When hooking up friends goes bad?
@mygameminiatures (27)
United States
June 14, 2011 9:50am CST
I recently introduced two friends, both single and in nned of a good person in there life. At first the pair hit it off, talking non stop for months, but then he turned into a whiner and his self esteem issues started showing through and it was more than she can handle.
Now, I dont hear from him at all, and she is afraid I am upset with her for not dating my other friend.
I have told her I would rather her not be with another friend of mine if its not meant to be, being in a bad relationship isnt worth it.
I have called him and asked what the deal was..
Yet its been 2 weeks again and I have not heard from either of them , and I was hearing from both almost daily.
Other than dont let friends date, any advice?
3 responses
@bumslayer (22)
• Philippines
14 Jun 11
Don't blame yourself if didn't work out as planned. I am sure your intentions are noble.
@celestial052506 (2914)
• Philippines
14 Jun 11
It's not bad to let your friends date, sometimes other people needs bridges but there are also disadvantage of doing this for them. We all want them to be happy but sad to say that there are some doesn't end up a happy ending.
One of my friend experience like that. We let them date and finally they got married and had one daughter. Unfortunately, years passed the boy getting cold to his wife and he always go with other girls but not dating to them just go with them and the wife get jealous and they have a big war and got worst until one day their daughter said to them, that she wanted them to be happy again. Their daughter cried and beg for a happy family. Thanks God, they fix the problem and they are now back to normal and love each other again because of their daughter.
