wedding or just live together?

Bulgaria
June 23, 2011 10:08am CST
do you need a wedding or you just live with the family basis. For me it does not matter but how do you think is right.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
29 Jun 11
No friend I will not prefer to live together without wedding or marriage. If the person dont want to get marriage then how they can live long life. Marriage is a surety of your life that the person or your fiancee is only for you.
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• India
30 Jun 11
You are right my friend every person has own choice but I think in India no such cases are there but in USA no problem because every country has their own culture so no problem. Thanks for respect my opinion
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• Bulgaria
30 Jun 11
Ah mean India is not so I did not know. Apparently there are very strict laws. I think that in countries where democracy is a man do what he wants. Thank you again for your time and nice day! Can you make friends here?
• Bulgaria
29 Jun 11
That is your opinion and I respect him. Everyone should ancestors what is best for him whether that marriage wedding or simply living with someone she loves. I think everyone has the right to choose. Many thanks for the reply. Have a nice day!
@savypat (20216)
• United States
23 Jun 11
I think I would marry only to protect the children, who knows what the future will bring and they need the best support they can get.
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• Bulgaria
23 Jun 11
for me it does not matter whether they are married or not. Because parents always love their children. Must first be familiar to people we trust and respect each other even then misilm wedding. Many thanks for the reply and nice day!
• Bulgaria
28 Jun 11
here with us no problem. Although children do not have a marriage can bear the surname of his father. Is not that wonderful. So for me it does not matter whether you got married or not. Thank you for your reply and nice day!
27 Jun 11
I think it is better for the children if their pareents are married. Unless the child is from a divorcee. I still think however that where ever possible children would benefit from married parents as to chhose not to be is simply unnecessarily complicated for the child when life is difficult enough. My uncle and aunty have a perfectly happy felsationship and have done so for years, then they had a daughter. They still refrained from marriage at this point. I wander what the child's surname should be? My other aunty has 3 children, with 2 different dads who go by three separate surnames. By the third child my aunty wanted to claim her daughters surname for herself - talk about confusing!
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
24 Jun 11
Much better to have a wedding because it is the formality of marriage. To live together as usual seems life is not completed and as the usual thing. Living together is like friendship and there is no relationship that bind the two person live together as one but friend...
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@Galena (9110)
24 Jun 11
that's not true. I didn't love my husband any less in the nearly ten years we lived together before we got married than I love him after the wedding. we've had a very strong bond for many years.
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• Bulgaria
24 Jun 11
Thank you very much for answers. Now let me tell you my opinion now I live with my boyfriend for years together without marriage and our relations have not changed even cheated and children. I have nothing against marriage, but even married mvozhe not be sure that something will ever happen. nice day!
• Canada
23 Jun 11
Well I would prefer to have a wedding. However before I get married I would like to live with the person a bit to see if I could handle it. I would want to see what living with them is like BEFORE I marry them because we might learn things about eachother that we like, or things that will draw us apart.
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• Bulgaria
23 Jun 11
not really a good idea to live with a certain person and then have a wedding or a joint development of life. For children and families. Thank you very much and nice day!
27 Jun 11
As I have said before, marriage proposals nowadays can simply consist of two people having a siscusion and then confirming their engagement status. Often people fun straihght to facebook to announce this! Funnily enough, as I joke my partner though I would hate him for, he put engaged as my status with him. Actually I found it quite sweet. And I have been really touched that his mum has said things like 'keep this one'. I has also gestured towards my friends that I would be the one he wishes to marry. I have my good points, I can cook from stratch, as can he and I also have a sense order about the house. I am not tidy by any stretch of the imagination - far from it, but I do believe that in a home things should have a space. It msy be different if personal space is not big enough to accomodate, like I am currelty struggling with my hospital bedroom. I need to make better use of the coat hangers I have just aquired I think and not leave so much cluter around the room.I could also place some items back on top of the wardrobe.
