Really hard..... very hard.

Hi shiby! Oh my my my brother.... Why did you clapping?? Never mind I can understand that~'Come here as my parents recommended'??? She should not have to come at all..I feel quite angry because she did not think about your feelings when she said that. Open a 'matrimonial' button?? I think you should create a new interest with 'Finding partners' as the subject of matter. Anyway the button is a good suggestion too~ But it will make mylot like a matchmaking site. Hey, try again in searching you Mrs.right and register in some matchmaking site will be good too..

I've never ever believes in bride searching all my life because I am a believer and I am trusting the lord, my Heavenly ABBA, for a life partner. I started attending New Creation Church, a mega church in my country, Singapore, and I've seen lots of people being blessed by the lord for a life partner of their choice and whats best is that most of them got married after 2 years of being in a relationship. So that's the reason why I believe so that the lord will somehow bless me with a life partner that exceeds my expectation if I keep on trusting and asking HIM for one.

I'm confused, Do you want to find love and then marry or do you want to marry and then love will come? If you want love then go out and enjoy an activity you like to do and look around, are there ant women enjoying it too/ If so start a friendship. If you are looking to marry, then search out a professional match maker.She/he will take down your traits and match you with a wife. Either way I wish you luck. It is so hard to find someone to love Or marry.

Well shibham, your encounter was quite filmy,wasn`t it? Good that you have taken it in the right spirit and with a good sense of humour.I feel that the best thing to do is wait for the right girl to arrive because everything happens at the right time and at the right place.If it is in your destiny then you will certainly meet the one who will marry you but in the meantime get on with your life and let things take their own course.Of course don`t give up and meeting any number of girls for who knows maybe one of them will turn out to be your dream girl.Good luck.

My advice for you is that you do not settle down. That's honestly the worst way to have it. I know so many people who just marry someone that's not that as good as they can get. And I don't mean in terms of looks and vanity, but how well their chemistry is. If you guys aren't comfortable with each other and can't do embarrassing things in front of each other without feeling awkward, then you probably aren't meant to be. And I don't want to say that those are the only two things that should be fulfilled. There should be many more. You should feel good about each other, and you should be able to enjoy each other's company. Don't just settle down and get into a relationship with someone you don't really like that much just so you can stop getting the usual concerns from family members saying that your biological time clock is running out. Guess what? We're serving the author of time. We shouldn't worry about how old we are, but that we find the right person for us. Please, it's about your happiness and your future with someone that you're going to spend the rest of your life with. Just because you're desperate doesn't mean that you have to marry or get into a relationship with someone you barely like. Find someone that's worth the wait. Find someone that you love.

Marriage is not a race. I believe that it is done when both are inlove and ready. Love is the most powerful key with trust and loyalty to each other. Love does not happen in just blink of an eye. Don't be too much pressured by your friends, your true love will come at the right time, be patient. Try to look at the girls around you from time to time, maybe she's just waiting for you to notice her.:)

How can someone you've never met before break your heart by saying she won't marry you? Why are you so obsessed with "finding a bride" to begin with? Why not just go on a date? Get to know a few girls. Don't expect an instant-wife to just be delivered to your doorstep. Love isn't some miracle that people are just randomly blessed with. It takes getting to know someone. It takes time and effort to meet people and get to know them. See if there is any spark or possibility. Not meeting a girl in the park one day and asking her to marry you.

hi shibham! if you are finding it hard to find a partner, why not stay single for a while longer? you have waited this long, what's another year or so? hehe jk! honestly, i don't think you have moved mountains in search for a bride. but i do think some of your friends had walked the extra mile to search the one for you. however, i do believe that you won't find one unless it is you who are actually in a hard search. she would be your life partner, so you're the only one who'll know who will suit you best... not your friends or whoever else. boy, you sound so stressed about it... give yourself a break. hehe i like the girl's honesty. she told you upfront what her feelings is about the matter, but still showed up as a courtesy to your friend and her parents. i don't think you are unlucky. just imagine that there are people who are stuck in a marriage not to their liking and who wants out. matrimonial button in mylot... hehe this site might look like a dating site for prospecting. lol i think there are other specific websites for that to fit that kind of need. however, what you can do is start an interest group... and you can be on the leaderboard. something like "marrying shibham" or something hehe marrying a girl from foreign soil is not a bad idea at all. i thought you are hitting it well with a few mylotters here already. well goodluck to your search. may you find what your heart longs for. :) :) :)

shibyyyyyyyyyyyyy, So...ugh! what can i say...how about the one you want me to arrange for you? forget about it? shall i cancel? what?

