can you give your facebook password to your wife or girlfriend.
By adex19
@adex19 (114)
Malaysia
14 responses
@lady_di1210 (263)
• Philippines
26 Jun 11
It depends on you. If your girlfriend trusts you, she wouldn't bother asking your password to check your facebook inbox.
I didn't ask for my boyfriend's password in facebook but he actually gave the password to me when he asked me a favor to change his profie picture. Well, he was away at that time. In one condition, he asked me not to look over his messages. So I did. Few weeks later, while I was playing farmville in his account, I was so compelled to read the messages in the inbox suspecting he might be hiding something from me. I eventually opened it, read and checked the messages and I have proven him faithful to me... I really felt guilty for what I did, so I just kept it to myself. And from that time on, I never opened the his facebook inbox. I trust him. I also gave him my facebook password, but he never doubted me ever since. ^_^
@lady_di1210 (263)
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
not a problem dude.. ^_^ well i don't see it as a problem if you give your facebook password to her. what matters is you both trust each other.. ;)
@gamma9967 (607)
• India
26 Jun 11
Yes if you know that you are not cheating on her then definitely you must give the Facebook password to your girlfriend you but if there is something fishy then you will have to handle out the situation.
@devideddi (1435)
• United States
25 Jun 11
Are their other girls sending you messages on your facebook? No, I am just kidding but this is clearly a trust issue! Show her the message page. Even if a girl did message you that doesn't mean you are being unfaithful! You should both be able to freely have discussions with both men and women without this causing a problem. If it does, you need to deal with this trust issue. Love or relationships are not supposed to suffocate people or block them off from the rest of the world. Give the password or don't give the password but let her know even if you say hello to another female...that she is still the one you want to be with and that is what matters most!
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
26 Jun 11
Surely it is a trust issue. I can say that I trust my boyfriend and he trusts me enough where if I really wanted to see his facebook he would not mind. I don't have any reasons to ask for the password and he does not ask for mine.
If he were to need something while away from home he would call me and ask me to check his PC. Thus far there has been nothing he has needed from his Facebook and or me from mine where we had to ask one another for it.
I have sat at his PC with his Facebook open and not felt compelled to checking his messages. Certainly do not want to misunderstand anything which will lead to distrust.
@Suzieqmom (2755)
• United States
26 Jun 11
Frankly, I think it's kind of creepy to have each other's facebook passwords. Who cares whether you send messages to other girls or she sends messages to other guys? What kind of person doesn't have any friends of the opposite gender? I am assuming you are both very young and somewhat inexperienced; otherwise, I would have to say it sounds like there is something wrong with this relationship. If she is already this jealous of you, or if you have given her reason already not to trust you, then this relationship probably has bigger problems than this facebook one. Why did she give you her password to begin with, and why did you take it? That would be the series of questions you should both answer first, and honestly, because those answers will probably make you both want to re-think your relationship, and hopefully save it before it is too late.
@adex19 (114)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 11
woo thanks for you comment i mistaken know her Facebook password and know she try to know me.. it like when new wedder couple give each other ring during their wedding those that mean they did not trust each other that is why ring are been give but just to remainder the two of them that they are now wed. not because of trust.
@soccerbai123 (274)
• Philippines
25 Jun 11
hahaha,, i think it would depend on you. i have given my password to him because i want him to know that he can trust me and that even in my virtual page, he can see that i am not doing anything wrong. i have my boyfriends pass as well and i do not normally log on it.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
25 Jun 11
It sounds as if you have an over-jealous and possessive girlfriend. She may be very nice in many ways but if she doesn't trust you about chatting to Facebook friends, then either she is going too far or she is right not to. Either way you and she have no future together.
No way should you let her have your password. You can let her look over your shoulder while you are on Facebook. Where's the harm in that?
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Jun 11
It is no problem for me to share my Facebook password with my husband. I don't really care about it and there is no secret inside. In fact I can even share my email and other important passwords with my husband. It is just a kind of trust. I know he won't check it on purpose.
I love China
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
23 Jul 11
Hi Adex, I dont find anything wrong sharing password unless you dont hide anything from your loved ones. Make her trust that other girls are just friends and your true love for her. Then you can share your password without hesitation.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
26 Jun 11
Well that totally depends on you if you want to give it to her or not. Me, I never shared my password with my boyfriend nor did I ever ask him his. But some pf my close friends do have my passwords :D They use it to stalk on their boyfriends