• Bulgaria
28 Jun 11
It is not.
• China
30 Jun 11
in my opinion,a wedding is important,even a simple wedding, that make life completely. and you receive congratulations from your parents ,your sisters and brothers,your friends .
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• Bulgaria
30 Jun 11
to congratulations for this is just great. And what better gift than good. To determine your opinion is very nice thank you. Have a nice day!
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
yeah it does'nt matter as long as you really can live forever.. and love each other..
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@Galena (9110)
24 Jun 11
some people don't want to get married. that's fair enough. and it's sensible to live together before marriage anyway. living under the same roof and sharing responsibilities really changes the dynamic of the relationship, and you get to see how you pull together or fall apart in hard times. I think everyone should weather out a few hard times together before committing to life.
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• Bulgaria
24 Jun 11
to a friend. It is important to be able to build a family to be together in difficult times. Because a family is important to have trust and love others are white trouble. Thank you again for the reply and nice day!
@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 11
I prefer to get married. With my marriage to avoid sin. According to my religion, marriage is a form of worship. With married, we would not act that should not be done, if not married.
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• Bulgaria
23 Jun 11
There may be religiy requiring that others do not. I think that man should know to us in every way and then a wedding. Many thanks for the reply and nice day!
• United States
26 Jun 11
I lived with my husband before we got married because his mother had been terminally ill and needed constant care. If his mom had not been sick I would have waited to move in with my husband because that was the way I was brought up. I am really happy that I had gotten married amd do not regret it at all. I feel that marriage is a good thing if two people truly love each other.
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• Bulgaria
26 Jun 11
I am not against marriage. But just think for a relationship is an important wedding and many other things like trust and understanding. However, it is important to live first with someone and then have a long way although sometimes living with someone is something quite serious. Thanks for the reply and nice day!
• United States
24 Jun 11
Hi there, I have been living with my boyfriend now for 6 years and to date we do not have any plans of marriage. Though we do live as a very committed couple. We both were married once before to other spouses and for the moment just simply enjoy and love living together. I wouldn't say that I would not marry him some day as who knows what the future will bring, only right now we are very happy this way.
• Bulgaria
24 Jun 11
I am not of the same opinion. I live and my friend for 4 years and never before did not we talk about marriage or wedding. I think that a signature will not change things. At least for me so. As soon as a signature if you feel bound and there is no signature seems to be more relaxed. Thanks a lot for the response friend and a nice day!
@naija4real (1291)
25 Jun 11
I think it is better to live with the person for a while so that both of you can study the character and chemistry of each other. But couple should not use this opportunity of living together to engage in serious love making but it should be an opportunity to understand each other strength and weakness and then find out if both of them can tolerates this quality if they choose to get married in the shortest possible time.
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• Bulgaria
25 Jun 11
to agree with you. A marriage and a signature does not change things. There is love and understanding trust everything will be fine. Thanks and nice day!
27 Jun 11
Livng together would be nice, I think that'd the next step after almost 4 years. I have lives whth some one in the past but in different circumstances as our rents were too high that it didn't make sense renting 2 places. This time the circumstances are different as we both own our propertims. My partner has more space but it is an almightly mess. My place is quite neat and neat and my mum has been looking after it for me while I have not been staying there. My latest brainwave was that my partner could spend some time staying at my place and travelling to work (especially as he sys he wouuld liek to buy a place around there) and there he could see how the other half lves, putting things back in the right places. I could also give his place a go while is at work as I am off at the moment and see if I can make a possitiev diffenrece.
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• Bulgaria
28 Jun 11
I totally agree with you. Thank you for your reply and nice day!
@dyeni23 (128)
26 Jun 11
Wedding. definitely. :) A union blessed by the Higher being makes a lot of difference. And also, it makes your union more acceptable not only to God's eyes but to the society as well.
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• Bulgaria
26 Jun 11
Thanks for the reply! This naturally depends on the understanding of man. Have a nice day!