Language problem with my loved ones. Please help me

Have a serious converation with the both of them, not just one but make sure the both of them are there. Express your feelings and concerns, be honest, stay calm and let them know exactly how you feel. If they are you true friends, then they will respect your wishes and understand the fact that you feel left out, when you are around them. I am pretty sure that they will understand and try to amend your wishes.

Hey there, I know how you feel. I have couple of Japanese friends and when they do that I feel so left out. I mean they know how to speak Korean/English so I'd be glad if they spoke in a language we all can understand. But yeah I have never told them to not do that, I think it's kinda rude to point them out for speaking their native language. Anyway they are good people and I love them.

I don't think your friends are right when she told you , you need to lean another language just to cope up with them. I think it is unethical to talk when there's someone who can't understand any world you are talking about. They should be discreet enough and tactful to think that you can't speak their language. They may be kind-hear ted but really inconsiderate.When my co-workers speak in their mother's tongue I always remind them hey, someone here does not speak your language, then they will ask for apologies and speak in a common language.

I'm in exactly the same position like you and it's really frustrating sometimes. Very often I feel as like I'm left aside because I don't know the language which is not that nice. I think that if in a group there are people from different nationalities they should speak language that everybody understands. It's not polite to ignore people from the group just because they don't understand. And if your friends really appreciate you why are they doing this? It's very easy to say "learn the language". I quitted a lot of friendship relations because of this. At the end of the day you are with these people to have fun but if you're suffering every time they start to talk their language what fun is this? I'm better off!!! If they like to be with me then let's talk language that all of us know. Am I right?

Yes yu should talk to them and tell them what you feel. If they are as good a friend as you think they are.. they will definitely understand your problem and will help you get along.

Tell them how you're feeling. One of my best friends and another friend who was an exchange student both spoke Spanish and English. Of course, around each other, they would rattle off Spanish perfectly and go back and forth all the time. I thought it was interesting to listen to because I'm trying to learn Spanish, but several of my friends, especially the ones taking German and French, got extremely annoyed by it. They sat both of them and said, "We don't care if no one else is trying to talk to you, but if someone else is around and wants to be part of the conversation, speak English, please? Otherwise we just feel left out." It worked! If they're your friends, they'll listen to you. It might also be fun for them to try to teach you their language, even if it wouldn't be all that serious.

o know how a friend! When your friends talk you if you ignored. indeed it can not. Apparently they both have a common topic of conversation about it. But if they are your true friends will show it to you differently because your feelings never diverge. That you feel so bad but you try and talk to them more and will learn the language. nice day!