Those tight hugs and kisses worry me...

At some point in time, people will change how they do things with you. Some factors might show them the value of family that make them value a person more than they usually do and so they'll show it gradually. Most of the time that's what my mom does and so I got used to her becoming so caring all of a sudden. People from her work show and tell her stories about their family and when my mom likes it she does it to us.

Yeah we have that sort of "pamahiin" my friend. And even if I am not so much of a superstitious I might feel the same way. Good to know your son is safe now at home. See ya around my friend.

Wow, I also feel like that too. Like if my mother or my father is so sweet to me, I always feel so sad and worried about them because I always watch drama shows or movies in the TV and those people who are suddenly sweet will die. It just makes me worried whenever I experience that. I guess we're just too much into drama.

I avoid watching these sad movies ever since I fell ill and am at home. They are a waste of money and time... as they end up reminding me of many things that keep me sad.

You just have too much movie watching and novels reading that it has ate your mind. Just chill out and relax, nothing will happen to your child

Really interesting thought. I never viewed it like that but I suppose it's true. Our brains are pretty well trained to things like this I guess. I suppose that's why I don't like saying goodbye. Goodbyes are always so permanent. I prefer "See you soon" cause I find some solace in that.

Yup, indeed you are reading and watching too much sad novels and movies, Hug should represent happiness and not sad thoughts, worrying for your kid is normal, but worrying cause of a tight hug is not normal. It's time you start watching Comedy movies!

Sudden coughs without an obvious reason behind them scare me, because if that happens in a movie, where a character starts to cough without a reason, they usually have something like lung cancer, and they die just a few scenes later.

Hi toni.. Sometimes some incident(subject) hit on our subconscious mind, then its very hard to come out from such situation. Those incident(subject) may come from real world or fictional. the story of movies or novels are living on your subconscious mind till date. hence you are observing everything from that point of view. Unless considering them as story, then it will be very hard to come out from it. All the best.

LoL there is nothing to worry about all such things, though you may have seen a change in your beloved son that's something good right so you should rejoice instead of being sad that you son has done something interesting for his mom. A certain change may be inspired by some books or may be some emotional movies may be your son may have gone through such things that he may feel like hugging and kissing you. Its just your negative thought that makes you feel that you son may not live further its nothing like that, infact its a tendency of human when something positive happens they will always look at the negative point of it worrying, this usually happens with lot of people. Dont think about that think that you have the luckiest son who is showing lot of affection and love towards you, You are a very Lucky mom.

I'm not a mother but every time I have to go somewhere else especially when I have to leave our house to go to the city to work for the week or for the whole month, I always give my mom a kiss and I always take a good look at both my mom and dad before taking my trip, and in a way I always feel sad. I know that my mom always worry about me and I'm so glad that she has that affection for both my brother and d I. But in any situation, worse things happen and it is something inevitable and out of our control. We just need to be happy that we had a special parting moment every time we go to some place is. Your son is so sweet. It's okay to worry but it's better to always hope for the best right?

I know what you mean. When people do things out of character, we take notice. I can understand where you would get a little spooked about that. I might too, if I were one to really notice a difference.