This is an average week for me. What is an average week for you?

hi free_man even when I dont work and am at home for one or two weeks I dont get a tenth done of what you do in one day. With the workload you described here I dont really understand what your dear husband has to complain about. I can call myself lucky cause I did a little bit of our ironing. As we use an iron working with damp/water I hang the freshly ironed clothes into the living room over night so no moisture will get into the closts. I think I will put them away tomorrow evening or Sunday morning the latest. thats all I accomplished today.

I hear you, my husband seems to think I do nothing either..I am impressed you are able to listen to G&hearts'd word daily, I am fortunate if I get to once a week. Now my husband has twice this week gotten on me for not cooking supper, because my math school work doesn't bring in money, I have to sacrifice my time trying to do my work and cook him something.... Sure, it is my job, but we had spaghetti sauce for a week now and my oldest son made something a couple nights ago, and yet he thinks I should drop everything and cook him something..Plus he is always buying canned meals no one in this house will eat, why can't he eat that? He also know how hard this class is and that it's different from my other math courses and I have to take time to understand and plan the best way to use the online course..I started just over a week ago and just now have a plan, because it was totally confusing and my instructor was zero help,... I think men who do this have a problem, don't know what, but it is a "I do so much and you do nothing" mentality, and no matter how much you work, they will never be satisfied..

OMG that is alot of work. My average week is about 4 loads of laundry a week which I usually do on Monday. Also grooming my dog. I sweep the floors every morning and once a week mop all the floors. Clean both bathrooms and kitchen. Change both the towels and sheets twice a week. I dust at least twice a week too. Take garbage out twice if not three times a week. Clean the poop everyday that my dog does. Once a week rake leaves and pick up the leaves. Cut down banana leaves off of the banana trees. Trim bushes when need be. I also water the trees and flowers if we don't get rain. I also at least twice a week go to pick fruits or veggies from the trees. We have mangos, plantains, bananas, breadfruit, starfruit, green bananas, avocadoes. All are at different times of the year. Right now its the ending of mangos and we will be going into avocadoes real soon. Also on top of all this I usually cook dinner at least 5 times out of the 7 days a week. I can't believe after all you do that your husband seems to think you are not doing your share. Unbelievable!

An average week for me starts off to a slow start on Monday. I try and figure out what I need to get done, during the various areas in my life. Then on Tuesday, I start slowly getting it done, but it does take a little bit for me to get into gear and to get a lot of it done for sure. However, it is just something in life that really does need to get to it. By Wednesday I have a pretty good idea of the direction that I need to go and I am rolling into whatever I fact do. It really is something where I have a clear schedule in my mind and I get everything done, online work, real work, schoolwork, work around the house, anything really, one step at a time. Then by Thursday I really hopefully should have the vast majority of everything really done a lot of the time. However there are some really busy weeks where I don't. Which is getting dangerously close to being an average week a lot of the time but what are you going to do. Then Friday I should be wrapping up most of everything but not necessarily the case sometimes. Hopefully by Saturday I am able to relax, able to chill, able to get everything that I need to get done, done but again, that is not necessarily going to be the case for sure. Then Sunday I just am sitting, waiting, preparing myself for the following day and the cycle of life continues. Again and again until driven completely insane.

Friend no average week for me this week was very dangerous for me. Because my mother in law was out of station and our all servant is also on holiday. So all workload was on me. I am so tempared on my husband some time because classes and all household work is so hard and my husband is not helped me in any work. So due to tiredness I was annoying on my husband and he is also annoyed on me. But this for small time after some time everything is ok.

I feel for you honey, and most women have it like that too. I'm so glad I'm lucky in that sense. My husband works all day and we do have trouble making ends meet, but he doesn't take it out on me like that. Every day I get up feed the kids and all our animals, then I wash dishes and clothes. When the kids take a nap I paint the house and work on it. Right now I'm building a pen for one of our dogs, I just have to put up the door. But if I fall behind on housework or just don't feel like doing something one day, he doesn't complain. He knows its hard work just taking care of our 2 young kids. In any spare time I get, I'm working online to make money for things I want. I'm looking to redecorate my bedroom in an Asian theme. He encourages me to try to make money online. He says if other people can do it, so can I. But I'm sorry to hear you are treated like you sit on your butt all day when you work hard. It may be the stress of not having enough money for nicer things too, since its worse at the end of the month trying to make ends meet. Have you tried talking to him about all you do? He may not see all you do or understand how much work goes into it. Try reversing roles. It might help if its possible to do it.

i worked this week and tomorrow my mom are opening a booth at a local antique market so i have been busy pricing my finds.

Well, there are some days that I don't do as much around here as I need too, but my husband never says much. I have found that I usually make up for it on other days. I would ask your husband what else he expects you to do. An average week for me is to mow grass, feed the horses daily, home school my daughter, try to average 20-30 hours a week working online, doing laundry daily, cleaning the house each day a little( I have a schedule that I use), and grocery shopping weekly and I take my daughter to her homeschool group at the library each Thursday. I also help with anything around the farm that needs done and I also take care of flowers and I cook each day. It sounds like to me that you are busy and he needs to accept that every hour of your day should not be working. Enjoy life a little!

You are a very industrious wife, yet your husband tells you that. Well, maybe because you have overlooked doing the most important things first , like cooking the meals as they come during the whole day. Your husband might have been hungry, but there is no cooked meal for him to eat yet. Maybe you could mow the lawn once every necessary chores at home is well taken cared of already. Prioritize your works, like wash the dishes once you have finished your meal. Do not go to another chore, unless the dishes are washed, something like that.

I would say the only thing you are missing is my house and yard. I would be grateful to have someone around who does all that work in one day. Hope things get better around there for you. Best Wishes!

Sounds like you are doing way more than your share of work in the house and outside. I wouldn't think your hubby could have much to gripe about. Does he take out the trash or does he just have to hold the chair down? I do the dishes and do the vacuuming and make my bed. I do the dusting and sweeping. My daughter makes her bed and holds the recliner down all day.

an average week for me is like this.. study.. then nothing follows. average isnt it? :D