Falling love at first sight
By gxnfly
@gxnfly (1147)
China
June 26, 2011 1:23am CST
I'm naturally tentative and very organized .It's hard to sum it all up in just one word,but in short I don't believe in falling in love at first sight.
All has changed before I met him.He is a snazzy-looking guy.I like worked our tails off ,you know,not to think about him.But it just won't work.
So just own it,I'm in love
OH,my god ,help me!
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11 responses
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
26 Jun 11
I think alot of time it is just infatuation with a person or admiration. Over time, we may start to love love or me may not like them at all once we get to know them better.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
26 Jun 11
Don't be too upset---love at first sight is usually just a matter of chemistry that will eventually fade away. I guess something in his pheromones calls to you. Don't do anything physical with him until you get to know and genuinely like or love him because these love at first sight things fizzle usually fizzle out quickly once they become physical. Given time and the chance to know each other, they can last for decades!
@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
26 Jun 11
I think you have a major crush! I began to reminisce how I met my husband many years ago. Was it love at first sight? I would love to think so.
But there is more to it. You've got to learn more about him, understand his thoughts and feelings, his principles in life to see if he's the kind of guy you'd want to fall in love with. It sounds like practical advice when there is no practicality in love. But you just have to wait and see if things work out for the both of you. All the best!
@dyeni23 (128)
•
26 Jun 11
I also don't believe in one. Still didn't had the chance to experience it yet too. But usually the people who I know of that said they've experienced it has their relationships ended soon too. because at the end of the day, they realized it wasn't love but an infatuation only. But one thing i know of is "Follow your heart." And if it fails, then use your head to go back home and restart :)
@shibham (16977)
• India
26 Jun 11
Hi...
Its impossible to fall in love at first sight. Without knowing a person properly, a fool may fall in love. i dont know how you have fallen, whats the advantage of him that he attracted you at the first sight? Please ask yourself before continuing the relationship.
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
26 Jun 11
Hi gxnfly,
I'm glad you're in love!~
Well, to some maybe love at first sight might definitely work and to some may not be..
It really depends to each and everyone of us, I guess! The important thing is, you know if you're really in love to someone or just a crush. Crush and love is a different thing, right? :)
I'm happy for you.
@AgentGulaman (3546)
• Philippines
26 Jun 11
I think love at first sight is superficial and shallow. In my opinion, it was just brought about by a sudden burst of intense feeling. Maybe at that point in time you were vulnerable or in a position of necessity that's why you fell. Attractions are part of human nature. Don't get too caught by emotions. Attraction is not the same as love. I advise you to know him first and let attraction guide you to do just that.
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
26 Jun 11
Sounds good that you're in love. I'm happy for you and make the best out of it. Just be happy..
@AFI34974 (61)
• United States
26 Jun 11
I definitely don't believe in love at first sight. Now, really being interested upon first seeing them maybe...but love is a bit much. In order to love you have to know a person fully...you can't just love someone's looks, you have to love everything about them.
I know what you mean about trying not to think about him, haha, I'm trying my hardest to ignore the most beautiful guy I've ever seen because I don't want to get hurt :/