First Love Never Dies: True Or False?
By keshlois143
@keshlois143 (713)
Philippines
June 21, 2011 1:06am CST
Relationship is really one of my favorite interests here because it refers primarily to the greatest force in the whole wide world. That is love. And one of the best issues being tackled now a days about love is the saying that goes this way: First Love Never Dies. It is even one of the top ten songs selected by a lot of people. Everybody really does love. What does that first love never dies mean, anyway? Is it when you are married and you had once been in a relationship before your marriage, still you love the one that you had before? That is unfair to your current spouse! Is it that first love that beats when you see your former girlfriend or boyfriend again after many years even if she or he is already under another's arms? Is it true that you still have that beats in your heart for the person you had loved before when you cross your paths anew even when you are already both in a family of your own? I do not want to agree to this saying. It is going to be unfair that I am being loved by someone whose heart still beats even with bit beats towards the person he had loved long time ago. I mean I do not want this to happen to me. If you are already in a relationship, of course, it is always an expectation to see you giving all your lovebeats to your lover and lovedone,now.
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@dont_pick_your_nose (2279)
• Australia
21 Jun 11
I think first love is real. I agree with your arguement but love is an emotion. Something that we feel, we can only control it so much. I guess acting on it is a different thing if you are in a relationship. I think a marridge or family is a bond that shouldn't be made then broken. I think it's a sign to show your commitment and it would be crazy to think it would all ne thrown away for a chance at your first love. Love is unpredictable, who you have feelings for isn't necesarily the one your are suppossed to spend your life with. Especially if this person on your mind changes frequently.
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
21 Jun 11
When it comes down to it, our emotions.. including feelings of love all come down to the chemical reactions in the brain. Why do we grow in love with the people we do? It comes down to chemistry. At some point, though, our chemistry can change and we hook up with someone else who has a stronger chemical reaction. Old bonds are broken and new bonds are formed.. just like the valences in chemical reactions.
@samijo719 (1052)
• United States
21 Jun 11
I think that your first love is always in your heart. When you love someone and hVe that kind of relationship, feelings never 100% go away. You may noy love them the same. You may just still care about them and its not unfair yo your current partner, you can love people in different ways and its bot that you love them less you will jusy always care for your first love as they are a part of your life and your past to where yoi are today.
@ordinarygirl88 (175)
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
for me, its not true... because my first love is my best friend.. and I can't feel anything right now towards him.. its like having a brother...
I just wanna add this.. Don't expect too much in a relationship because it will lead you to pain... just expect the unexpected...
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
21 Jun 11
Personally, I don't believe that first loves NEVER die.. my first love was my first love and that is all. I married him and had a daughter. We divorced and we went on with our lives. He married again and has been married for 35 years and it is the best love of his life. I married again and was married for 10 years. I think that divorce hurt me worse than the first one did. It took me about 5 years to get over him completely, but I don't have any warm and fuzzies over first, second or even third loves... love happens and it goes away sometimes, and it can't be helped. Both people have to be on board in order for the love to continue, and if they aren't plugged in to the relationship, then the love will die.
@foxxynik (11)
• Nigeria
21 Jun 11
You'd notice that a teen will novicely full so deeply for any guy or girl that will show he/she love in their 1st relationship. Imagine that kinda of blind relationship grow to an extend and later breakup. Do you think the new matured couple will ever forget their past fun? I think that first love is that of the first relationship one give out his or her heart fully for lovingsake and therefore it doesnt die.
