I'm so relieved :)

instances are quite many. It happens. We feel angry. We lost our ability to reason out. We show anger. Later we repent. We apologise. It happens. We think we are right on most of the occasions and that is the reason for this behavior. But not always are we right from other's angle. good u are feeling happy. with this happiness go to sleep. have sweet dreams

I think a lot of times people worry about what other people will think about things and usually those fears are unfounded. While it is possible the person will be upset, if there is something that is bothering you, it should be communicated. Most of the time the fear is all in your head and the other person probably is wondering why you aren't talking to them. I'm glad this situation worked out for you.

Of course it feels great when you don't lose a friend. and it feels more good when you ask apology and it gets accepted. I did have many experience about that. Especially to my best friend! She think I'm flirting with her boyfriend which I'm not. I'm just getting close to his bf because I wanted to spy the guy for her, because I'm getting so suspicious about this guy because I doubt that my best friend is his only girlfriend. Very unbelievable to me. and I find out, he has a lot of girlfriends in times that he and my bestfriend is still together. I explained it all to my best friend. I ask apology even though I did not do anything wrong, but still I ask for spying his boyfriend without her consent. She accepted it, and she even thank me for what I did!

Hello, I have the same experiece as you. What I conclude from the past experieces is that communication is really important, and we must not hestitate to make apologies to someone that we care about. Most of the time, it will pay off.

Yeah once i did hurt my friend real bad. I'm ashamed of it till today though she accepted my apologies and we're best friends as before...This happened almost two years back but i still feel so damn guilty for what i did to her.

i had this friend before, we were super close, we'd do everything together. we'd go places and have fun. we were friends through and through. but due to some other nosy, irritable, mean, monster colleague, this close friend and i parted ways, we drifted away from each other. it was hard to reconcile. it took us 6 months trying not to notice one another. we are working in the same place but there is a hidden wall between the two of us. neither one of us wanted to bend our emotions and talk things out. the feeling was awful. she was resigning. and she sent me a message if i was willing to talk to her for the last time. i said, yes. why not? maybe it would clear some issues. again it was awkward speaking to her after 6 long months of non-communication. we cleared the issues, we apologized. and no matter how we wanted or tried to bring back the close friendship we shared before, it was already too late.

From what you have typed,I get some good points.First of all,you must be a person who is responsible for what you have done.Second,to your friends,you put them in you heart,when you find you have hurt one of them because of your carelessness,you will feel worried and sorry. Third,from the afair itself,I learn something from you.When we find there's something wrong between our friends and us,acting positively is much better to strengthen the friendship.Sometimes,our friends will not care about what mistakes we have made at all.However, we should tell them we are sorry.Fourth,it makes relieved to tell our real feelings in time after we do something wrong.

How good and welcoming! at the end of the day you have your friend...it means to me you are very important to her and that is something to be great full for.

It is a relief to have an apology accepted. Giving an apology is sometimes very hard to do, especially if you aren't sure if you should or what you did. It is also a big relief to have your friendship back without that awkwardness.

right now i'm still reeling from the recent firing of my drummer. i don't know just how angry he is right now. life goes on, we move on and we keep on playing...

Hi Thatgirl13, Most of the time, we did not even try to put what we like to do on action and we just let our imagination go wild, and most of the time what actually happen is not as serious as what we think. So, when you actually apologize to your friend and she actually not really mad at you but just that yourself have think too much. That is really normal to a normal people like us. I did have many time that I really afraid to do something but when I went and try it, it is actually not as bad as I thought. Of course, like you I feel relieved after that.

HI thatgirl I can see your happiness in making amends with your friend. It is not an easy thing to do, to apologize for wrong doings. Apparently she is a very good friend as she can understand that you are human and we all make mistakes. Therefore, this is a great thing between the two of you. I have had instances like this while I was younger where my mouth moved faster then my brain. I too had regrets later. , I can't say I re-gained friends all the time, but have learned from those experiences on how to be very careful while addressing my dear friends because sadly I do value friendships so am always cautious not that I am older. I do hope you are tucked in bed now.

just make new friends and keep the old.... one is silver and the other is gold....

Hi thatgirl, This most often happens with me also as i always say something bad to friend but actually realize it after sometime that i have said something wrong for which should say sorry to him/her.It really does not matter to apologize if you are wrong.I think this is the best solution to do the things normal because i know its difficult to make friends but easy to loose them.