Hiya shibs, In your Photo you have a nice stance there. Of course it´s hard to find someone. I was going out with Boys that wanted to marry me the first week I knew them and I kept saying no because I did not love them not one bit. Yes I am glad the Girl was honest at least she told you but it must have been like a bucket of Cold Water for you as well really. It´s all very well for me to tell you not to be put off by that incident I am not in your shoes. However you will find someone when you stop watching for the cooking Pot to start boiling. Take it easy I think I have said that to you before. Weather is a bit choppy for you at the moment my Friend but the calm waters will come in again and you will be happy I am almost sure of it. Again a watched Pot never boils take my word for it. I nearly married someone who could have made my life a complete disaster and my inner self said no don´t do it so I did´nt and everyone else around me was getting married getting big Houses plenty of money the lot. She is just about to come into your life but don´t watch the Pot waiting for it to boil.xxx Good night shibs and have a great Day and night.xxx

hi, yes you're right that its really hard to find someone who will ve you truly,especially now a days that many people who only commit to a relationship because of the benefits they wanted such as money and wellness,they are only user,let us the destiny find the real love for us in the right time and in the right place.

Haha,you made me laugh twice today amigo,lol! Bride searching...hmmm...I do have a friend here that can be the best bride for you,yahu! But I wont say her name 'cause she might get mad at me,lol! I guess you know who,hehe! HINT: she's also a mylotter,yahu! Seriously amigo,don't rush okay! It'll come your way,that's for sure! You can also pray for your bride to come. If only you'll visit Philippines,you will then meet your bride,haha! See yah amigo! And goodluck,lol!

Hi Shiby, I almost miss your discussion Oh well are you in a hurry to marry someone? A friend from Kerala told us last time that some are publishing to the newspapers about Shaadi (marriage) if you really want to have one maybe you can do this or register at shaadi.com, If your friends put an effort so you can meet the love of your life I think you should put an extra effort on it. Besides your friends is not the one who will love the girl it's you there will be no excuses if you really want to pursue something specially if it will make you happy. Don't considered your self as unlucky one I am single but I don't think I am unlucky one maybe he is just around the globe and it's not the right time for us to meet. Don't search for a BRIDE search for a LOVE let go of the past make it as a memory whether good or not then learn to move on and appreciate life itself. happy mylotting

wow,do u know there's one kind of TV programme, blind date,in China? maybe u can take part in if u wanna marry a girl from China. hahaha... Anyway, if u dont rush u'd better to wait for the true girl in ur life. And God will direct u the way to her. Have nice day!

Well this girl from abroad is too old for you. But seriously, sometimes when you are NOT looking, that is when you find the right person. Good luck...

Well..don't give up hope..the next time you hear that...you just tell them the only reason they are already in love is because they haven't met you yet..LOL..You just tell them that when they are ready for the real deal..they can call you. I have learned that love rarely comes when you are looking for it...once you give up or decide you don't want it...bam...there it is. Great luck!

Yes in these days it is hard to search a partner. One of my relative is also unmarried. His age is 41 year. We tried our best but we could not found a girl for him. Don't be disappoint, try more. Good luck.

this is a tough part of life if you are not in love and haven't thought of marraige since some time and if suddenly you have to decide to marry a person whom you don't know very well its a tough decision mate. this is for sure that if you decide for a arrange marriage you can slowly fall in love with you partner and i you already love somebody then it will make your life much easier to start.

Funny thing..i don't want to experience this kind of situation.

Hi Shibham, I don't understand, I don't think. You mean you find out you are going to marry a girl you haven't yet met? Isn't that kind of like putting the cart before the horse? You have to meet first and find out if you have a connection and build a relationship and then later ask her to marry you. You both are strangers, so how can anyone plan to marry a complete stranger? I know that cultures are different in different parts of the world, but that would be like me meeting someone on line and planning the wedding before we even met or talked or whatever. I'm so sorry you have been disappointed. I hope you do find someone you can share your life with and I hope it lasts a lifetime.