how do you impress a girl or boy you like?
@fantasticbabe (981)
Philippines
June 12, 2011 10:07pm CST
First for me i spend more time on getting to know him better and be friendly on him. secondly, i am going to show him the real me with no pretenses. meaning with no pretension. And third if given a chance and if he agree. I really interested to go with him such as in movies , watching sports or meet his friends so i could really know him and I could see what his interest and meet his social circle of friends. This is my purpose to meet his type of friends whether i could be their friends, his attitudes and if they are a good influences. Although, i would try not to make judgment at earlier time it is the stage of getting to know. how about you?
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@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
yes this the way to get to know the person really well and if both have the same interest their is likewise less contradiction. if ever their is a contradiction you have the many option to resolve it through developing a good communication. so we might even get a better relationship if everyone learn to accept the person for who he is and accept even his flaws.
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
yes this the way to get to know the person really well and if both have the same interest their is likewise less contradiction. if ever their is a contradiction you have the many option to resolve it through developing a good communication. so we might even get a better relationship if everyone learn to accept the person for who he is and accept even his flaws.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
I will just being me. At the first date I know I will be shy to show my real me, I will just let him show his real self and I will observe him. I want to know his likes and dislike first before I will show mine. After that I will show my real color or the real me, with no pretensions too and will let see if he will like me as simple as like that. I will make sure that this boy will have a good time spending his time on me. What he see is what he get.
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
yes, that a good attitude to remain just the real you and not to pretend to act like someone else. especially, when you like the other person to know you then it is important not to pretend since he or she will discover you too. and t is very embarrassing to hide something when it is out to be discover. it is good to tell your attitude and not some people close to you to reveal it to him.
@coolcoder (2018)
• United States
13 Jun 11
I don't try to impress a guy; I did that a few years back, and it does not work, believe me. If a guy truly likes me, then he's going to accept me for who I am, flaws and all. Plus, he wouldn't talk badly of my family, which is what the guy I did like was known to do.
Don't sacrifice yourself just to make a guy happy. I mean, yeah, try learning about things he likes and all, but when it comes down to it, you have to be true to yourself.
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
well, that gives you a lot of comparison from your experience. you gain more knowledge of what the real things to do. yes, you do not need to pretend act or imitate like other does. when in fact they just do it to impress but despite doing it. they acting not natural at all and the boy or dream also notice it. yes, when it comes to family values i am also do it and more impress to a guy who know where he stand and respect his family the same way he treat his.
