Do you share it or not?

If i have family trouble, normally i keep it to myself and talk it out to God. And if ever i will share it to friends to a limit person only, a person who is i trusted most and not judgemental, and a person who knows me better. Well some people do may leave you after what they know especially when they hear your story is no good for them. And even backbite you after. Sometimes having a family trouble thats the time you would know who your real friends are.

I don't share my family troubles with friends often anymore, when I do it's always a sarcastic remark like I'm really just brushing it off as another day in the life of me. It's not that I think they'll leave me or anything I just don't feel the need to get my family drama in my friendships, I hate the pity party, or when they just don't know what to say.

im not a friendly person, thus, i dont have too many friends. but if i have family problems, i prefer not telling them. i used to share before, but later on i realized i dont gain anything if i tell them... they dont understand, they dont give advices, and they just listen for the sake of "respecting" me and not with the intentions of helping. i can say that mylot is a better friend... :)