Do you computer games influence children later on in life or at any stage?

June 30, 2011 11:45am CST
I was watching a programme the other day and thye were discussing this, do you video games, computer games influence children and well adults actions in there life and laterame in life? For me I think it really depends on how much a child or person is playing a game and what sort of game aswel. I don't think it's right that children are able to play all these fighting, killing, shooting war games. I think there are more suitable, educational games out there for them to play. Personally we don't own a games console in our house. Me and my partner don't play any games on pc/laptop, admitadly I enjoy playing sims but I know what the real world is. I am not keen when it comes round to one day for my son asking for a games system and all these awful fighting games, but you can restrict them from everything because eventually they will see it wheather you like it or not. So do you think computer games influence children and adults in life and later on in life? Opinions please? Thanks.
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@JakeQ24 (15)
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
a big YES for that. i mean, children these days tend to spend most of their time in front of computers than to stay outside in the hot sun. here in our country, we've lost some of our childhood games because of computer games. since computer games where introduced, i've seen less and less children playing outside. now how can i say they affect children? i've seen children respond to their parents in a very rude way just because they were not allowed to play computer games. i've seen children skipping classes just so they can play computer games. i've seen children cheating, lying, stealing just so they can play computer games. its alarming really. i think this is an important matter that should be looked at.
1 Jul 11
Thats terrible
@surfer222 (1714)
• Indonesia
1 Jul 11
If a bodybuilder use a steroid to make him more muscular is wrong is that mean that bodybuilding is bad? If people in America strugling to fight overweight is that mean that sugar is bad? At least for me the answer to that is NO, we need to workout to make our body healthy, we need a proper amount of sugar in our body, and we need games to train mind-body coordination. All activity including gaming are fine as long as we do it on the proper amount.
@dark_joev (3034)
• United States
1 Jul 11
Well every study done to date has found that Video Games and especially Violent Video Games effect people no more than any other kind of media. Despite the claims of some that it is the interactivity that is involved that makes video games more life changing. This has been shown to be false. It has no real influence actually in some of the studies done they found that Television is actually more influential. That study focused on a group of Violent offenders which they did have playing computer games but most of these cases they said and found that the TV has far more of an impact especially when it is a murder and the news covers what happened and then a string of them start. This is because people want to get on the news and the attention. Where Video Games are normally not done for any attention but to pass the time So the influence is no higher than anything else around the person. Actually the biggest influence is what happens within the home most people in prison have some nasty history at around 5-6 years old.
@mantis36 (4219)
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
maybe computer games, action martial horror movies, sword and weapon toys, they are all the same.....
@GemmaR (8517)
1 Jul 11
Computer games to affect children without a doubt. Children who see violence on a regular basis on the computer can often become desensitised to it, which means that they won't see violence as a "bit deal" if they saw it in real life. This means that they are much more likely to commit violent crimes when they are older, and also more likely to be arrested during their adult lives. Obviously not all computer games are violent, but it is important to realise that those that are can have a dramatic effect on the child later on in their lives.
1 Jul 11
Thank you for your comment.
• United States
30 Jun 11
Games have their pros and their cons. My brother grew up on computer games and he still is great with any game you put in front of him. We'd play the same thing but but even though I'm older, I'll ask him to finish a level for me. We're not into war games and all that, but he'd still be awesome with those when our cousins bring their games and console. Long story short, my brother, my cousins and I have all turned out okay. The violence in games can be desensitizing and controversial but the whole point of games is learning to strategize and plan and figure out things on your own. Games are very educational and we tend to take that for granted. As for fighting games, if your child's behavior is changing in any way, it's not just because of the violence. It could be because the nature of computer games is that you only play on your own. If this is a concern and you don't want you child to grow anti-social, make a rule that limits a day to playing outside or sign him for karate (LOTS of discipline there). I'd also like to recommend a video on youtube. It's about the way gaming can make the world a better place. It's very informative and very very interesting. I hope you'll enjoy it the way I did! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dE1DuBesGYM
• United States
1 Jul 11
LOL! I love how random your reply is! I think it's awesome that your nephew is taking karate lessons. I am thinking of getting into it (or maybe kung fu) when I have enough resources! :) Meanwhile, I stick with my sudoku :)
1 Jul 11
My nephew goes to karate and has not made any difference of his bahaviour and he isnt subject to any of those sorts of games. My sister wraps him in cotton wool lol, so completely the opposite
@SilverKing (1003)
• Canada
30 Jun 11
Personally I think that computer and console video games are influencing the youth of today.Violent games that depict acts of harm on others seem to normalize this sort of behavior.If these games continue to be played I feel that the next generation will be much more violent and accept violence as a normal occurrence.Games of today need to have some educational content in them , which very few actually deliver.More puzzle games and games that teach people how to solve normal every day problems will ensure that the people of tomorrow are not violent and aggressive people with few to no life skills.
