Why lots of friends interefere in a personal life?
By gptvaibhav91
@gptvaibhav91 (366)
India
June 24, 2011 3:30pm CST
I've a friend which only wants to interfere in my personal life. It need all my information about myself like a spy or sometihng. I really fade up with this sort of things & don't know what to do when i found myself trapped in this kind of situation. Have you also this same case with you & one of your good friend?
3 responses
@darkvadeth (40)
• Singapore
25 Jun 11
I have to say that he's not a friend at all.No offence but in my opinion,I just think that your friend is being a dog to another person who hates you and that friend of yours just wants his/her attention.Have you made any enemies lately?Trust me I've experienced this kind of situation where a "friend" of mine ask me about my life.I didn't know that he was already bad mouthing about me behind my back so I just told him how my life was going.The next day I got to know that he has just spread the story that I have told him.That is one screwed up friend I have.I don't understand what they gain from gossiping.From the beginning,a true friend would never interfere in your personal life unless you start that discussion with him/her.
Well I suggest that if I am in your shoes and that "friend" of mine still wants to interfere in my personal life,I will just ask him to back off and give me some personal space.I mean like everyone of us need our personal space,right?Tell him that and if he still continues to interfere,then I guess you should just avoid him or just keep quiet when he ask you about it.If you don't reply to his questions,he'll probably stop sooner or later.
@gptvaibhav91 (366)
• India
25 Jun 11
Yes, i fought with a friend of mine but this thing is almost a year ago. Some of friends which spies me also hates him. But now as a group study they all meet at some particular place. I got indirectly information that at this place they are going to study but only couple of time all of they invited me or if they invite me its as a short term notice. They all go to movies, parties etc with that person to which i was fought before & can't want to tell me that here we going to hang out & don't invite me. This thing really find me messsed up that all of they going with a person to which they hates & don't invite me even. I don't know what they like to gossip for me at my back.
@wzm1022 (43)
• China
24 Jun 11
your friend he was in possession of too much, I think you can explain your idea with him, you can tell him don't want him to do so, in my opinion a true friend should not interfere with our lives, but let our life be more joyful, the so-called friends is to have their own space ,there are happy to share, help each other with difficulty.
@gptvaibhav91 (366)
• India
25 Jun 11
They help in a same way they use to help a stranger. I can't get this thing a kind to be true. I now really thinking that they always want to make fun of me in any manner. They behave like a best friend in-front of me & again started gossip against me at my back.
@belonephobicgirl (513)
• United States
24 Jun 11
I don't think they want to interfere in your life, they probably just want to get the know you better. They probably think by knowing where you are and what you are doing, the friendship is getting better. I've had friends who want to know every detail about my life and I can be completely closed and distance myself from them (when I do not trust them that is) or I can just answer, and ask them how's their life going. I doubt they mean to come off as spy and want to know all your information, that's probably just how they made friends before.
@gptvaibhav91 (366)
• India
25 Jun 11
They really want to interfere in my life so that they can make fun of it as well as they also want a new gossip topic for a day. They even spied me before to know my all call & messages. I really don't admire this kind of things & gets very angry & they get a topic that me as a short-tempered.
