He is my opposite
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
Philippines
June 17, 2011 8:41am CST
Every time my partner and I have an argument, he always tell me that he is my opposite that's why both of us got attracted to each other. I really want to believe in him but sometimes I think it's just a coincidence like I am the organized one while he is unorganized. Like he loves to eat while I don't, like he loves meat while I am a vegetarian. Those simple things proves me that he is really destined for me but sometimes I am not convince because I was expecting someone who is somewhat like me; organized, religious, has the same taste of food just like me, someone who loves reading books etc, but it came out that the man I have now is really my opposite. How about you, is your partner your opposite? And do you think opposites are better when together?
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@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
17 Jun 11
hi its similar here. I always wanted a Catholic booklover as a partner and who got interested in me and married me almost 6 years ago? A protestant guy who will read books only if they are computer books or cook books and who is my opposite in many other areas and facets of life.
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
• Philippines
17 Jun 11
hehe.. I guess opposite attracts to some just like us..
@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
17 Jun 11
really seems to be true that opposites attract. We get on great with each other the only thing I told him from the beginning was that I would never leave the church as I was reconciled shortly before we met.
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
18 Jun 11
Well now i'm single but the girl i love (blah its complicated and one sided now but who cares ) Is pretty much the opposite of me .
Its like you said : I love eating , i hate meat , i dont read books and other simple things like that witch she is the opposite . But i think being the same will be kind of .... boring :) There is the love we share that i think is the only thing enough to be the common thing between us :D (nah i'm too lovely dovely person :D )
But anyway i think different is normal and good :)
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
I also had a relationship with someone just like me and it worked so well but he cheated that's why but if I were to compare my relationship with him before and with my current relationship, I prefer my past relationship since we seldom argue and we talked things/everything easily unlike today, we always end up arguing but I feel great that I am learning after every argument.
@CarlHalling (3617)
• United Kingdom
17 Jun 11
It is famous that opposites do indeed attract: and this is especially true in romantic relationships where mystery is so important. It's like a person knows what they are like, and is fascinated and irresistibly drawn to qualities they cannot quite understand in another. Of course, the very things that draw a person to another can cause tension at times. A lot of understanding and compromise may be necessary to preserve the special nature of the relationship.
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
• Philippines
17 Jun 11
yeah, compromise is one key for a lasting relationship.
