My father was sick, and everyone blamed me

Yes. I'm married. My father and I, have a different opinion to my household. Thus, we often make a quarrel. And, the family says, my father was sick because I do not want to obey the wishes of my father. I do not want, my father was sick. I always pray for my father

I see what you are saying. You are grown with your own opinions and your own life. You do not have to let your father control your life any more. It's not your fault your father can't let go of him needing to be right. Tell your father you are not a child any more and you have the right to live the life you want and run your household the way you want and he doesn't need to worry and make himself sick over it because there is nothing he can do about it. How would he feel if his parents tried to tell him how to live his live after he was a grown man living in his own house? If he didn't want them to do it to him then he shouldn't do it to you. Tell your family they can kick rocks. Don't argue with your father because there is no point. When he wants to argue with you don't let him. Change the subject, hang up the phone or walk away. Give him a hung and say daddy I love you and I will not argue with you over what I choose to do with my life.

That's right dreamy, i totally agree with you. Sqlcell , do not argue with your father anymore, instead show him your love and make him understand that there's nothing that he should worry about you. Assure him that you love him so much despite your defiance of what he likes you to do in your household.

Everyone agrees with my father. when I felt my household, fine. and no problems. But my dad always said, I have to go to where I was born and worked there, because according to my father, my work here, can not be relied.

If it is not much of a hassle why don't you listen to your father. I am sure you love him! And that will make everyone happy. Just a thought.

I've apologized to my father. And now, I decided to indulge my father, although I will face many difficulties. My father was worried about my job. Because, according to my father. My work, unreliable.

In eyes of parent, their chirdren will no grow up.I think the same to your father.It's normal your father worry about your job, But you should tell him it's ok for your job and using actual action to let him know you can do well. the only one thing is let him know your ability you can do any jobs.

Everyone was blaming me, for my father's pain, because I never indulge my father, and this makes me sad father, and eventually pain. I have a job, but according to my father, my work, can not make ends meet my household.

I'm married, but my father felt, I could not support my household well, because my job, can not be relied.