I'd Do Anything For Love: How Far You Can Go?
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
Philippines
June 15, 2011 12:31pm CST
hello mylotters,
When we are In love it is something we can't hide
Everything is perfect and colorful
Some people fight for it even they will get hurt at the end
What if you are against all odds?
What if the person you love can't love you back?
How far you can go In the Name Of Love?
Or you just simply do anything for love
I was listening to this song and I wondered how far I can go in the name of love?
I did before I fight for him but we are not meant to be
I just keep all the memories and thankful enough that once I've been in love and get hurt.
NOT A REFERRAL LINK:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hE5_AZvcpfo
happy mylotting
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17 responses
@GemmaR (8517)
•
16 Jun 11
I think that if you have to do strange and weird things for love, then it probably isn't worth it, and you should maybe try to love somebody who would be a little bit more respectful of you. I love my partner who I'm with at the moment, but if he ever asked me to sacrifice anything major for him I would tell him that if he truly loved me then he just would not expect me to do that. "Love" is a peculiar thing, and I think that a lot of people believe that they are in love when they're probably not. It's just a label that people put on strong feelings of any kind.
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@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
hi Gemmar,
Yes it's a strong feelings a natural feelings too......
We have different belief when we are In love
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
16 Jun 11
Yes it is.
I thank you very much for your attention.
Have a nice day!
but can you make friends here.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
hello.....
Sometimes even how much effort you put on it if only one person is working on it that will be useless.
You need g/f
you too take care
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
hi dear,
don't give up we never know what will happen
just hold on as long as you can
we are just here
miss yah!
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
16 Jun 11
Bhaby..
First i thought it was a discussion by Jai beti,
I never had any love affair prior to marriage, i was married to Professor when i was 15 only, but since 1966 we are together, very happy, we love each other so much..
I know peoplewho can do any thing in the name of love..
Thank you so much for sharing your feelings and the video
Namastey.
^Kalyani^
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
17 Jun 11
Actually Ma it was Jai's idea she told me to put something like this on my discussion
Hope Baba is getting better now
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@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Hi Ma,
Jai's discussion?Why?
I know that you and Baba is still in love with each other and I am happy for both of you, Some people do everything in the name of love but not all of them was successful one.
Aapka din accha ho
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@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
17 Jun 11
Honey beti, yes because it was almost similar to her discussions with a video link.
Yes he loves me so much, age has no efeect rather it makes the bond closer..
Thank you so much for sharing
Blessings from Maa,
^Kalyani^
@sjvg1976 (41289)
• Delhi, India
20 Jun 11
Hi babhycatch,
I cannot say because i have never been in love before marriage. Now that i have been married i love my wife but never been asked or got in to the situation where i would have gone to extreme limits.
I have seen many of people who doses everything in love.One of my friend was in a love with a girl & they both eloped & got married and now also living in the same city where their parents live after marriage.But they have not gone their homes after marriage. Now they have a kid too but it seems they both have forgotten their parents after getting married due to fear/embarrassment. Imagine for a love 1~2 years they forgot the love & affection of their parents which they were getting since they took birth.
This seems strange & answer to your question what person can do when he/she is in love.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
hi sjvg,
Thank you for sharing that story
Maybe they think it's not the right time to face their parents besides they made a big decision in their life it will take some times before they have the guts to face their parents.
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
maybe they have the reasons
or a fear that they will not be accepted by their parents it will never be easy
I hope it will not be too late for them to reconcile with their parents
@youaremylush (479)
• United States
15 Jun 11
I don't think I would do anything possible for love, but maybe almost anything. There are just some things I cannot do as a person, no matter who asked me to do them.
Against all odds seems like something I could do, possibly. If I fall in love with someone, they have to be something, because my criteria is insane. I think I'd go somewhere approximately around 5028 miles for love. That's far, right?
I don't know if I could have the same mentality on it that you do. I guess I'm kind of selfish and I couldn't think it was better to love than to never have loved at all.
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@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
hi youaremylush,
We have different belief when it comes to love
We can be selfish and insane when in the name of love somehow I think
5028 miles really far
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
@potrish78 (742)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
I don't know where to start. I'm thinking whether to tell you how stupid I am when it comes to love or how such a martyr I can be. Regardless, both are pathetic and I wish to be able to be a lot more stronger on the next one that is coming. I said that I'm such a martyr because I can go as far as helping the person I love so much to be with his one true love. I can bare all the pain as long as I know he would be happy. It's a very long story but to cut it short, I have been on the giving end never on the receiving end.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
hello portish,
I can figure out what you are trying to say oh well sometimes life is like that we love the person who can't love us back, contented to see them happy with someone else.
