Who taught you about grocery shopping?
@GardenGerty (160879)
United States
June 25, 2011 2:50pm CST
I would have to say that most of what I learned about grocery shopping I learned from my dad. I remember him actually talking with me about it and taking me to the store. I also remember more than once helping a friend learn what I know. I am a big bargain hunter. That does not necessarily mean I use coupons. I know, for instance, that my favorite store for buying meat marks it down about two days before it is out dated. I buy it, take it home, and either cook it that day, or I repackage it to freeze and label it. Meat is what I remember my dad teaching me about. I also will buy marked down baked goods. I learned other things by reading. I try to get the most nutrition for my dollar. That means many things are made from scratch. I read labels. I had a sister in law that taught me some of those things. I have another friend who taught me about some of the most economical stores that still sell quality items. I guess I picked up things from many places, but I do remember my dad and I talking about buying meat. I remember helping a college age friend learn, who was moving out on her own, and then as a friend also helping a young man just older than my kids who was going to marry a girl from another country and he wanted to know how I shopped, so he could help her when she moved here. Some people just buy name brand things or just the same as their parents bought, but not me.
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@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Jun 11
My mother taught me. She used to buy us groceries for $60 a month. Yep. $15 a week. And there were four of us and we ate good. She also made spectacular desserts for her pinochle group. I remember teaching my son-in-law how to buy meat in bulk and then dividing it up in baggies. I don't recall my mom actually talking to me about it but I learned by her example. I inherited her way with money and making it last and how to buy and so forth. I used to make twice the soup and freeze half. I used to keep the juice of vegetables and beef in margarine containers in the freezer and used this like people buy broth in the can now days. I saved alot that way. I bought odd cuts like oxtails and such for soup. And I used to make bread, and noodles. I picked up the baking from my grandmother. I may have learned the soup thing from her too. She always had soup on the back burner having fed starving men during the depression.
@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
27 Jun 11
Mom made oxtail soup, and that was what I craved when I came home from the hospital after having my first son. I think you may have been peeking in my freezer. I have a row of containers in the door that say what they are. I somehow got it in my head that my family would not eat lentils, and I had a bag in my cupboard for maybe two years. I had been going to fix small batches for myself, but never did. Well, I made a bean salad the other day, saved the juices from the canned beans and corn, went to my freezer and got another container of juices from canned goods, brought it to a boil and cooked that whole pound of lentils. I seasoned it with some chili powder and we have had two good meals. I have aboutfive more containers of veggies juices and broth and at least two containers of chicken broth from boiling chicken hindquarters to make cat food. (cheaper than the cheap store food and they are healthier). I will be making more soups and stews.
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@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Jun 11
Lentils are eaten here. Kidney beans. Canned juices are good too. Good for the soups and such. I don't do it much anymore.
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@Tina30219 (82056)
• Onaway, Michigan
23 Jul 11
I learned how to grocery shop basically by going shopping with my mom. I also learned from a class I took through our health department once I got married.
@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
23 Jul 11
That class sounds like a good idea.
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@Tina30219 (82056)
• Onaway, Michigan
23 Jul 11
It sure was I took it because I had kids and they gave me cooking lessons and after they we're over I got a certificate of completion and a cookbook that we used recipes from.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
22 Jul 11
Personally part of it was helping do the grocery shopping with my Mom back when I was in High School and a little bit older. but a lot of the main habits I think I have learned by having to always Scrimp and save, and just get by. There are those items I am very picky on what name brand I have to use no matter what the price, and then there are things that I really have no preference.
When it comes to meat even though it is just my husband and I usually we buy in Bulk and then cut up or store in plastic wrap, etc. to wait for another day when we want to eat it. The large family packs are the only way to go.
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
23 Jul 11
I agree, the family packs or bulk meat packs are so much more economical. Sam's Club has really good ground beef at a fairly good price, so we get ten pounds at a time. For the three of us a pound can make a pretty good meal. More than that and we can have left overs or son can put it in his lunch.
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@irishmist (3814)
• United States
10 Aug 11
Nobody really taught me how to shop. Except my mom told me to always write a list, so I didn't forget anything, and to try and plan my meals before shopping helter skelter.
