Deal with the boss who flirt to your girfriend or boyfriend!
By rhejans
@rhejans (191)
Philippines
June 29, 2011 9:02pm CST
Me and my love often have quarrels because of his boss. I am really so upset everytime his boss calling at her phone every hour. I told her she should stop answering her phone calls coming to his boss especially not related to her work. She agreed. She do what i've said. But still everytime i check her phone, It always prompt me the text messages of his boss. It's really annoyed me that I really feel that his boss has something feelings to my girlfriend. At first i just ignored it, thinking that it was just work related. But it became more worst and worst. I am not that too stupid to accept those things. i love my girlfriend, I don't wanna lose her. I think his boss already taking advantage to my girlfriend. I am so worried. I trust her but i don't trust his boss. What do you think i should do? Should I tell my girlfriend that she should look for another Job? Have you ever experience this to your partner? How did you deal with it? What did you do? I need your opinion about this. T_T huhuhuh
4 responses
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
I'm having a problem dealing with your his and her I think you need to check on that.In the first sentence i think it should be "Me and my love often have quarrels because of HER boss. :) and so with the other sentence.
correct me if I'm wrong. :)
And regarding your problem,that must be really hard for you because the boss like her. You need to do something on that. Try to answer the phone call of your gf's boss and you might have a talk. Or worst let her change he number, changing your phone is a good idea too... But looking for a job is really hard for her. It's not easy to look for a new job nowadays. Just be calm or better trust her. If she loves you so much she wont screw up with his boss. You need to have a heart to heart talk with your girl and everything will be fine. :)
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
It seems that your girlfriend is already aware of how you feel about this situation. You said you trust her. Then trust her in making the right decision as well. You van just open up and tell her what you think is right but you don't have the right to tell her to find another job. She an adult and I believe she can handle his boss. If she herself thinks she's being taken advantage of, then she should decide to leave on her own.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
First of all before doing that, try to discover and let your girlfriend introduce you to him. Know whatever are there to know about him, if he is married or not. But whatever they are, try to assess if the boss truly have some other intention for your girlfriend.
If it is, then request for your girlfriend to be transferred to another department or better , to look for another job while having that job still. Possibilities are : your girlfriend might eventually fall for the boss or the boss will harass her into falling for her.
Better to prevent it from becoming true.