• Romania
30 Jun 11
I think it depends on every kid's psychological strength if a video game is influencing him more or less. It doesn't depend on the age so much as discernment should be developed at an early age before starting to play on the computer. And this discernment shall do what it's supposed to do: "tell" the kid what's good and what's bad. And when he'll play violent video games he'll realize that it's just a game made for entertainment. Prohibiting violent games will make the situation even worse as kids will want it even more than before. I think the best solution is in educating children, in "developing" their discernment.
• United States
30 Jun 11
Hi Katrina, It’s hard to really say whether video games and computer games affect kids in a negative way. Some would argue that they don’t, and I don’t have any statistics to back me up, but I think that we are all influenced in one way or another by what we see, do and hear. Our eyes are the portal to the soul, as ‘they’ say. I think the more that we see and hear things that are negative or frightening the more sensitized we are to it. Like a blood and guts murder game, or a violent rape video game…( I heard that Grand Theft Auto had some really violent games)… could possibly affect some kids. I think it all has to do with whether the kids think it is real or if they know it is just fantasy. I remember hearing about some kids playing Dungeons and Dragons and they did some stuff that was really bad, but don’t remember what it was. They were acting out their fantasies in real life… I heard that years ago.. but don’t remember the particulars of it. So anyway, I think it just depends on the kids and the adults in their lives, and what they perceive as real and as fantasy. For the most part, I think kids can handle stuff like this without being negatively affected by it.
30 Jun 11
Thank yu for your comments and opinion. I think ill research and see if I can find any cases, stories or statistics.
30 Jun 11
Everything influences us in later life. However, I think what you're talking about is the fear that violent computer games make people violent in life: this has been an ongoing discussion since home video games were invented! Before that, the same concerns were voiced over role-playing games like Dungeons & Dragons, Runequest and so on. Before that (and even now), it was violent films. To be honest, I don't think anyone has the answer. Since it's psychology, there is no simple response to the question. I've played computer games for over 30 years and was an avid roleplayer before that - and I'm a pacifist. Some of the most violent people I've met have never played either. When it comes down to it, I believe video games can influence us to be more violent, yes. But only as part of a much, much, much wider range of influences that also encourage violence. If kids are allowed to do nothing but play violent games, watch violent TV shows and exist entirely in a virtual world, then obviously they're going to turn out really badly adjusted to reality. It's down to good parenting to show children appropriate values, since parents have a far greater influence on their children's psyche than a bunch of moving pixels ever will.
30 Jun 11
I do agree with what you are saying and I know a lot of people feel very strongly about this, being the reasin I started a discussion, thought it make a good one. It certainlly is down to good parenting and how the raise the child indeed.
@nemrac12 (388)
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
hello mylotter, yes computer games really influence people, especially young people. why did i say that? because i've seen a lot of children in our place who are computer addicts ( should i say )their studies is number 0ne being influenced by computer games. some students did not go to school just to play computer games. we have computer cafe in our place and mostly children are the one playing .
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
3 Jul 11
I think games can be addiction sometimes. I played a lot of games and it was very time consuming. I spent hours playing and sometimes didn't my work but played without caring for anything else. So the wise thing is to keep the children out the PC games because they can be the addiction. Thanks.
@ezquiza (15)
2 Jul 11
there are certain games that have different effects on children, however i believe most children over the age of 10 are not affected at all even form those games that contain high-violence or criminal behavior. As children grow up they should play less games to prevent anti-social behavior.
@febrigas (362)
• Indonesia
1 Jul 11
Indeed positive and negative influences that may occur depending on each individual, especially for adult age. But at the age of children, every action in the game, can be imitiated by children, be it good or bad. as an example in my country, have found cases that resulted in the broken hands due to play wrestling with his friend. They imitate, every movement of wrestling figures, in their video games. For it, games that contain elements of violence and s*x should not be played by children under age. Because it is not good for their development.. And parents should be more longer supervise their children's behaviour..