Did you trust your girlfriend?

Malaysia
June 15, 2011 7:29am CST
Moreover in my case, my girlfriend betray me when im trust to her 100% that she fine with me. Now, i think im facing problem to trust anybody around me right now. Any suggestion?
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@shooie (4984)
• United States
15 Jun 11
Well all I can say is you need to remember one thing not all people are the same. So to not trust everyone around you is kinda sad. We've all been hurt by someone that we were close to but we have to get OVER it and move on. We ourselves have probably done something to cause people not to trust or depend on us for things as well. So just get over it and move on. If you are still with the girl you will either need to give her another chance or break up.
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• Malaysia
15 Jun 11
Well.. i agree with your comment. For me, i feel losing grid with my life right now. I know im wrong if i feel like that and need some time and space to move forward again.Hopefully :)
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@sniglet (113)
15 Jun 11
of course,this one psychologically happened.So,Please avoid this confusion.Best love always gives the best life.so,choose the best one.If going to choose some one,that person really reach your feelings.Any way this is very sad.
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• Malaysia
15 Jun 11
this happen to me teach me how important to trust correct person. By the way, maybe i need time to forget anything and do whatever i can do which is make me happy :)
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@oscar6 (1938)
• United States
16 Jun 11
I would suggest continuing to open up to people. If you close yourself off to everyone you will never get close to anyone else. Are you still with this girl or have you left her? If you are still with her I would suggest leaving the relationship. Relationships mean nothing if you cannot trust the other person. I wish you the best with everything.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
15 Jun 11
to a friend when you lose trust in someone is very difficult to be able again to have confidence to another person. I know how you feel but quite often it happens. So I can tell you I believe only the mother. Only my mother and I share do not trust anyone else. I know now much it hurt but calm Better late than never. Everything will be ordered. Have a nice day!
• United States
15 Jun 11
Communication is the key. I have been betrayed and lied to and all I ask is for communication. There is know point in lying when all you have to do is open your mouth and speak on how you feel. I do not think that anyone can gain trust back if there is not an open line of communication.
@detect (8)
15 Jun 11
love is ****** (*****its been long time******)
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@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
15 Jun 11
Well I think of it this way. Do not penalize the people around you for another persons mistake. It is not their punishment to serve. If you had a girlfriend who has betrayed up then your trust problem should stay with her only until someone else betrays you then make your problem with them as well. If someone has done absolutely nothing to make you not trust them, then it is not fair to put that burden on them. I am in a relationship now where we are trying to work on the trust issue because every one of my boyfriends ex-girlfriends cheated on him with his cousins and friends, so now I get punished for their mistakes and he does not trust me. No matter how many times I have to tell him they are not who I want I want him and he is the only one in my eyes he still has a problem believing it because he has went through so many girls who have said the same thing but were not faithful. So nonetheless keep the issues with the person that deserves them not the ones who are faithful.