Struggle what to do...
By xxj3ffxx
@xxj3ffxx (501)
Australia
June 18, 2011 7:00pm CST
The story is very long.. but i will just cut it short..
I had been dating this girl back in Malaysia... but I told her that I like her just one months before i left to Australia. She told me.. Jeff you are selfish to tell me this just before you leave Malaysia.
Well.. before that she didnt know if she would come to Australia too for studies, two weeks ago, she told me that she decided to come here to study too. I was very happy but sad at the same time, I will be finishing my studies this semester and may also leave Australia because of Visa problem. My student visa ends in September and It seems impossible for me to change my visa as I stayed here for only 1year.
I'm really like this girl and wish to stay with her... what should i do? I wanted to write her poem and then what? I am scared to break her heart. Can I just give her the poem and hope for the best. Can I promise her that i would come back for her when I do not know what may happen in the future? Is there any possible visa i can apply here? I cannot study further unfortunately because of Financial problem...
6 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
I really wouldn't know any of the technicalities. All I can say is if you really like her, go for it. Do your best for her to fall for you. I remember writing a song and singing it during a senior prom for a girl I really fancied. I was in second year college and she was in 10th grade. I auditioned to be one of the guest performers in their prom that's why I got in. I sang her my composition and she loved it but she turned me down three days later.
The ending wasn't so good but at least I don't regret the whole thing.
The ending wasn't so good but at least I don't regret the whole thing.
@investor211 (474)
• Mexico
19 Jun 11
hi there my friend, i hope you are fine now, im so sorry for what you are feeling right now, i imagine you situation, lets see now, you have tell here that you really like this girl, i imagine that this is love?, how about her? do you know something about her?, does she feel the same for you?
remember if you dont finish your studies, there is no good future for you and your partner, you most graduate to offer a good future for both, im sue you have experience to have another girlfriend before, so you most know now what is best for you.
@blueangelwrites (149)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
Go write the poem and express your feelings through it. Tell her about your situation and if she likes you too, you'll both think of something to build your budding relationship. This is the beauty of life, you never exactly know what happens when you are already there. You just gotta try to do something to make things go your way if you really want it. In the meantime, make the best of the time the two of still have together there in Australia. Who knows, she might go back to Malaysia for vacations or decide to continue her studies there. Please be prepared for anything and don't make uncertain decisions. She must also decide on her own on this one. Best of luck to you both. Be happy.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
19 Jun 11
I am sorry that things are not working out the way you hope it would. I would say that you be completely honest, as it sounds you have been with her thus far and if you want to write the poem, do so as this will make the both of you happy.
Explain the reasons why you perhaps cannot stay, though she may be hurt as it sounds like she likes you too. But in the meantime enjoy every last minute you two have with one another and continue to write one another thereafter.
You just don't know what life may bring and maybe someday you two can be together. I would suggest not to waste anytime being afraid and continue to enjoy one another company to the last day.
Good luck and hope there would be a way for both of you to be together. I would not worry about whether what ifs and continue enjoying each others company. As for the Visa, can you ask a guidance counselor at your school for help. Maybe they can help with that. Best of luck to you.
@feeltheirie (301)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
It looks like you and this girl always have bad timing. If you guys are meant for each other, I believe fate will lead you back together. If there is really nothing you can do to stay in Australia, then it is something that it realy up to fate. You can maybe try long distance realtionship, but still it is different from being physically together.
@ordinarygirl88 (175)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
Don't promise if you're not sure yet, you'll just break her heart if you won't let it heppen... a lot of things may happen in such a small span of time.. you wouldn't know when you get back to Malaysia you'll be able to meet another girl... give time for yourself, if she's really the ONE... but, you can still send her poems because that's the only way you can express your love to her....