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@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
25 Jun 11
I learned about grocery shopping mostly from my mom. Of course when I was a child I would go to the store with her all of the time. She taught me how to check expiration on the milk to make sure you are not getting an older one. She showed me how to look for sales and to look for the best prices on things and only buy meat on sale. She also used coupons. Not a ton of them, but she would get the Sunday paper and clipped the coupons of products she bought regularly. Back then I think if a can was bent you could get a discount, but I don't know any stores that do that any more. My mom was pretty brand loyal with many things but tried generics on occasion. My mom still uses most of the same brands to this day. I pretty much will just go with what ever is cheapest weather it is a store brand or a major brand. The only exception to that is cereal. I will buy the store brands on occasion but all my kids like certain main brands, so when they are on sale I will buy them. I also learned about Aldi's from my mom, and I shop there frequently.
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
25 Jun 11
There are "scratch and dent" stores around. We have one in our town. So for instance a load shifts on a semi, and one bottle of something breaks and stuff gets dented, this store will get them for a good price and resell them cheaply. He is not always cheaper than some of the places I shop, but he sometimes has ethnic food we do not usually find in this town. Oh, and great salad dressings.
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
25 Jun 11
Oh, and Aldis is one of the stores I learned about from my friends here. They did not have them where I grew up.
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@Danzylop (1120)
• Philippines
3 Aug 11
My mom started to ask me to go to the market when I was at Grade 2, hmmnn, 9 or 8 years old maybe. She would ask me to buy ground rice and kitchen stuffs like tomatoes, etc.
WE also have a Sari-sari Store (convenience store) sometimes I am the one who procure merchandise for the store. =)
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
26 Jun 11
I really dont remeber going to store to shop with mom or dad and sure it was nt dad.
I learned about meat as a meat wrapping job i had.
and some about meat when we cooked it and it was tuff so I dont buy that peice of meat ever!
Now my daughter does the shopping and we go for the bargins but not on canned veggies we buy the brand names as the off brand ones just dont taste right.
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
27 Jun 11
Doing the meat wrapping job, I am sure you learned a lot. I do not buy many canned vegetables, I buy more frozen. We did eat canned growing up, and I will buy canned beans. I think we all have our favorite things. I like Bushs Baked Beans better than any of the others, but we like Aldis canned clam chowder best.
@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
25 Jun 11
When I was young I used to go grocery shopping with my mother quite often and my grandmother (my mother's mom). My mom would use a lot of coupons as she was a single mother with two young girls, so she had to make ends meet any ways she could. My grandmom had a bit more money as she and my grandpop were pretty much retired and she rarely used coupons.
I did learn a lot about grocery shopping from my mother and also working in a grocery store when I got older.
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
25 Jun 11
Yes, I also worked in a grocery store for awhile, you can learn a lot there if you pay attention. Actually I know about the marked down meats here because I used to do product demonstrations in the store. Then later I did compliance checks for some things. I learned about a lot of stuff then.
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@kenzie45230 (3560)
• United States
27 Jun 11
I never thought about it. As a kid, I rarely went to the grocery store with my mom. However, I did know from the age of 3 that money was budgeted. (My folks used the envelope system, where they put money for every bill into envelopes.) I also knew that my mother never shopped without a list and never bought anything that wasn't on the list.
But no one every taught me to shop. I learned how to do my own lists and to stick to them, and how to use coupons on my own.
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
27 Jun 11
You were not taught, but you did learn.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Jun 11
I used to go with my grandparents..but I don't really remember learning anything but where the buggies and the checkput line was. They would make lists sometimes...I learned that. I guess I learned a lot of things the hard way..lol..I was on my own pretty early. I think I was learning how to cook and shop at the same time
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
29 Jun 11
WE kind of get thrown in and have to sink or swim if we are learning on our own or if we are far from our family.
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
1 Jul 11
Our WalMart cannot seem to keep a restaurant in business, but then there are deli foods and the people giving samples.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
29 Jun 11
Lists and not going before you eat are good strategies! Of course now in places like walmart they have restaurants INSIDE their store, which makes it tempting!
