People being happy when they are moaning

I think some people really get a kick out of getting a rise out of others. I don't understand why. I hear on the news where several teenagers have taken their own lives because of the meaness of others. There is so much beauty and positive energy in the world it saddens me to see how so many people are so selfish and self serving. They can only see things their way and can't give a kind word to anyone. I believe in Karma and there is going to be alot of it going on.

i agree with this because i knew someone who's perfectly happy when she's pulling me down. She's always making fun of me and I'm really hurt. Deep inside i want to cry out loud! I just don't know why she's doing those things like saying that I ain't good enough... And now I've learned not to listen to whatever she says. And try not see her for me to have god vibes! funny thing though.. I just don't wanna see her in my depressed mode!

hi joystick I had one socalled friend here named Alice who seemed happy to talk to me bu t left me feeling lower than a snails belly. She would go on and on about how awful the food was here and how bad the help was and non and on. I tried to interject that the eggplant Parmesan they make is excellent and their spaghetti with meat balls is delicious and they make excellent beef stew. she would be stopped for a short for a time then she would start all over again. I got so I would duck into a hiding place when I saw her approaching and sometimes she just followed me in,.

hi, happiness to everyone are coming to anything and everywhere,there are many people who are happy when they get what they want in their life,and some of them are happy when they drag people down,and that is so sad to the person who are happy to create bad things to other people.

I agree with you and feel very sorry for such people.I'm guessing it's often done for attention and/or out of loneliness. Perhaps they are looking for someone to either pity them or fight with them. Sometimes fighting with someone helps them get their mind off what is worrisome in their own lives.

Only one word. Leave. Leave that person and find another that more friendly. You will like him if you stay around with.

Hi joystick, Very few people are truly happy. Those who enjoy complaining and saying nasty things about others may think that they are happy for a short while, but they have no idea of true happiness. Just as you say they do live very boring lives. Like most things in life, the best way to experience happiness is to help another find it. Blessings.

Sounds like some of the people I work with! They b&tch all the time! If they don't at least once a day,they don't feel normal! I know and have seen alot of people out there who cut people down after they die! People can be so rude,callous,mean and pathitic! it is not right but it happens!

My husband's aunt is exactly this type of person you are talking about. I have come to realize through my own therapy, that these people are insecure with themselves....the only thing that makes them happy is dogging on someone else....it is a terrible habit....and I despise people like that.

So sad and true, as I do know a few like this and for some reason they think it is fun. I personally have to avoid and or leave immediately as though I am not taking part in this type of activity, I would feel ashamed as we are as good as the company we keep. Too sad.

Yeah it is sad to say some people like that, they are happy when others are already down and having pain which pushing and stiring to cheer up... Anyway Ihope they can realize what they are doing is bad to others... see you around

I have come across people like that. They have nothing nice to say but complaints. Maybe their lives are not full or they are down and out. Nasty gets you nowhere. I am down and out and not in a good place, but what would I get out of being mean and nasty and complaining. Nothing. So the best thing to do with people like that is ignore them.