can you give your facebook password to your wife or girlfriend.

@adex19 (114)
Malaysia
June 25, 2011 12:07pm CST
My girlfriend ask me to give her my facebook password so that she can know that no other girl is send me message on my facebook account. can i give it to her.
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14 responses
• Philippines
26 Jun 11
It depends on you. If your girlfriend trusts you, she wouldn't bother asking your password to check your facebook inbox. I didn't ask for my boyfriend's password in facebook but he actually gave the password to me when he asked me a favor to change his profie picture. Well, he was away at that time. In one condition, he asked me not to look over his messages. So I did. Few weeks later, while I was playing farmville in his account, I was so compelled to read the messages in the inbox suspecting he might be hiding something from me. I eventually opened it, read and checked the messages and I have proven him faithful to me... I really felt guilty for what I did, so I just kept it to myself. And from that time on, I never opened the his facebook inbox. I trust him. I also gave him my facebook password, but he never doubted me ever since. ^_^
@adex19 (114)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 11
thanks for your comment. i know she trust me. but she has already give me her own so i don't see any reason why i should not do so.
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
not a problem dude.. ^_^ well i don't see it as a problem if you give your facebook password to her. what matters is you both trust each other.. ;)
@gamma9967 (607)
• India
26 Jun 11
Yes if you know that you are not cheating on her then definitely you must give the Facebook password to your girlfriend you but if there is something fishy then you will have to handle out the situation.
@adex19 (114)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 11
but that mean she did not trust me.. well thanks for your comment i plane to give her the password because she has already give her own.
@devideddi (1435)
• United States
25 Jun 11
hidden money - Hide money in the bed in the mattress.
Are their other girls sending you messages on your facebook? No, I am just kidding but this is clearly a trust issue! Show her the message page. Even if a girl did message you that doesn't mean you are being unfaithful! You should both be able to freely have discussions with both men and women without this causing a problem. If it does, you need to deal with this trust issue. Love or relationships are not supposed to suffocate people or block them off from the rest of the world. Give the password or don't give the password but let her know even if you say hello to another female...that she is still the one you want to be with and that is what matters most!
@adex19 (114)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 11
woo thanks i will sure tell her that..
• United States
26 Jun 11
Surely it is a trust issue. I can say that I trust my boyfriend and he trusts me enough where if I really wanted to see his facebook he would not mind. I don't have any reasons to ask for the password and he does not ask for mine. If he were to need something while away from home he would call me and ask me to check his PC. Thus far there has been nothing he has needed from his Facebook and or me from mine where we had to ask one another for it. I have sat at his PC with his Facebook open and not felt compelled to checking his messages. Certainly do not want to misunderstand anything which will lead to distrust.
@adex19 (114)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 11
well that is really great. she has give me her own now she need mind not that because she did not trust me. but she said just for me to know hide anything form her. that mean know each other password..
@Suzieqmom (2755)
• United States
26 Jun 11
Frankly, I think it's kind of creepy to have each other's facebook passwords. Who cares whether you send messages to other girls or she sends messages to other guys? What kind of person doesn't have any friends of the opposite gender? I am assuming you are both very young and somewhat inexperienced; otherwise, I would have to say it sounds like there is something wrong with this relationship. If she is already this jealous of you, or if you have given her reason already not to trust you, then this relationship probably has bigger problems than this facebook one. Why did she give you her password to begin with, and why did you take it? That would be the series of questions you should both answer first, and honestly, because those answers will probably make you both want to re-think your relationship, and hopefully save it before it is too late.
@adex19 (114)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 11
woo thanks for you comment i mistaken know her Facebook password and know she try to know me.. it like when new wedder couple give each other ring during their wedding those that mean they did not trust each other that is why ring are been give but just to remainder the two of them that they are now wed. not because of trust.
• Philippines
25 Jun 11
hahaha,, i think it would depend on you. i have given my password to him because i want him to know that he can trust me and that even in my virtual page, he can see that i am not doing anything wrong. i have my boyfriends pass as well and i do not normally log on it.
@adex19 (114)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 11
i think she since she has already give me her own password there is no need of not give her mine.well thanks for the advice
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
25 Jun 11
It sounds as if you have an over-jealous and possessive girlfriend. She may be very nice in many ways but if she doesn't trust you about chatting to Facebook friends, then either she is going too far or she is right not to. Either way you and she have no future together. No way should you let her have your password. You can let her look over your shoulder while you are on Facebook. Where's the harm in that?
@adex19 (114)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 11
most of the time we are not always together. she just want to check my message so that she can have more confidant in me.anyway thanks for the advice
@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Jun 11
It is no problem for me to share my Facebook password with my husband. I don't really care about it and there is no secret inside. In fact I can even share my email and other important passwords with my husband. It is just a kind of trust. I know he won't check it on purpose. I love China
@inedible (768)
• Singapore
26 Jun 11
No. And break up with her. If she's acting like this now, she's going to cause you some serious problems in the future.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
23 Jul 11
Hi Adex, I dont find anything wrong sharing password unless you dont hide anything from your loved ones. Make her trust that other girls are just friends and your true love for her. Then you can share your password without hesitation.
@xannex (254)
• Philippines
25 Jun 11
You better not. She's still a girlfriend, not yet a wife whom you can trust whom you bind yourself with. It looks like she does not trust you when she asked you your password.
@adex19 (114)
• Malaysia
25 Jun 11
she said she trust me but she just want to have so that it will be a reminded for me not to chart with another girl on facebook.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
26 Jun 11
Well that totally depends on you if you want to give it to her or not. Me, I never shared my password with my boyfriend nor did I ever ask him his. But some pf my close friends do have my passwords :D They use it to stalk on their boyfriends
@jimmytai (204)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 11
I have give some friend know my facebook password. I don't to care, my facebook nothing special and i truth they wouldn't play me at facebook. But for your case is she wanna check you, if you don't care she know your private, i think should be okay.
@ahand4u (35)
• United States
27 Jun 11
I say you shouldn't give her your password and its a violation of privacy and then she needs to make sure what's the matter can't she trust you in a relationship. She has to have faith in you.