt her because i truly loved her but i will never ever go back to her that is for sure.

Hi cat It is hard to give you what is right and or wrong unless we have gone through it or not. I have been guilty in the past of hoping things would change and they simply did not for me. Therefore, I would suggest that because you love him, one really has to love someone to let them go. Meaning wait a while, though you can still have feelings and see how things go. See some ex-partners will take us for granted, Meaning they know no matter what you will be there and surely that is not someone we want. We want someone to make us his/her number one always and not as a last resort or someone thy know they will have there later. I would say to allow some time away with no communication, perhaps to see if the person truly misses you. There are times when an ex can feel like so secure that if they needed you, you will be there. This only leads to continual pattern later of perhaps being cheated on. So wait for a while and see if he freely comes back to you. I do wish you all the best and hope it all works out and or you get someone who makes you his number one.

well if my girl whom i loved had a boyfriend i would tell her tat i love her and if she doesn't wanna leave that guy and she is happy with him i would be really happy to see her happy as at the end of the day what matters to me is her happiness and i would step back if I find that , that guy loves her more and can take care of her more than me n she is really happy to be with him........

I don't think I can say how I feel to the boy I love... I'm shy and afraid, what if he'll get mad at me or he'll just ignore me? waaaahhh I'd better not telling him what I feel... I like this boy so much but whenever he pass by, I just couldn't look his face... and my friend's always teasing me.. I think he's 4-5 years older than me... and I don't think he likes me...

yes ,it's my situation now. the boy I love has a gf for seven years, he is so gentle, I could't help want to see him, hear his voice, I could't make sure if it is ture love. damn love!

Well it really all depends on whether or not he takes any serious interest in you... if yes then well i'd tell them how i truly felt and fight the hardest I could to make them mine forever. But, if he only has a slight interest in you i'd leave the situation alone because if he is she is in love with this other person then there isn't much you can really do about it and you just have to move on. Been there done that, it isn't easy but it in the end it its worth it.

Well, i have no g/f and my bride will be my g/f after marriage... and if it occurs after marriage, then it will be a big blow for me... i dont know what i will do... better it will depend on situations. Have a nice day.

I am not a love guru but as I know about love , I think you will always want the happiness of the person whom you love, so If I were in a place and know that the person whom I love , he or she loves someone else, I would be more happier if he is happy with her. That is actually the real love. Other thing that I know that it is not possible some time to bring him or her towards me , so I would have put my energy on me or somewhere else to convince me for the reality.

Damn girl, love hurts, lol, what a disease, you are in deep love sweetloveforever, & that's a good thing. I envy your ex-boyfriend, haha, how come he let you go. You are sweet & beautiful, i guess you should let go sweetloveforever, as long as he's with someone else right now, it's just not meant to be, i passed through that also, but my ex-girl friend lives in the usa, & am from tunisia, way far from each other. I suppose cyber love is so rare to succeed. You are cute woman sweetloveforever, you'll find someone who really appreciate your company ^_^

I am not really sure how to answer this. If he leaves her because of me, that would be a great burden and I have respect for my fellow women. I can just imagine the pain she would go through. But if I came into his life just when he was already falling out of love with her then maybe I could endure the guilt and not give up on him. Nevertheless I would still wait until he's free before committing myself to him. I have this belief that if a guy could fool around with his former girlfriend, there's no guarantee he wouldn't do the same to me. So I just want to make sure that I'm not the main reason why he broke up with her.

I will stop loving him as early as possible so my peaceful life will stay the same. Just bear in mind that if you are in her gf's position, you won't like it either. Don't hurt someone so that in time, no one will hurt you also.

hi friend. you shoul find another man that has not have a girl yet. it's better.

it's never wrong to love someone whatever the circumstances but what you do out of that love could be wrong. Just let him know how you feel but don't expect too much. If you really love him, you'll be happy as long as he's happy even if it includes you or not.

One thing to know when you go into relationship is that be sure that the one you plan to be with is free.Remember always that not all single are available.If you found out that he/she has gf/bf then you have to be fair,talked to him/her and clarify things so that everything will be okay. Happy mylotting and Godbless..:)

If he was with someone else then that would be my clue. He is not being forced to be with someone he doesn't love and he obviously doesn't feel the same about me so I'd ignore it and let it be. I can't really love someone that I haven't spent a lot of time with so it would be just a crush anyway....maybe a huge crush but not love. I would not do anything to interfere with someone else's relationship. I would wait for him to be single or move on.

If I am in that situation much better for me let her go. Because I know in the future she still cheating me and it will be bother me if that always happen... How can you love a person in that gesture. How can you fight for something which in reality she did not loves you and continue denying you? Better to let her go, friend

Hi sweet love forever: I think that if a situation like this would happend to me, I'd respect this relationship. My interest is to make this person I think I love happy and if she is happy right now I won't destroy her relationship, but she is suffering and she is into a disfunctional relationship I'll try to make her notice so she'll understand and probably take the decision to be happy with someone else . ALVARO

If he leaves his girlfriend to be with you, then he might just do the same with you too... Always put yourself in other people's shoes, though I always go for what makes me happy I never go for it if it hurts other people...think that the gf is also a girl, how would you feel if you were in her place....sooner or later when that man really loves you and not his gf, he'll just break up with her without your interference or she'll break up with him...and if he's really in love with you he'll court you properly, not the other way around....

you should find another man that has not had a girl yet. it's better.

I don't think you should degrade yourself so that you have to wait around for someone. I don't think a woman should try to start a relationship with a man unless he is completely enthusiastic and loyal to her. Otherwise, he will just lose interest eventually. In your case, you should not have to fight for anyone before anything has even started. You can be there for him, but if he doesn't see you as more than a friend, he's just not going to.