Friendships

Welcome! Unfortunately, this happens in many friendships. I am a better listener then a talker so I don't mind listening to their issues. I pretty much keep to myself. I know that people come and go in life. For whatever reason, true friends are hard to find. People normally realize this after high school or college. I rarely ask anyone for help. I know that the chance of someone helping me is slim to none. My husband and I do things together most of the time. But why wouldn't we, we are best friends. Best Wishes!

I can count all actual friends I have on maybe five fingers. Since I've finished high school and I don't see people for eight hours, for five days a week anymore, I've become the go to person. If someone's upset or hurt or can't sleep, they call or text me. I help so many people with their problems and then when I have something go wrong, there's only two people I can talk to (both live eons away from me, so that makes things far more difficult). It's like everything is fine for them as long as they have someone to vent to or a shoulder to cry on, but as soon as I need something they're nowhere to be found. So for my actual friends I have nothing but love and loyalty. But to everyone else, who cares.