What the worst mistake you ever committed on a first date?
@fantasticbabe (981)
Philippines
June 12, 2011 10:20pm CST
I remember the time that i am going to have a first date. it is the day of my prom night and i already talk with my date that after the prom were going to have a date. he just need to wait me. but for some funny things. I eat too much and get diarrhea. so instead of dating i spend the rest of my time going to the comfort room. and the first date which is suppose to become exciting become embarrassing even since i was not able to fulfill my promise to him. So he just drive me home and we plan again in the week end when i already feel fine.
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@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
I had my first date when I was in college. I am not sure about this. However, the worst mistake is that, I have my date and I have my five friends with me. He was the only boy and we are six girls. My friends keep asking him questions about how he noticed me, how he got develop the feelings about me and that was humiliating on my part because i was there. I saw how his cheek became red and he perspire a lot. It was like an interrogation, which is wrong. I never admitted i had fun though.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
And we even laugh whenever he falters. I think it is not a good idea to bring friends on the first date although I admit it was fun.
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
well, that is really funny and very embarrassing too in your part not just with the boy. things happen like that even f we do not wish since friends were very vocal about asking him. this put between the two of you in a trap. if that happen to me. maybe would just hide. well, the truth would just face it and reply to them n humorous way too.
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
4 Mar 12
This is funny, grecy! I can imagine what it feels like to be interrogated. It's like being interviewed and being chopped alive as well. It is hard for the boy's stand. Trying to impress your friends can also be of his thinking that time. Well, how was your feeling about the guy after the interrogation? It can be funny and humiliating at the same time isn't it? Did you get along with the guy after this or just disappeared after the incident?
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
4 Mar 12
Hmmm... I don't know what mistakes had happened but then when I came to think of it, I just felt bored, I think! Well, first of all I really can't remember if this was a first date or something. But all I can remember is that I was with this guy who is really shy and soft spoken when He is with me. I want him to talk but then he doesn't have the courage to do so. Well, he invited me out to watch a movie. What I wanted to watch is a love story but then he insisted more of the action one which is really not my style of watching. But then I said go... Go with the flow. He is really into watching the movie and I felt really bored. I don't like much of the actor. He even didn't talk to me while watching. I felt bored and felt sleepy as well. All in all, it's not fun at all. After the movie, we ate but then, I am still the one who keeps on asking and sharing things. Feels like I am the only one who can talk. Too bad! And in the first place, I know he is the one who likes me. I don't know why he is not willing to share something about him... I gave him the chance but then he did nothing... He got the looks but then it's not enough!
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
well, some guys are really like that, but at first time were shy but, as you get to know each other for a long time. you could test if both of you have chemistry as you get along with each other. he would get open up n time, when both of you felt comfortable with each other. though, you may get disappointed since he never get the gut to make a follow up. though, if he really interested even he is terribly shy , he would make an effort and lost all his inhibition. as a girl, were supposed to be on the wait and see the situation of knowing what will be his next move. so, t is funny though, that most girl need to do an effort too. 
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
Yes, it's true that we girls should make a move to somehow let them be themselves. It's like they are acting as if they're like gentlemen at first but then you know deep inside them, they are rude at times. Funny isn't it? But that's the way how it goes sometimes.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
15 Jun 11
I guess it would have to be, staying over at their house. Once you do that, alot of men think you are easy ro they think you are committed to them.
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
not really doing it. it just an accident that i feel bad the day we meet. so the next time f ever i fell something that makes me easy as long as could still manage. i make sure to go quietly and just bid them goodbye. well, it make sense to say some excuses which he would understand. i am a Little bit shy when t comes to men unless i develop feeling with them i don;t usually accompany them.
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@la_chique (1498)
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15 Jun 11
erm, well I wont give too much away, as you never know who reads these things, but I'd have to say my worst first (and only) date with this one guy was ever agreeing to go in the first place. I was actually embarrassed for him, and realized that when you're only there because you feel sorry for them, you shouldn't be there at all.
@la_chique (1498)
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15 Jun 11
We were both only about 14/15 at the time, nothing serious or anything.
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
well, unless you tell your name here with the person. this remain safe as we all stay anonymous. this would probable gives you worry if he is a member here too surely he could get some hint. anyway, you very careful and t a good attitude. i wonder too why you decide to go in a place you felt awkward. but i understand you nothing serious happen. you still safe..lol..
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
That is a little embarrassing. I feel sorry for you. But at least there will be a next time right?
First dates are overrated anyway, its often filled with mistakes. And the diarrhea is not your fault, its not like you wanted to get it right? Next time maybe you should just be careful with what you eat before your date.
Haven't been in a first date in very long time so I can;t really remember much (selective amnesia!)!
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
yes i am so ashamed of that situation since it is suppose to be an special and exciting day for me. i hope it really get well and it turn out it is a date that makes me hide. he wait or me and i ran but then he is so gentle to take me home. i apologize to him and he understand my situation. so the next date i plan it well and it turn okay with no hassles at all.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
Don't worry about it. Just try to do better the next time around, and be prepared for the worst. You'll be just fine.
@yunako (74)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
maybe you were just too excited or anxious about your first date that's why you had diarrhea.since you planned to go out again, try to relax and be comfortable with yourself. for me, the worst mistake i committed on my first date was that i got drunk and cried over him about my former relationship and eventually told him i still love my ex. but on the other hand, that guy become my close friend now and we share each others' problems.
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
lol..i see that day to be very special and memorable instead the memories associated with it is something humiliating on my part. good thing the guy is patient to wait for me while i release and he even drive me home. well, i apologize and he understand, the next time we set another date and this time it all turn well.
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@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
lol..only little not too much then..
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