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
How if the person you love didn't love you back? This is really a big questions? Because if we love the wrong person. That mistakes hardly correct and need that mistakes correct by person which us the most...But we have another questions into that particular situation. How if we didn't love that person?
Life really has many questions? But those questions still have an answer and the answer is fulfillment...
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
hi aerous,
I have so many question and still unanswered
Life is full of twist and turn
Sometimes we made a decision without thinking what will be the consequences later on because we are In love
happy mylotting
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
bhaby,
You will know how far you can go in the name of love once you been there and once you feel and found true love in the real essence.
When you love someone you will never asks about the consequences.
You will never think of things that may hinder the love.
Love moves in mysterious ways...and love makes the world revolve.
Love knows what love means...but some people gives definition according to what they believed in,and how love made them.
Love can go as far as beyond imagination...and lovers can go beyond expectations.
You will find love...it will come no matter how you avoid it.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
jaiho,
I know that I go so far before and I don't know if I can still go farther than that on my future love
I am not avoiding LOVE I just want it to come in a natural way not with someone else
missing you
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@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
hello baba,
Really? Do you think I am in love? How I wish but I am not
Do you see the innocence of the girl in my avatar ?
nice to see you here
@gvenrose (30)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
I will do everything for love. My last boyfriend courted me when I was 17 years old but for some reason we did not end up together. After breaking up my first boyfriend he courted me again although he has a gf then and I know about it. I feel in love and swallow my pride. I experience a lot of heartaches, sleepless night and even did few stupid things just to get his attention. And yes, this guy is the father of my son and for some reason we didn't end up together.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
hello gvenrose,
You do enough it's just you are not meant to be
Your son is a blessing
thanks for the response
Welcome to Mylot
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Hi bhaby!
Considering the case you've given about love,I would say I will set him free. If he comes back then he is mine and we're meant to be. I don't want a love that is possessive friend,if he doesn't love me anymore then he is not happy with me anymore and if I love someone,his happiness means so much to me so I'll just set him free for him to be happy. Love is full of sacrifices my friend and letting go of that love is a big sacrifice but a big happiness on his part.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
hello mtrguanlao,
Letting go of someone we really love is a big sacrifice I did that 5 years ago but I can't say he is happy now but I am happy being single and did not regret the day I let him go
See you soon..........
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
16 Jun 11
Honestly I do not know if done within it.
must be some great and only love.
This can be done within it that person is in love.
But distance is very difficult.
However, you never know whether the other side will do this for you.
nice day!
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
hi nezavisima,
Both party should put an effort when it comes to a relationship
Distance can't be a hindrance as long as you can both be faithful
Only true love can do this
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
@kareemadivina (1230)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
I will do anything for love even if it's against all odds as long as I can feel the love of the other person.I swear I have done that.However, everything can change.When that person seems not to care for you anymore,I think it's time to give up.What's the point of having a one-sided relationship?At least you will not have regrets later if you have tried to do everything from the beginning.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
hi kareemadivina,
Being in a one sided relationship is useless it is better to be single rather than sticking with this kind of relationship specially if you already did enough to work things out,
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
@tonanana (91)
• China
15 Jun 11
I won't have the courage to do everything for love....
I'm not that brave....
I have parents to take care of in the future,
dreams to come true....
I have duty for my country where I was risen up and educated ....
and friends which have gave me power and confidence all the way up....
I can't ignore them just to go with you....
but I would like to spend the rest of my life to stay with you,just to do some silly sweet little things
——I can lose my soul for you,
just once but forever.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
hi tonanana,
If you found the person who deserve on your love for sure you will be brave enough to do everything
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
@keenan_savio (416)
• India
15 Jun 11
In my situation this would happen only in the beggining of a relationship when everythin seems to be going well. As we want all the attention of the other person we dont realise and just do anything for the person.
Its only after a few months in the relation we realise that the person may not be the right person or we are just tired of them and dont care for them much. Its quite interesting to know why this change takes place.
The best thing is to be loval to the person we love and always keep them happy.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
hi keena,
Well in the beginning of the relationship it can happen but it still depend on how you both work on it
Even how sure we are that they are the one if they are not our destiny sooner or later you will just be part ways.
happy mylotting
@dyeni23 (128)
•
15 Jun 11
I'd go as far as lowering my pride for that person. But to the point of stepping on my pride just to keep him. No. That'll only prove that person isn't worth it. If that person would allow you to let you go that far.If he genuinely loves you, that person wouldn't even let you lower your pride just for him/her.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
hi dyeni,
If you both love each other no need to be in the situation like that
Love is a wonderful feelings
thanks for the response
Welcome to Mylot