im still missing my ex boyfriend T.T

Hey there. Sounds like you're not over him. I can totally relate to you coz I felt like you once. When we broke up, I was so devastated and broke. I wanted to do nothing and I still loved him for so long. Then one day I realized that crying for someone who doesn't deserve it isn't worth it. So i just picked myself up (with the help of my friends of course), dusted and moved on. There was this emptiness in my heart but it got filled soon. He was my first and only love upto date. he still comes to my mind sometimes but I've moved on for good. And I hope you realize it soon too, that crying for someone who'll not come back is not worth it. Move on, there are a lot of people yet to meet =) Good luck^^

Hello chinitz! A hearty welcome to mylot! mmm, I understand what you are going through dear, but you must understand something, everything happens for a reason and move forward. You still care about him, yes. Why not? He is someone you had loved for sometime and been in a relationship with. Love doesn't just fade away when you call the relationship off. If you still miss him so strongly, try getting back to him and sort out the differences that you guys share and see to it that you guys live together happily. If that is not possible, then try concentrating on something that will not give you a chance to remember him. Keep yourself so busy that you don't find time even for yourself, then you will be fine in sometime. Time will heel the things and scars in your heart! Cheers!

It's normal dear chinitz. But one I'm sure of is that, sooner or later you will be able to get even of that feeling. Diverting your attention to other important things may help.

For me love another and feel he is better than your ex then by doing it you can't remember your ex.

its quite humiliating to have feelings for someone who doesn't luv you or have feelings for you.i think you should move on with you life.try to love someone else because you cant keep on chasing the wind.Pray God that you will be able to love another person.but don't turn back on what got out of your hands.

It's okay to feel that way. It is natural for some feeling, be it good or not to just let it vanish by themselves. Just like loving someone. We cannot teach ourselves to do so. It just comes naturally. Don't worry it will go away and you will never know you are forgetting him even before you know. Just try avoiding doing things that will not help you forget about him. Since you asked how I handle it, I just try to do something else and get myself busy and try all the best I can to forget about him. Because there is no use feeling and thinking about someone who doesn't think about you anymore. Move on. You deserve someone else.

Missing someone is healthy. If he doesn't care about your feelings then be glad you aren't in a relationship with a non-caring person any longer and have free rein to look elsewhere. STOP VIEWING HIS PROFILE!! You are only hurting yourself. Make a concious decision not to do this anymore. How do you quit missing your ex? You fill your time with other things so you have no time to think about him. Get a part time job, hang out with friends, --something. Go someplace where you might meet someone else. Time to move on.

I knew about this feeling. It is unbearable, but it is uncontrollable too. What I will do. I can't control my thought, so I might keep myself extremely day and night. I won't try to make myself drunk or anything like that. But I definitely want to do something that would take my mind away from thinking about my ex again. Make myself tired, and lay down on my bed and fall asleep for the night. Next day morning I wake up again, I would feel refresh. Some feeling for my ex might remains, and I would do the same again, gradually, you might not feel as painful as right now.

I'm so sorry! unfortunately there's nothing that can cure this but time. as you are not together, I'm 90% sure he's not the man of your life, so you remember about him because of unfinished bussiness, there's something you might need to learn from your history with him, or about this person...something only you will find... thankfully our soul mate will ALWAYS love us back, I wish you to find that as soon as possible... missing is horrible, hugs*

He just left you empty you say right then I think he does not deserve the time you spend thinking about him. I think that you should just move forward and let this event be behind you. There are lots of things to look forward to. I do not know them but for sure they are something especial. Just spend more time with family or friends then without you knowing it things will be fine.

To get over ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend is not easy, because i believe thet one problem is sometimes is tricky. in addition, to get over ex- , the characteristic and feelings of each individual will vary so that decisions and commitments we would greately contribute to really get to forget about thee ex-. tips to forgetex- , my version, the first is a commitment. commitment to prove youself that you can live without him. keep living the days you are, do not act as if life had stopped in you. Stay strong and continue to be who you are..