Should I be worried?

Hi bslovers.What is it that makes you doubt that he will not deepen his commitment to you?Sometimes our subconcious mind registers some small act which guides us in the right direction.I would suggest you to spend sometime in silence , relax yourself and try to follow your gut feeling.try to recollect any small incidence or something which he has said which makes you feel so insecure.I would also suggest you not to date him exclusively till he commits.Hang around with your friends and do things which you love doing rather than anxiously waiting for him to commit.

I suppose that would depend on how important commitment is to you. It sounds like this kind of thing is very important to you. I would say that you should spend some time talking this kind of thing out with your boyfriend. Remember, he is suppose to listen to your concerns and be able to communicate with you. If you have not asked him about this, then it is difficult to tell if you should be worried. It could be the case that everything is perfectly fine, and you are just overly concerned. In order to know for sure though, you would need to ask him directly.

You have not told us why you feel that, getting involved with your kids is something that is a good indication that guy is serious about you. And you have been together now for ten months, just don't rush things up and watch and wait. ten months is too little time to worry about deeper commitment. If the guy seems right then it would work out for good in the end, we women generally push away good guys because of our own insecurities Guys take a lot of time to make up their minds and if its worth it then we must have patience and sometimes our close friends have better insight in to our relationships then us ourselves. ask a mutual friend about it he or she will really let you know where you are in the relationships it has always worked out forme and people I know.