Can't control myself - I want to message my boyfriend!!!

why dont you message him already. whenever i am in the mood to send him a message, i would. i will not think what he will say or how he interprets my affection. then its up to him. why control your feelings and you simply want to just let him know how you are feeling... has he said not too send him any message? I WOULD REALLY SUGGEST THAT YOU go ahead and let him feel you love him send him those messages even if it clogs his phone!!! haha =) goodluck girl.

Don't "chase" after the man. Let them chase you instead ;)

I don't think there is any harm in SMS or calling him if you have something to share or something to tell him, or even if you just feel like communicating. But is it just because you are bored? If it is just because you are bored, then you might want to put some effort into trying to find something else to do as well.

you actually just wanted to say how you feel and that you misses him. Go and text him if you want. But, if he started to tell you that he doesn't want receiving more text from you in a day then you should adjust too. it's a matter of checking first if you think he will like receiving more of your sweet notes or not.

I would resist that. Not being able to control myself is a very bad sign. It would make me question if I was not in love, but rather infatuated with someone. That's not good, and normally ends badly. I want to be in control of myself at all times and in all situations.

There is nothing wrong with that he should be happy. Maybe you should try and go to school for that. They can make pretty good money.

yes I experienced that too. it depends on the guy. if he is OK with constant calls and texting then I will keep doing that. if he doesn't like it, I will then find something else to occupy my time.

It is not bad to call or text him from time to time. Especially on days that you will not be able to see him due to work. I think it will just mean that you care for him and constatntly thinks of him. Send him a sweet text once a day. I suggest every morning, so that he would know that he is the first thing on your mind when you wake up. However, try to avoid calling or texting him every hour of everyday. This would seem that you are monitoring or controlling. You would not want him doinng that to you as well right?

i have been like that when we were new and was a bit uncomfy with us being far away from each other. when i got myself a job and got busy with my life, i finally found myself not texting him and even forgetting about him which is wrong i know that is why i always call him once a day. so if you dont like doing that, just keep yourself busy.

Seriously, that's sweet. But too much, as we all know, isn't good. Some guys tends to be irritated and think of it as "clingy". A little space wouldn't hurt :)

That happens to me as well. I feel like calling and monitoring every move he has to make sure that he's not doing any other stuff. But it's actually an immature thing to do so. Guys like it when their girl does their own thing and have a sense of independence. Give yourself a little time to enjoy your life even without him. Most guys does not find it pretty if their girlfriends are clingy and don't do other stuff other than them. It's normal to miss him every now and then but wouldn't it be more fulfilling if you allow him to be missed by you?

well if you truly love your boyfriend you should not hide anything from him. you should call him very time you feel like. i call my girlfriend very second most guy don't like when a girl hide her feeling form them you should tell him how you feel that make the relationship strong

Hi, I would be happy receiving your SMS if I am your BF. C'mon send him a message now and tell what you feel. There's no harm in that. Boys always love to receive messages from their GF.