Confusion
By Philkum
@Philkum (11)
Malaysia
June 27, 2011 3:09pm CST
Hey guys, can help me with my "kindness problem"?
well, i'm such a "very kind" person, who really want to help others but at the same time its a burden on myself. I realized it, but how to change my attitude at least i can be a little selfish? need help...thanks.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
10 Sep 11
It is not bad to be kind but at least you should know the limit. Don't be too kind to the point of being unkind to yourself. Love your neighbors just as you love yourself. Don't ever burden yourself for the sake of being kind. You can always be kind without being burdened anyway.
@genesisgroldan (214)
• Philippines
28 Jun 11
I also became one of that. I want to impress and help others in any way I can and I became a people pleaser. It's not healthy to be like that though. It means that something is wrong with you and that you lack self esteem. Learn how to say no with a reason. Some may be against you but you cannot please anyone. Love yourself and everything else will fall into their place. Don't let anyone abuse you in any kind.
