have you ever......
By rachaellee
@rachaellee (58)
United States
June 27, 2011 6:34pm CST
have you ever cried so much that your tears stopped coming but you were still crying. i cried almost a full day. and by night time the tears stopped flowing but i was still crying my chest was heavy and i could not breath. i was mad sad and happy all at the same time. it was a hard time for me to have to leave my husband but i was 7 months pregnant and it was the perfect time to get out. he hurt me and our oldest son. i was always to scared to get out. anyway thats why i cried a whole day lol didn't want to leve you hanging.
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@babystar1 (4233)
• United States
28 Jun 11
No I never cried that much.But I am very proud of you for leaving him. No women needs to be treated mean by any man. I dont no what he did to you and your son, but I am glad for you that you left him. good luck to you... A job well done.
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@rachaellee (58)
• United States
28 Jun 11
thank you! he was a very mean man and our son didnt need that
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
28 Jun 11
I’m proud of her too for getting out of that situation. Kudos to you Rachaellee!
@pinklilly (3443)
• Australia
28 Jun 11
Yes I have before. It is so draining on the body and you become dehydrated from loosing all those tears... I hope you are better now and good for you for getting out while you could.. There are still so many women in abusive relationships scared to leave. You needed to protect yourself and children. I watched my mother be abused by my father and even though he wasn't living with us. He would still come and go.. I had a very complicated upbringing.. It must be hard bringing up two children on your own but be Thankful your no longer in an abusive relationship and help your precious children to become loving caring people as I'm sure you are
@pinklilly (3443)
• Australia
18 Aug 11
Yes it is true for some. I'm sorry to hear that you were taken out of that. I hope you were very happy in your adopted family. You must have dealt with a lot growing up.. My famly is messed up but I don't know how I would really feel if I was adopted I think I would have self doubt, even though I know it's not my fault... I suppose you would be grateful to have a family that truely loves you.
@rachaellee (58)
• United States
28 Jun 11
i'm sorry thats tuff. i was taken out of a situation like that when i was 4. then i was moved around and finally adopted at 5 but they say when your around that when your small you sometimes get into it when your older with relation ships :( and it is extreamly hard but i love my boys and i'm glad my youngest does not have to see it at all and sorry my oldest had to for so long
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@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
28 Jun 11
Yeah I was getting closer and closer to the computer monitor reading your Post seeing as what could make you cry so much! I have cried like this and trust me I have done it many of times!
@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
28 Jun 11
Yes it was very depressing and called for a lot of ice!
@rachaellee (58)
• United States
28 Jun 11
its hard :( im sorry that you have gone threw that too
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Jun 11
I understand your feelings.
You made a very hard decision and you were crying because you have mixed emotion at this moment.
I hope you feel better now,and stopped crying it will be bad for the baby.
just relax and think that you are free and you win from a battle.
Have a good day too and welcome to mylot
@rachaellee (58)
• United States
28 Jun 11
thanks it is still hard even tho my son is already 5 months i was 7 months pregnant with him at the time but my life is moving on and i show im happy for my boys
@rachaellee (58)
• United States
28 Jun 11
i agree i feel like they get tired too. i just could not stop crying even tho i was tired of it
@GemmaR (8517)
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28 Jun 11
I don't cry very often, so I can honestly say that I have never had this experience. I am sorry that you have had to go through all of this pain, though. It must have been awful for you. I think that you were very brave to leave your husband though. Sometimes it takes a lot more strength to leave than it takes to stay, meaning that leaving him is probably the bravest decision that you ever made. I would allow a man to hurt me a couple of times, but I would never be able to forgive him for hurting one of my children.
@titchy1231 (732)
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29 Jun 11
no, i cant say i have although sometimes when i cry i cry alot, but never run out of tears
@jean_marie (51)
• Philippines
28 Jun 11
I have not tried that. But I know that you are going through a difficult time especially that you are pregnant. Your husband is a mean person, he should not hit you not just because you are pregnant but because it's not good your wife and the kid. He does not deserve you, your son and your new baby. It was a tough but a good decision of yours to leave him. It is okay if you cry, as others will say, cry it all out. You will soon get up and move on from this mess! Good luck and take care.
@igatiful_badass (1222)
• Philippines
28 Jun 11
Hi rachaellee!
Ow sorry to hear your story. But at least now you have your freedom.
I think its whats best for both of you and your baby soon to come.
Yes i did cried so hard many times and felt what you had felt. Though in not on the same situation as you have but crying is a big help to release the pain deep inside you. Once the rain stop you will see the light.
Face this new life as a new beginning and for a brighter future for both of you and your child.
Take care.
@soccerbai123 (274)
• Philippines
28 Jun 11
yes, i have tried that several times. like you know your eyes are drying since you have used up all of the tears in your eyes but you are still sobbing. my experience was basically everything was falling apart with my life at that moment, hurt by a lover and cannot go to school anymore. that was what happened
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
28 Jun 11
Hi Rachaellee,
Yes, I think I have cried so much that the tears dried up but I was still crying. I probably dehydrated myself from crying so much. Crying actually wears me out and I have to sleep afterwards, if I have been terribly upset. That happens to you too? I have cried so much that I hyperventilated and I couldn’t breathe anymore. Then I would get the ‘sup-sups’ for a long time afterwards. This happened to me a lot as a kid, and some when I was grown. I don’t like getting into those kinds of confrontations, but I have been that upset.
You should never stay in a marriage or relationship where the husband hurts you and your child. I applaud you for having the courage to get out when you did. Good for you!
@AFI34974 (61)
• United States
28 Jun 11
I've never cried so much that the tears stopped coming, but I have cried to much that I completely forgot what I was crying about! It's a very good thing you left him. I know it can be hard, but you made the right choice and you'll get through it, I'm sure :)