Do you think it's possible for someone who been so heart-broken to find love??

United States
June 28, 2011 6:04pm CST
I have a friend, and he's been heart broken alot that he's kind of put up a wall around his heart.., he wont let himself to emotional let a person in, like not in a romantic relationship kind of way... how are some things that he can do to let himself be open again????
7 responses
@angelo315 (232)
• Philippines
29 Jun 11
There is a reason for everything, you will know it in time. I believe that there is a big possibility for someone who experienced heart breaks to find true and everlasting love. Maybe, good things come to those who wait. Your friend needed you most, he needs companion. You may comfort him and let him feel that he is loved and special. Pain can be soul destroying, it can be heart breaking, if we allow it to be, but we can turn it around. We should maintain our positive outlook on life. Life is beautiful. It has so much to offer. We should open our eyes to see it. There is a rainbow after the rain. All the storms in our lives may seem unbearable at times, but after that storm is a beautiful rainbow reminding us of God's promises.... God's love. :)
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• Philippines
29 Jun 11
YES. All wounds can be healed in time. Just let the pain go and eventually you will feel better soon. Don't give up on love because there are many good man out there just waiting for someone. Love is everything, it can make you happy and gives you the reason to go on with life even though how hard it is.
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@rhodzptc (1317)
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
Well it seems that he hasn't find that true love yet that is why he has been heart broken a lot. Some day my friend she will meet that woman that would brings back all those shine in his eyes makes him smile and love again... I'm sure it will because it already happened to already. I closed my doors and windows of opportunity to fall in love again but then one day I met him and it changes everything he heals me and make me fall inlove again.
@AishaBR (345)
• United States
1 Jul 11
I know a guy like this. He puts up a wall and it takes years for him to let a girl in. I don't think its good to do this becaus its just makes girls not interested or they just want to keep trying jst to see if they can get through. It's like a game for some girls they get through and then become bored and of course leave the boy heart broken again. He just nees to take time for himself and get over his heart break and then thats when he will be able to have a decent relationship.
@AFI34974 (61)
• United States
29 Jun 11
I know how he feels. I sure hope there's a way, if not I'm destined to be alone too :/ The only thing I can say is don't give up. I know it's hard to let yourself trust people after such awful things happening, but you;ll never get anywhere if you don't try. Remember, hardly anyone ever marries their first love. You have to go through many wrong people before you can find the right one.
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• United States
29 Jun 11
It will take time for him to be open again, but it will happen. Start out friends, and then take it from there, 1st and for most sounds like he don't trust anyone because of his heart being broken. Once he starts to trust again fully a 100% he will start to open up slowly at first but once he meets the right girl he will be all the way open with time.
@bhonti (1246)
• Philippines
29 Jun 11
falling in love after being in a failed relationship is really hard. If the break up happaned just recently, I dont recommend to force himself to date other people and make himself fall in love. Let time heal the wound first, let him find time for himself alone, so that he will be able to recollect and appreciate himself. The most important thing is to learn to love yourself first before loving anybody else. Then eventually, as time goes by, he will find himself ready to go out and meet new friends and hopefully find love.