Men

Canada
November 19, 2006 10:14pm CST
What I have a problem with is men. They have no sense of feelings. No heart.
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23 responses
@pjsparkle (147)
• United States
20 Nov 06
It is not nice to generalize. I think there are some great guys out there and some women can be a total ____ with no heart.
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• Canada
20 Nov 06
At least women are more up front with it. Men don't show us their true colors until they are comfortable or think that we are comfortable.
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@rawpoet (2046)
• United States
20 Nov 06
What did you just do?
@rawpoet (2046)
• United States
20 Nov 06
My reponse was to pjs.
• United States
20 Nov 06
not all of them are so heartless, you just have to be friends with them first to really see how they are, then you'll find the right man, believe me, i thought the same thing until i found the man of my dreams, and i never dreamt that he'd be the one
• Canada
20 Nov 06
I was friends with him for two years before we dated. Now we have been going out for 1 year and now I find out that he is just not what he was when we first went out.
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@rawpoet (2046)
• United States
20 Nov 06
Great comment, mariacclark!
• United States
20 Nov 06
I think that men and women are equal in that department. There are women out there that dont give a damn about anything. In fact, I tend to be friends more with men because they will most likely be honest about how they feel, where as most of the women I have encountered as friends end up being back stabbing @#%*@!!s. With men you have to be paitent and honest, but not over bearing and give them time. I dont know what your situation is to make you feel like this but maybe these men or this man are not the right one yet.
@ali136 (199)
• United States
20 Nov 06
Not all of them. Well, I should say, not all of the time, anyway. My husband can be really loving at times when I least expect it. Then, at other times, when I hope to see that loving side, he disappoints me. But, I guess I do the same to him at times as well, so we're both guilty.
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@wiseper (787)
• Philippines
20 Nov 06
let's not really say things like that about men. that's way too harsh. i just had a breakup with my boyfriend and i still cant say that about him.. in fairness, it's not all men.. just some..
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@gabby77 (142)
• United States
20 Nov 06
i dont think its that they have no sense of feelings or heart... i think that they are taught not to share their feelings or heart and so they are sometimes (not always) incapable of doing so. deep down they feel things.
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@DRoddy77 (1776)
• United States
20 Nov 06
Men and women both think differently. Most men do have hearts, they just have a different way of dealing with feelings than what we do. Ill never understand the male way of thinking though.
• Canada
20 Nov 06
I agree men r confusing.
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• India
28 Nov 06
but why your telling this is there any specific reason ?
@musecreek (163)
• United States
27 Nov 06
Men are confusing, but so are women too.
@wathanjim (2214)
• United States
20 Nov 06
We are not all like that
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@mansha (6298)
• India
28 Nov 06
No problem with men in general but you must seek more of them out to meet that someone special.I think you met some wrong people hence are hurt.Wait for that who was made for you do not pick garbage along the way.
• Pakistan
20 Nov 06
u r wrong
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• India
20 Nov 06
THATS BAD IM A MAN BUT IM NOT THAT KIND OF WILL YOU WANT TO DO FRIENDSHIP WITH ME
• Canada
20 Nov 06
Some men are.
@natuser28 (907)
• United States
22 Dec 06
Go call Dr. Phil.
@Aali311 (6112)
• United States
20 Nov 06
There are many that are like that but some are not and it's not right to them for you to make such a generalization, I have been with a guy who was so into my feelings and I'm married to a guy who doesn't know what makes me happy and when I'm not happy. So it goes both ways with men.
@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
20 Nov 06
i was discussing men this morning with a friend as my son has just crashed his motorbike ...and of course like men as they are he will be definately be dying his injurys are not too bad but tomorrow the complaints will start i `ll just wait for them
• China
20 Nov 06
What I have a problem with is men. They have no sense of feelings. No heart EXCUSE me,i can't follow you,every man has a certain feeling and heart,thatis no doubt
• Canada
20 Nov 06
These type of blanket generalizations bother me. Just because your experience was with some not so kind men you should not think that that is the case with all men. I know some really great men in this world, who treat their wives or girlfriends and everyone else with the utmost respect and kindness. You just need to get out there and find someone who will treat you well, be discerning with who you get involved with so as not to get your heartbroken like that. i wish you all the best and I'm sure there's someone out there for you.
@1234tanya (148)
• India
20 Nov 06
well all men r not the same
• Australia
20 Nov 06
You can't say all men have no sense of feeling. Men are raised to be hard and not act girly and to be all mucho, they can't help how they were raised. Its only in the last 10 years that we are raising our boys to show a bit of emotion to a certain point and to not be so hard and mucho. My man shows me exactly how he is feeling. I don't mean to sound harsh but maybe he is not the 1 for you. If he was the 1 for you he would show you his feelings to a certain extent.