Our Life Are Full Of Secrets, Why?

bhaby... what a nice question

@bhabycatch That's very revealing question which our friend scarface immediate admitted that he have before, now it is not secret and also yours are not secret anymore through this. Protected something is one key why we are trying to hide our darkside or bad situation which sometimes we are decided not to reveal to anybody. @jaiho my friend see some of our friend admitted that they have still and have own secret which reverse to your claim - why?

@ scarface, Yeah some secret must keep secret you are lucky that they don't reveal it

Really my friend? Even from yourself trying to hide something because you fear something. What I mean is, even our feeling is trying to hide from ourself because we are fear to grow such feeling and you cannot control.. what do you think? Isep..esep (think... think)

It is not secret anymore because we know now that your affraid to cockroach... that's good one because as you said no secret at all even feelings or emotion your nothing to hide..

i don't understand why we need to hide our feelings... i mean...WHY?...WHY hide feelings eh? If i am angry or annoyed,i'll let that person know...why should i hide? Everything should be settled right? I am referring this with my friends and loves ones,everything should be cleared in the earliest possible time. Having bad feelings kept for a longer times is not good...at least you need to have it done,burst it out,speak it loud and clear to the concern person. Keeping it will only result to having uncomfortable and uneasiness when you face that person...so why kept it?.... I don't need to explain myself here..but,again,my friends and my loved ones knows...i don't keep secrets...and i don't owe any explanation to public either. We,each one of us differs from each other. If you,he,she,they, keep a secret...that's an individual choice and it's someone's prerogative... No one is here to judge someone...let them keep their secrets...because we don't need to broadcast secrets in public. Secret needs to be revealed to specific person and not to be published in public or broadcasted in TV there's no use right?...or else you will be a laughing stock... If you are my friend,and i can feel can be trusted,i am willing to share my whole life story with you. Would you believe that I even asks someone online,a friend online who is a writer to write my life/love story and be published? Because i don't keep secrets...i even want to share my life story ,be an inspiration and a lesson to be learned (if there is lesson to be learned hahaha)

hmmmm... didi. Are you sure that i have shared all ladies? Both marriage will be celebrated on same day.... @visavis... thanks.

and shiby even shared his 29 ladies and asks me to arranged a marriage,when he should be arranging my marriage first

So still there is a gap of being secret or hiding it because of your reason.. even in the smallest thing in our life sometimes it is hiding or secret for some reasons. Yeah you tell to your friends or sister but to your parents unable to tell your feelings.. you get my point..

that's a good idea, meaning we must prepared if you have secrets in your life that any moment or any time somebody or it will reveal without your notice, as I said in other box "if there is smoke, there is a fire" right or wrong?

Yes its true when you have secrets then there is always a fear of getting it revealed by someone.Thats why you are not supposed to tell your secrets to very few & reliable people.

Its depends on the secret what is the secret??? but if it is affecting someone's life then we should keep it a secret in my opinion.

What can I say on you that as you said your unable to keep any secret because before you tried it but boring so now your not boring because as you said not keeping any secret in your life, your open book to the family and others.. Wow should I evy on you, because me now I have a secret in my feelings which always bothering on me.

thank you very much my friend nice to discussion this matter. see you around

Don't do stuff that you would be ashamed for anyone to know and you won't have to keep secrets. That is all I know to tell you. Sorry you feel bad by keeping secrets.

As you define the word secret - a sin, a lie.. ok I agree with you not to hide something specially a truth. But how about a situation like doctors said to you that the patient (related to you) is in a critical condition which not allowed any tense or surprized things, can you reveal it to him/her? Even in our feelings sometime we are covering something to avoid others feeling, mean we are keeping such thing to not other affected...

But still the issue is hiding and secret even though you put an exemption..

That's a different story then. There are things that needs exceptions.

Hi again visavis, While it may cause us some distress here, I don't feel that it will have any effect on the soul. Blessings.

Might be if die the soul will be not in a peaceful so might be returned for that case.. just I heard about that but I'm not believing such thing

Thank you my friend.. your correct but don't forget our neighbor to know, even our own family are affraid to know such secret, I don't know why? Might be big reasons which as you said making serious trouble and their life will be difficult. Although it is happening that some secrets are still secret until the person die but what do you think it is a sin to them or shall affect their soul peaceful.

Yeah and that is good stand that your prepared in case such secret revealed without your permission or knowledge. for me the main reason is "if there is a smoke, for sure there is a fire"

hello visavis, the fear of hurting someone when he knows the truth is i think what you are pointing to. you want to give hope as much as possible. i have not been in such a situation, but should it happen, i prefer to tell the truth no matter how hard it is. it is the only way that he can face it and then he start from there and move on. ann

Covering in one situation is part of a secret right or wrong, means it is a short period of time until such situation been over. But due to the situation you have second thought not to reveal, what is the better for this and how you cope up this..?

Thanks nice one, but how if in a very critical condition like doctor said the patient is having a month left in this world, are you ready to tell if right away? sorry for many questions

All of us having own reasons why we are keeping our own secret. Whatever such reason or alibi or as you said depending on the situation to whom you can tell the secret - but still the question to us is - we are keeping such secret? Keeping such secret can be good to us or be bad to us?

So you agree that our life are many secrets but depends to the person and reasons why they are keeping secrets.. thanks

I agree with you the womans heart is an ocean deep and full of secrets like other said but some says that they don't have any secrets mean they are transfarent, even if you asked them about emotion and feelings they said everybody knows - so what you ssaid ocean deep of secrets is contradicted... How you can say about?

Ok you admitting as you said you have secret and you have prepared to hide it for your privacy. If your affraid that if that secret discover or reveal you big loss or might be your destroy, I think its ok to keep it secret. But what do you think there is or are people NO SECRET at all. which you said here all have secret, you know there is one myloter response said she has no secret at all.. Do you believe that?

Not pleasant, I think that everyone has a secret. You may not believe but I honestly do not believe. Little is unreal. Everyone has a secret and is afraid to share it. . You have a secret friend may be small and not important but we have secrets.

Meaning everyone cannot say they don't have any secret in their life, we have own secret we cannot deny that..

Hello my friend thanks to your sharing, I'm on that matter (in this case) that small things may be not important to tell to everybody. But hiding something from your husband which you said unable to tell is something big issue because he is your husband although may your having a big reasons why, but still your hiding something which later on can be known... be careful and be ready

@scarface yeah your correct those people hiding and use their closet a garbage of skeletons are not happy deep inside, might be you seen outside smilling but inside is like a nightmare daily..

Maybe some of your secret or other secret revealed or share here but I'm still sure that everyone who said no secret at all - still having in his/her soul or themselves, which sometimes bothering whether to reveal or not..

Yeah from the beginning of this discussion I always telling everyone having secret and everyone are affraid to share it because of something might be effect to him/her.

It is a challence to us to survive in this life. Whether such secret can motivate you or destroy you. Through that secret you knowing something and strong to face the reality of this life.

that's same I know but other said that they don't have secrets in their life seems they are peaceful and perfect - are you agree to that, even their feeling nothing to hide..