Verginity should be losed or not
@mindrevolution (50)
India
June 23, 2011 9:41pm CST
Todays world is very fast and the faster is the trend of losing verginity. people take it as a fun and don't hesitate to lose their verginity and do so in the name of modernity. just want to know to know that one should lose it or retain it. if losing is the answer then why?andif retaining is the answer then for what? just think logically and not from the modernity point of view.try to give the best answer.
5 responses
@waterproofpaper (139)
• Philippines
24 Jun 11
Hi,
Sometimes people get blinded by their love for someone they think is the right one. But it's not that easy to find the right one, For me you should only loose your virginity after you get married. But if you already give it up that somebody must love you and be with you along the way. But no matter what, still stand on the positive side. Either you loose or not don't give up on pursuing your dreams. If you made mistake once, just don't let it happen again.
@lady_di1210 (263)
• Philippines
24 Jun 11
@mantis36
it sounds funny but it could be applicable.. LOL
@BannedHelsing (693)
• Philippines
24 Jun 11
virginity? you need to loose it so you can practice. some marriage breaks because one is incapable of performing well in bed. but please, when you do it, do it safe. we don't want more people transmitting sexually transmitted diseases.
@oXAquaXo (607)
• United States
24 Jun 11
I believe if your marriage is dependent on how good you are at performing, then it must not be a good marriage in the first place and not one you should stay in. "Performing" isn't something that should be "practiced" and be done so that you can get experience. Each time you do it should be a special experience, and if you really love each other, then no matter what, you would enjoy the experience.
But I do agree that we should be safe when we do it. Sexually transmitted diseases are becoming a huge problem in the world. Many teenagers continue to be uninformed about STD's and haven't had people actually discuss it with them, so they are prone to getting these diseases. So if you do decide to do it, BE SAFE and USE PROTECTION.
Happy mylotting!
@oXAquaXo (607)
• United States
24 Jun 11
Mindrevolution,
Our family is largely athiest/agnostic. We believe in morals and ethics, but not too much about marriage values. Anyway, we believe that it's ok to do it before marriage, but only if you believe you're with the right guy. Nowadays, many people do it just for the heck of it or because everyone else is doing it. I don't believe that it should be like this. I believe that if you truly trust the other person and believe you really love them at the moment, then it's fine. Obviously, many people have other interpretations of this, as some believe people should keep their virginity until after marriage. But everyone's different, and there is no absolute morality.
Happy mylotting!
@lady_di1210 (263)
• Philippines
24 Jun 11
First thing in mind, never lose your virginity not until you find the right person whom you'll be spending your whole life with -- that's in line within the context of marriage. May sound quite old school for others, but it doesn't mean that you have to follow the trend to be IN.. Some people may bully you for being a virgin, who cares! They're just insecure for losing what they used to have. Don't be in a hurry to give up what's rightfully yours. You're the master of your own body, so why would you want someone to intrude your holy grounds? If it isn't the right time for you to lose it never take the risk or you might lose the dignity and respect that you want get from others.
@oXAquaXo (607)
• United States
24 Jun 11
I agree. Nowadays, many teenagers out there lose their virginity just to "get it over with", and it's becoming a huge issue. Peer pressure is forcing people to do things they don't want to do. Many girls in high school walk around, talking about how they lost their virginity, when they actually didn't, and making others feel as though they should. So, those kids do it just to feel included in other groups.
I have grown up in a non-religions family, so we're not big on losing your virginity only after you're married. But that's just our opinion. But we do highly believe that you should only lose your virginity once you think you've found the right guy. Don't do it because everyone else is, but do it because you really think they're the one.
Anyways, happy mylotting!
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
24 Jun 11
I'm the one who respect virginity and wish can keep it until marriage.I'm the wester and grow up with understanding the importance of culture and virginity.My culture telling me that virginity is very important for respecting woman.In my country, especially in my neighbourhood, the girl who has lost her virginity before married will live in suffering since the husband will not respect her and take her as "second use".Sometime it's hurt a lot, but that's culture!!And in fact, most of guy in my neighbourhood is still respect about virginity and think it's very important to keep.Actually, it's very good for girl to keep her virginity until married
@manoj1994 (1)
• India
24 Jun 11
virginity is something which should be preserved until you get married....... thats what our culture says... and many people just for fun or out of inquisitiveness do that which is wrong ..... its very sad that many people lose it at a very young age..... :(
