Love or Valued
By menace730
@menace730 (506)
Philippines
June 14, 2011 9:19pm CST
Sometimes even in a good relationship we go down in the dumps and think negative thoughts. Why...I don't know. I guess it's just the nature of being a human. Maybe we need to be told more from someone that they love us and appreciate what we do for them. Maybe we need to tell someone more that we love THEM and value very much what they do for us.
Anyway...Do you feel loved and valued?
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7 responses
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
hello dennis,
loving is not possible without some level of love for yourself. it is to recognize the innate value of something, and when you love yourself, you see yourself in another. whether we come into contact with the love from the world, the nature, the surrounding, or we are loved by another, we learn it from being loved.
when we know we are valued by another for what we are, we lose any false limits on what we are capable of giving. what we do is reciprocate by loving that person so much.
have a nice day.
ann
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Hi ann...yes I agree, we need to reciprocate and don't take for granted that our family, friends or partner in life knows...
@sniglet (113)
•
15 Jun 11
sometimes it happened like that,not worry about.Good relations are always strong.Loving someone is beliefs and sharing the feelings to each other.Caring about the relationship through positive way of thinking.it will reflect more valuable in the life.
@celestial052506 (2914)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
Well, it's good to tell someone that we love them and value very much what they do for us. It's important that they know you appreciate what they do for us. Sometimes I feel loved and valued specially with my family. But sometimes other people forget to express their love for us.
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
Sometimes, we need to feel the assurance that people dear to us love us.
People are happy to know that they are treasured and loved not only through actions.
My parents weren't very vocal about their feelings towards their children and as a child I would want to hear those words from my parents. So my husband and I both agreed to be more vocal about our feelings to our son. So not a day pass that we don't say I love you to each other.
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Never stop saying those three simple words sweet_pea. Thanks
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
Even when we are in a smooth sailing relationship, we still need to be reassured every now and then, of each other's affection. A hug or a kiss would suffice, even if the word of affection isn't said.
That's how my husband and i do to reassure each other of our love.
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Ohh I agree simplyd...just a loving look across a crowded room or a touch on the hand says 1000 words. A hug and a kiss mean sooo much in a relationship so it does not become stagnant. thanks simplyd
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
26 Jan 13
it is part of being human to feel bad and sad about a lot of things but we all need someone who will remind us what were worth and who will appreciate our value because sometimes when were down to deep, we forget about it and we tend to lose ourselves, sometimes we just need people who will pull us back.
yes, we do need to tell people we care for them, thanks for this discussion and for reminding me about this essential thing.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
26 Jan 13
Hi friend, we all need respect and have our own value. Surely every one value their beloved persons, both love and value have their own importance and they are important for a good relationship