guy talk...girl talk
By janefatima
@janefatima (347)
Philippines
June 16, 2011 9:38am CST
I have interacted with some guys already when they talk about anything in their lives. Most of the guys keep on sharing ideas about the girl that they meet. Like how beautiful, sexy, smart, etc. I noticed that they are more attracted to physical appearance with girls. But I have a friend who is one of my mentor and friend always try to share his thoughts about girls. That he told me that guys are attracted physical appearance but they are more attracted if they can see that girl is somewhat like a wife material. They tend to get along those beautiful, hot, sexy gals but most of those are just for a night or short span of time. I don't know if this could be true but if that is the case why is it that there are still a lot of women out there who are enjoying their lives with different men to get along with. They tend to agree to let guys use them for one night stands or whatsoever.
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6 responses
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
16 Jun 11
Jane ! this depends on value system you have formed within yourself. What are the factors for which you give importance. Your parents have brought you in a way or you have formed ideas -- this is good -- that is not good. You react to people based on that.
the success lies in your identifying a partner who can share your ideas --on religion, food, entertainment, family values etc.
A few people who are brought in families where the value system is not given importance possibly they may evolve different strategies to which you will not agree or concur.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
17 Jun 11
Thanks Jane for selecting my comments as the best response. Blessings and good wishes and God will guide you through the right path all times.
@janefatima (347)
• Philippines
17 Jun 11
Hi. I'm kinda confuse if how can I know if there is a reply from what I posted?
Like do I need to see the things that I've wrote?
Or there are notifications that can be seen?Thanks.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
17 Jun 11
You know the discussion initiated by you. You go through all the comments and reply comments given by you. (second there is no need because u have only given). Whatever you tick + for them. Whatever you totally dislike mark - (I suggest u use this occasionally). Wherever some wrong communication with wrong motive is there u can inform admin by pressing !.
Besides selecting best responses I go through all the comments and wherever + is required I give them.
It is not a tough job. You see ! Raise interesting topics so that more people will respond. Whenever u get time you can go into that and give reply comments. It should not be oneliners. You must be able to write at least two or three sentences different remarks for each response.
When we start more discussions more people will be known to us, we can give them best response and they will also give best response if they like ours. By starting a discussion u retain the command to reward others.
Yesterday I got 1+. But i was online for minimum 5 hours. Notifications are mails from admin telling that some of our comments are being deleted for reasons--like using other language, commenting on standard of english like that,.
If u have any other doubt please post.
@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
17 Jun 11
I think most people see that way... and yes, for me I like a girl that really give me attention and care, like what you said "like a wife material". It really so attractive for a men to see a cute women, a sexy women... and I know the same with the women. But what really so important at all is what he/she really is after that first impression.
@for3verfamous (2190)
• Canada
16 Jun 11
Yes guys do this but people don't realize girls do too! It's natural for them to be drawn to a guy by their looks.. Even though they might not admit it. Girls are drawn to a guy by their physical appearance, then after that they look for personality traits in the guy that they like.
Guys don't really look for the personality traits as much, they are just thinking about the beautiful girl they are with.. 
They may not be LOOKING for love like girls are, but they fall in love and THEN they realize the girl has a great personality as well.
They may not be LOOKING for love like girls are, but they fall in love and THEN they realize the girl has a great personality as well.
@toniganzon (72533)
• Philippines
17 Jun 11
A male friend once told me that it is the woman's mind he makes love to. Physical appearance deserves a glance but for long term relationship, it takes more than just the looks.
I appreciate good looking men but I love the man because of his personality. I can smile to a handsome man but it's the guy with sense of humor I wanna laugh and dine with.
@castpah12 (4)
• United States
16 Jun 11
yeah the physical beauty appearance is what matter's to most men's the wifey gotta be cute
@mskauchi (36)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
When other guys look at a girl, they see more than just how a she looks. Personality plays a big part. There are plenty of hot chicks they don't see anything in because they're not very interesting, or they're mean, or some negative thing like that. Their personality changes the way they look. And honesty for guys is really important too. That's from a guy friend opinion.
