getting away from everyone with mylot..
By geonelynn
@geonelynn (369)
Philippines
June 18, 2011 3:25pm CST
i am just happy i have stumbled upon mylot almost 4 years ago. had it not been, i wouldn't have anywhere in the internet that i can express my feelings too - while earning at the same time! haha. 
i have realized the importance of mylot on my lowly days when i just want to get away from my friends and be alone. it is like my secret haven where i can be myself and post whatever i want to without having to fear that one of my relatives or friends would notice how melancholic i am on a certain day. there are days i want everybody's sympathy, there are also days that i want to goof around with everybody and vent ..facebook is always there for that. but when there are times that i want to keep my feelings for myself, there is always mylot. i don't know all of my friends here in mylot and this is somewhat helpful because when they see my posts, they would be objective in commenting on my discussions; these will never be biased because they don't know me and no one here ever came close of knowing me. 
i just realized this lately when i went through hell in my life and the only thing that i find most appropriate is to type my feelings (i am lazy at journalling/writing 
). and one way or another, i am nurturing the writer in me.
thank you mylot.
i hope a lot of mylotters can relate to this too!
i have realized the importance of mylot on my lowly days when i just want to get away from my friends and be alone. it is like my secret haven where i can be myself and post whatever i want to without having to fear that one of my relatives or friends would notice how melancholic i am on a certain day. there are days i want everybody's sympathy, there are also days that i want to goof around with everybody and vent ..facebook is always there for that. but when there are times that i want to keep my feelings for myself, there is always mylot. i don't know all of my friends here in mylot and this is somewhat helpful because when they see my posts, they would be objective in commenting on my discussions; these will never be biased because they don't know me and no one here ever came close of knowing me.
i just realized this lately when i went through hell in my life and the only thing that i find most appropriate is to type my feelings (i am lazy at journalling/writing ). and one way or another, i am nurturing the writer in me.
thank you mylot.
i hope a lot of mylotters can relate to this too!1 person likes this
3 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
19 Jun 11
I am very happy to always hear that many members are very pleased with myLot. I am in your same sorts as when I first came here I did not come with friends. I was going through a really tough time in my life and found myLot to be a very relaxing and enjoyable place to share with many members from around the world.
This is such a great place to get objective advice and share so much with so many people from all over. So I agree with you that I too am very grateful being a member here.
1 person likes this
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Jun 11
hi hwg you and diana to me are the real winners here as you both have helped so manny newbies and I always hoped they would realize you
both were giving your all , and would really appreciate it. and at
one time I was so afraid you were going to quit., you did not and i am really glad we have you here.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
19 Jun 11
Mrs. Hatley, 
You know those sweet words you directed to me during early membership here did wonders for me. I will never forget them, and as I tell mysd and definitely will always share with you is that since then I do like to pay it forward.
You know those sweet words you directed to me during early membership here did wonders for me. I will never forget them, and as I tell mysd and definitely will always share with you is that since then I do like to pay it forward. 
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
Hello Hatley here username is very appropraite for her doing here in mylot, because if you can observe most of the discussion she is there to comments and her comments are very helpful to other.. keep it up my friend...I've seen in your dedication the enjoyment.. take care. 
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
You look like eager to stay always here in mylot but something barrier on your path, anyway we are expecting you now that your being active from now on.. And expecting from me a sure comments as soon as seen your discussion here in mylot.. Your correct always mylot around when we needed most specially when we are lonely in our daily lives...
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Jun 11
hi geonelynn I think a lot of us come here for the same reasons and we find help here without anyone pitying us from our families or friends.we can be ourselves here and as long as we do not break the rules of discussions we can vent here. I know I have come here and relaxed and let worries just float off while I had fun and enjoyed myself. I have made some really wonderful friends here too whom although we have never met I have trusted with my feelings. I like you have gone through some tough times and mylot and mylot friends have helped me so much. I have said a lot of times mylot is a lot better for us than a shrink and a lot cheaper too. lol hugs from hatley. have fun here too though.
