Could parents peep their children's diary?

China
June 21, 2011 10:48am CST
Hi, everyone, the thing that parents peep their child's diary happens from time to time, people have differnt opinions on this matter, and each has their own reasons, what is your view about it? besides, do you think that parents should how to respect children's privacy?
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@moneywinner (1864)
• Brazil
22 Jun 11
Parent's definetly shouldn't peep their children's diary. That's so wrong. The parents have to respect their sons privacy. If the children find out, she's going to lose the trust that she have on her parents and that can be hard to recover. I know that some parents says that is ok to peep in their children's diary if they think that something really bad is going on with her. I think if that's the case, the best think to do is talk openly with the children and let her know that she can talk anything with her parents that they will understand.
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• China
22 Jun 11
Hi, thank you for the response, i am more agree with you, it wil be better to talk openly with children instead of peeping their diary...and wish you have a happy time...
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
25 Jul 11
Hello lily and welcome to myLot. I'm going to go against go against the majority here so far. I don't believe a child living at home has any RIGHTS to privacy. They are totally dependent on the parents and if t hey are in trouble or have a problem the parents are responsible for them. Now having said that I would not read my child's diary unless I felt they were hiding something from me that might affect their life.
• China
26 Jul 11
Hi deebomb, thanks for your different response, i am sorry i do not entirely agree with you, i think everyone have the privacy and should be respected, of course, including children who have their own cognitive, but, in some special situation, it is necessary that a child need parent's correct guidance, and something should know by parents...and have a nice day...^.^...
• Australia
22 Jun 11
I don't think that they should, it is an invasion of privacy. I could think of many reasons why a parent would want to but i think everyone should be allowed the right to personal thoughts without having an age limit on when your privacy is respected by your family.
• China
26 Jul 11
Yes, generally speaking, i quite agree with you, and the invasion of privacy should be respected, and have a nice day...
@ravend (658)
• Malta
21 Jun 11
If you are worried; than yes. BUt whatever you do do not let them know you saw. Act discreet; don't lose their trust. DOn't let them know you broke their personal space, they need after all; their area and space where to develop into their own persons.
• China
22 Jun 11
Yes, i am agree with you, that would be bad if you lose your kids' trust...
• United States
21 Jun 11
I think if it's absolutely necessary to look into a child's diary, then the parent should have that right. The parent usually wants the best for the child and is just looking out for them, so it shouldn't really matter if it's an "invasion of privacy". The parent just wants the best. And plus, the parent should have the authority to do that. They are the parent for one, and the kid is not old enough to make their own decision.
• China
22 Jun 11
Hi, thanks for your response, but i am not quite agree with your point of view, after all, even the children, they need enough privacy space, although as we know, all the parents love their children and want to understand children more...well, good time mylotting...
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
i think parents should give their kids privacy because i think they are doing this because they are shy to tell this information to their parents and are afraid that it may cause trouble. or the kids are just not ready to share it , just yet.
• China
22 Jun 11
Well, I and your viewpoint is similar, but even so, there are still have some parents do this...
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Jun 11
This is just my opinion but I have two answers kind of so let me explain... I feel that in some ways if there is a reason for it then yes. If you feel they are doing something terrible or they might be in danger for some reason then I think it might be a good idea. However, if it's just to be nosy and you have no reason to think anything is wrong and they are a really good kid in school and pretty good at home then I don't see a reason for it. I am a mother of 3 and if I sense my children are in danger I am absolutely going to make sure they are okay and keeping out of major trouble. If there is nothing happening and I don't sense anything wrong then I will not read their diary. I know it is something personal and unless it's an extreme situation I will keep their business their business. =)
• China
22 Jun 11
Hi, friend, thanks for the response, that makes sense, but personly, i think almost all the children will be angry at that moment if their parents peep the diaries no matter in any situation, and you will be a great mamma...have a nice time mylotting...^.^...
• Beijing, China
15 Oct 13
i cann't bear my parents peeping my dairy, everyone has some secrets