What's the telltale sign the relationship is going nowhere?

Philippines
June 16, 2011 11:13am CST
For me when the couple always quarrel with each other and even in minor things they get easily upset and blame each other. Then when the two fall out of love and not just because of simple break up. Other reasons I could think off when their is a time you get attracted to someone else. Their are just the so many reasons I could think of which could make or break it. How about you?
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@flower21 (765)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
when i do miss the person anymore. i just like to distance on him frequently. i am easily get irritated that i would not like to see his face. there are many changes in the behavior and they are many manifestation. suppose to before he is sweet, thoughtful and call me often now which all loss.those are the signs i could think of..
@gEa_88 (67)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
my telltale sign would be when both parties are seen without the natural smiles and laughs on their faces when they are together. I think the major point in relationship is happiness going on with each other. Tears are also a part of it, but not always. Yes, I also I agree when the boy or girl get to focus on the temptations already rather than the partner.
• Philippines
18 Jun 11
yes humor is very important between partner and it makes them more closer without it feel empty. so their is no use being together when they both feel sad with each other company. humor liven any relationship when the partner has problem the other would think of strategy to brighten the face of his love. of course with humor means they have develop good communication that makes them bond stronger.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
18 Jun 11
I think it consists of alot of things like lying, cheating, arguing, lack of communication etc. Those are all signs that it is going to fail.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
17 Jun 11
some you mention are the first signs and it goes deeper when the couple grow attach with each other. it hurt to know if a partner cheat or fall out of love. but it the reality and would accept it. those mind and emotion player are the one that hurt the most. they promise and use you. the time is wasted and they never talk frankly.so i think the most noticeable signs when they used to do this or that but change suddenly.
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• Philippines
17 Jun 11
the best telltale sign that a relationship is when the people involved is always in a fight and no longer cares for what the other partner feels.
• United States
16 Jun 11
Fighting is good, fighting is healthy. Fighting is a type of communication, but always fighting is also not good. If the good times are outweighed by the bad you have to ask yourself if its worth it. But you know the relationship is nearing the end when they stop fighting, and stop communicating.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 11
If it is lovers quarrel it won't strain the relationship. But you have to beware of 'non communication' The breakdown of communication where both partners don't communicate much to each other shows they have no common interest and is not compatible to each other.