are you a jealous type of person

I could get jealous but I'm really not the jealous type. I guess when situation calls it, I get jealous. Whenever my girlfriend talks to another guy, it's quite alright but if she starts flirting, that's when I start feeling jealous.

Hi Simplyd, i can totally understand what you mean over here. I do have the same jealousy problem as you face. It makes me down and feel sad and angry all the time. Which is the reason why i felt that i definitely needed to change. However, I have tried millions of times, yet, i am still unable to change. I get jealous at all sorts of time. when my boyfriend tells his sister things that I don't know, I get really mad. When my boyfriend tells his problems to his brother, i'll get jealous too, thinking that he should be telling me. I should be the one who is sharing his problems. I think we have the same problem because i can't help myself too. It's like beyond our control and this makes me feel terrible at times.

Jealousy has always been an ugly word so one must refrain from this bad attitude. Being jealous is a sign of insecurity, selfishness and lack of trust and regard for others. If you think you are really into it then do something to cure yourself. Just consider the fact that you are not doing yourself a favor when you feel jealous.

I can also say as someone who easily jealous. But, I'm not jealous not because of stupid things. I am jealous of people who could always be obedient to God. I always wanted to be like them. But, I always, do not be like them.

"It's not just you, it's also me!" I think jealousy is quite normal for all of us. As they say, if there is jealousy, there is love. But it can be wrong for some nature. As long as your jealousy is really for loving not possessing and being obsessed to the person. There are also instances that you should try to control your emotions. Jealousy can sometimes ruin a relationship. Try to let your emotions out. Talk to the person concern about your real feelings. I think talking things through will somehow ease the pain you are keeping inside.

I envy the rich...I envy the peaceful...I envy the worshipful.. I feel jealous ... I care only about myself...and I hate every other person. and I'm a bad human.. thanks for the topic... have a great day/night....

I feel very sorry for you because you would be making your own life miserable all the time. But , you have been very frank about it and are not denying the fact.Some people , who I know are not even aware of the fact and delude themselves. YOur self analysis is a path to change and you may change with some inner training.I feel that this jealousy has arisen as a result of some insecurity of yours . Keep looking at other people who do not have a husband at all.[a widow or divorcee] You will realise how fortunate you are. YOu have to keep telling yourslef everyday how fortunate you have been born by looking at other people who are worse off than you in life.Moreover, there is one important thing you have to remember in life.If you behave badly on account of your jealousy, your husband or friends would only drift further away from you.THen you are going to have real cause for jealousy. If you feel jealous just because your husband coems home late you would show it in some way. THen he will start coming late even if he has no legitimate reason. Try and make attempts to change and pray genuinely to GOD.He would guide you .Take care.

I am almost ashamed to say that I am most certainly the jealous type of person. When I broke up with my boyfriend just after Christmas (we're now back together, and engaged actually) I spent so much time looking at his online accounts seeing if he had been talking to anybody else, and I was always gutted when he had chatted to them and ignored the messages that I had sent to him. Luckily he's the only person I have ever been like this about, and it looks as though that might be because we are actually meant to be together, and I never stopped loving him even though we did break up for a little while for various reasons.

hi SIMPLYD! I can actually relate to you for I am too a jealous person. Even before when I was young, am really jealous. I got jealous to my sister everytime she gets more attractive toys than me... I got jealous when I felt I was being left alone or out cast... Super jealous when my husband went home late and was not answering his cell phone... I guess, I am not just a jealous person but also paranoid... My imagination sometimes goes far... Like you, I really hate the feeling... This feeling of insecurity is really killing my personality, making my day bad... You know what, I am trying so hard to change... I know this is not healthy for me and for the people around me whom I love... You know what... prayer helps alot. Everytime I am feeling that my jealousy is already starting I tried hard to clear my mind and condition myself... It is actually all in my mind... For us love fully, we must learn to trust... And I am working on it... I hate the feeling of this, being manipulated by my own bad emotions and thinking... Mybe this has something to do with childhood as well... Take care!

Jealous is a good to show our concern to someone. But too much of jealous or unreasonable jealous will cause a lot of problem to maintain a good relationship with someone. For me, I shall jealous if my partner is too close to another guy. This should be reasonable for me to jealous because I concern her very much. If my children sent many short messages to her and she told me about them, then I shall be glad of such good relationship in between her with her children. Not everything we should jealous. Sometimes, we should admire and appreciate of what we have.

Proper jealous is reasonable but excessive jealous is bad,so we should control ourselves and correct it,i am not much a jealous type of person,but my husband is like this,it is really bad,i hate it.

Jealousy is completely natural. I would feel the same, besides the daughter texting thing (I don't see how that bothers you). I get jealous all the time though, so no need to worry.

I've always heard that jealousy is a sign of insecurity. I think it is hard sometimes, though, not to be jealous. I used to get a little jealous when my daughter would talk to her dad on the phone. We haven't lived as a family for a very long time due to divorce. Anyway I kind of felt that she would love him more than me. I know that is silly but I was that way. I'm not that way anymore about that.

Jealousy is okay, but to much can be very harmful to your relationships. I am lucky that i am not to bad of a jealous person. The only thing i am very jealous about is when my husband gets to go out with his friends all the time while i stay home with my children. That bugs the crap out of me! But other than that i am not the jealous kind becuase i had many boyfriends in the past that were jealous of everything and it drove me crazy, so i swore i wouldnt be like that. Just remember.. Are the things you are getting jealous over really worth it?

Dear Dina Jealousy is part of our life, so each of us is jealous in one way or other.. Thank you so much for sharing your ways of getting jealous Namastey. ^Kalyani^