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
27 Jun 11
Our parents are good to help us start on our road in life.
@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
26 Jun 11
I would say that resident counselor staff at an institution for special needs kids (and teenagers) taught me the most basic of household skills, like grocery shopping. I learned budgeting from school. With that in mind, I entered the real world with some kind of knowledge. My foster mothers were well-to-do and just grabbed anything off the shelves, although my 2nd foster mother had a list with her and I never went with her often.
I guess the REAL learning experience comes when we start to do our own grocery shopping :-)
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
27 Jun 11
I think you are right. When you start using your own money, making your own meals and feeding a family you have to see what you have learned and how it applies to you. As a staff for the adult disabled and later as a coordinator, I had to help nine young ladies shop on budgets and also for their special health needs, bearing in mind that in the end they had the right to refuse what I tried to teach them. Some of them then learned the hard way. Some of the young ladies, I was fortunate, and they knew the limit on sugars etc. (diabetic) others were gaining weight as fast as could be and loved sour cream, full fat milk, and lots of junk foods. Thought was that a balanced meal was chip and dip plus a pizza., but I tried to mentor and teach what I could.
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@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
26 Jun 11
hi Garden Gerty, I learned from my mother how to shop and also how to budget money. She taught ne to never spend more than what comes in.
Your post makes me think of the years I studied in another city. I was in a students boarding house with quite a number of international students in it. The girl next door was from New Zealand, had lots of money but it never lasted for the month and she would come and try to borrow. One day I told her no wonder you need to borrow when you buy in the super expensive supermarket.
I discovered a smaller one in an area where I needed to use public transportation to get there but I did at least once a week as the stuff was much cheaper there.
Was one of the few students who even could save up cause of good budgeting and wise grocery shopping.
Today I also do buy more pre packaged stuff and dont make everything from scratch but still check the flyers from the various supermarkets so we make bargains.
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
27 Jun 11
It is good that you learned from your mother. Did the student next door take your advice? I was flattered both when I was in college and my friend asked for help and also when the young man asked for help learning. My major bargain shopping where I have to go out of town only happens once or maybe twice a month. I find some good deals in the flyers.
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@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
27 Jun 11
she didnt really take that advice but struggled towards the end of the month as long as she lived next door. And that in spite of the fact she had much more money than we others did.
@thefarmersson (77)
• Philippines
26 Jun 11
Hi GardenGerty,
Who taught me about Grocery Shopping? Nobody but me.
I had worked to one of the top food chains here in the Philippines named Jollibee Foods Corporation as a part time Service Crew. That was 3 months before leaving 16, my age at that time. I was at my First Year College at that time. Although my parents did not permit me to work, as i was very young and it may affect my studies, they did not insist me to stop working as I was firm with my decision that I wanted to work and I wanted to learn. It is not that I lacked of allowance but I really wanted to learn. I have never earned a single peso on my own until that time. I want to show to myself that I am not a Father's son, a spoiled brat. A happy go lucky. I want to know and learn the value of money. My Father has been working overseas all his life and it is only during my First Year College that I realized how much sacrifice my Father is doing in order for him to provide what we needs. I knew he always wanted to be a great and number provider among all the fathers in the world and that is what has intilled to us by our Mom.
I had been friended with Good youths at my age and we all were a working students. Sometimes, during our Day Offs, we used to go out and shop and use our extra wages. We used to buy cheap items as those were the only items that could match the pesos we are holding. Of course, we did bargaining although I was not good at bargaining during the first time, with all my courage to try and do so, I had managed and was able to buy things cheaper than the said price. It was a nice feeling. Yes my mind said "a nice feeling" but my heart said not. It is because, i was not able to help the vendor. She is old and had many wrinkles on her face. But what can I do? That was done and if only I could turn back the hands of the clock, instead of bargaining, I might add some more extra pesos to the said price. And will just do and learn bargaining again with the more priveledged vendors. Now, I am on my second year college level and If there is still a chance for me to get hired to any fast food chains here in my province, I would save all my earnings using a passbook and keep it as a souvenir. Perhaps, I 'll show it to my Dad when he is home.
