learning to love some one

First of all you got it all wrong. You start with God first. One day I asked God, God please I really want someone in my life. A few months later I met Rhea...We have been dating for 4 years. Be a good man. Love Her like no other. God will help you give love. He is the originator of love. Remember there is no love without peace and hapiness. God will provide it. You cannot. He made it, he will supply it. Trust me. All the bad things that happened in my relationship: lust, hate, suspiscion, judmental thoughts was without God. All the good things in my relationship: kindness, generoosity, honesty, and true concern, came from God. I pray for you. Take care zizonan.

Hi Zizonan, Love is a natural one and you will know yourself learning it. I would say love first comes with ourself. You will love yourself for one or other reason, next with a gal/boy. Love is unexpectable, so love all and you will get the love back. There is nothing like learning to love, it naturally comes out of every one of us. Cheers!!

I agree with the first responder. It all starts with God. I do believe loving can be learned and the heart can be taught. I don't have any love experiences cause I taught my heart not to fall in love at the moment. But one time, I had a little crush on one of my Superiors at work. I haven't met him in person. Just saw his picture and others talk about him like he was a really cool guy. I always see his picture at work, like everyday. I started researching about his life (i know that's not good and I admit I really gathered a lot of information about his private life). I became more interested. I gathered 3 pictures of him, I started daydreaming, all my friends know about it already. I only get to talk to him on the phone, and I've been carrying this feeling for a while now. I don't know if it can be considered as love, but anyway. The funny thing is, I never even met him. My image of him was born in my thoughts. And I think I fell in love with the man in my dreams and he doesn't even know I exist! Anyway, before this post becomes too personal, my answer to your first question, is yes. I maybe wrong.

Hi! It is hard to get someone who really love you but it is easy to love someone. If you get someone who really love you, you should thank God for such a great arrangement. Love can be learn but it will take time. The folks said, time will let you fall in love with someone. When you get along with someone long enough, you will automatically fall in love with him or her. That is why when you lost your first love but get another one with limited love from you, and after both of you together for some time, you will find the good site of the person and you will definitely love her more than before.

i totally agree with you as love is a two way attribute.its better to take time to know a person before making any committment or doing anything serious.

love is worst part of life

you'll learn to love someone when you take away your pride and selfishness. it also feels great when someone loves you more than you do. however, sometimes the person who loves you might realize she's been taken for granted by you if you don't open up your heart to love her like she loves you. i've been in a situation where i love the person more than he loves me. it's hard, i've made a lot of sacrifice and kept on contemplating why i love him despite of the coldness and pain that he gave me. before i knew him i prayed to God for love to arrive.. i thought he's the one that God gave me.. yet i suffered so much that i couldn't bear the emptiness inside until i decided to give up. he asked another chance, and i gave him the chance to change and start from scratch... the best thing is, he gave his word and now we're happy to be back on track. I just hope, wish, and pray that our love will remain for eternity. in his case, he said he learned to love me.. i think i learned to love him on the first place when i was on the process of trying to let go of him. who knows... love moves in mysterious ways. it's a learning process that we need to understand and develop throughout the years. like some people would say it's great be in love with that same person all over and over again.

I have met people who got married at a late age and they all told me that at that time they didn't love their spouse at all. IN fact they met only on a dating program organized by their government and then after a month of preparation they got married. HOwever, as time goes by living as husbands and wives, they learned to love and respect each other. So i guess love can be learned.

Yeah, there is. there is always possibility to learn love. You can do it any time you want. Try to love somebody tenderly. Never expect more than that. Love in return will come, if you love purely. So, start it right now.

Hi Zizonan, first you love yourself, their no need for other person to learn love. so each and every moment love your activity.

Yes, there's a lot of possibility that you'll learn to love someone. Especially if someone's giving his all effort and giving his best. By showing he really cares. And yea,it's better that your partner love you more than you love him. :)