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
27 Jun 11
Working in stores gives you good first hand experience and your Dad has set a good example of earning and managing money. I am sure he and your mom are both proud of you. I hope you are going to enjoy MyLot, but do not let it keep you from your studies. You sound like a very bright young man.
@thefarmersson (77)
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
Hello GandenGerty,
Thanks for your Advice. No, I would not let my pens and notebooks fall out from my fingers over the use of internet because my view for these matters were being coincided. If I am good over hard facilities which includes notebooks, books and pens, I want to make it better with the use of soft Facilities which I think the Internet can offer. This is one reason why I do not want to have an added extra units not based upon our course prospectus. 6 to 7 hours of classes at school weekdays for me is ideal.
Thanks
Dennis
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@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
14 Aug 11
My mother would take me to the grocery store as a baby, toddler, and up, and put me in the seat in the cart. As she shopped, she'd tell me what she was getting, how much it cost, etc. so I would learn about shopping. It worked. I'll never forget those fun shopping trips.
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
24 Aug 11
My children always went with me as well. I think talking to your kids certainly helps them be smarter about everything.
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
25 Jun 11
I'd have to say that though my sister first took me grocery shopping, it was my husband and some friends who taught me how to shop wisely. I found that though some things in bulk might seem a better deal, until you do the math, (yes this is one time I don't mind dong the math, when I can save money..lol) Also, if something is cheaper in bulk, that to make sure I have storage so I can stock up...
@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
26 Jun 11
Those are very good pointers. Also, if you have coupons, often they are of better use applied to the smaller boxes as you actually save a bigger percentage of the overall price. It is good you are still learning, and so am I to be honest.
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
26 Jun 11
Yep, we are never too old to learn...
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
27 Jun 11
I married & left home so early guess i taught myself.Having a husband that was so tight he sreaked helped me to be careful of what i bought. If i spent as much as $25 at the grocery he freaked.
@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
27 Jun 11
I remember when $25 was considered a substantial amount of money. I guess he made you accountable.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
27 Jun 11
frist off I hate grocery shopping! When I was growing up I went with my mom sometimes. She went to at least 3 different grocery stores to get the best deals! Then she would use coupons. Sometimes for things we didn't use! I remember her running all over the grocery store getting this and that! It drove me nuts! When I got older I went with my sister,after she got married,grocery shopping. I remeber she went up and down every aisle(didn't shop like a maniac!) and had a list. I know I was never really taught how to spend wisely. Same goes with other items. Anyway I didn't have the best teachers and I am someone who doesn't save alot on her grocerey bill!
@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
27 Jun 11
If you are happy with what you buy and you have enough money to afford it, then finding bargains does not really matter. A bad experience can mean that you do not like something in the future, like shopping. I go to more than one place to shop, but not in one week and certainly not all on the same day.
@gdesjardin (1918)
• United States
28 Jun 11
I remember going to the grocery store with my mom when I was little. We would look for certain brands and certain sizes so she could use her coupons. My sister and I would help our mother fill up the grocery cart and proceed to the checkout. Of course back then there were no scanners and checking out took much longer. We would watch the bill get higher and higher only to know that the amount would lower and soon as the coupons were entered. Well my mother had a terrible habit of clipping coupons and forgetting about the expiration dates. We would be so embarrassed each and every shopping trip!! I actually learned more how to shop and look for the real bargains and effectively use coupons on my own. Even before I had kids I would cut corners at the grocery store, knowing the more I saved at the store, the more money I would have for other things...and back then it was probably spent on clothes! Years later, my dad now does the grocery shopping and I have converted him from the higher dollar grocery stores, to Wal-Mart. Maybe he should have been doing the grocery shopping back in the day as well.
@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
28 Jun 11
Actually having you help was a great way to reinforce your skills in math and reading. It is great when we can learn across generations.
@karan03 (1)
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27 Jun 11
Yes I like grocery shopping. I learn me from my mother. My mother tell me about this shopping. Yes some people name brand thing but in my case it is not necessary.
@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
27 Jun 11
When we can learn in our home it is good. Sometimes those name brands can be really costly.