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So I've been dating a guy for a while now and I am completely in love with him and I know he is someone I will be with for a very long time. We currently live about 80 miles apart, so most of our time together consists of weekends and an ocassional visit during the week. Our relationship is built on trust and communication. Our problem... his ex-girlfriend. She cheated on him over a year ago and that was the end of their relationship. He has told her time and again that it is over, that he is happy, and that he wants nothing more to do with her. He even had to block her number from his phone. She continues to contact him through e-mail and mutual friends to tell him either how much she misses him and loves him and wants him back, or IF she happens to have a boyfriend at the time, she tells him how happy she is with her new man. He doesn't care about what she is doing and just wants her to leave him alone. My problem is... she still tells people that they have gotten back together several times since they have broken up and that they are still sleeping together. I am at the end of my rope with her lies but feel like there is nothing I can do about it. Fortunately, we have not run into her anyone when we are out and about. I am not a confrontational person, but like I said, I'm at the end of my rope with her. She makes herself look like the victim all the time to people and gets sympathy from everyone, when at the end of the day, she brought this upon herself. My boyfriend is completely happy with where he is at with his life with me and wouldn't trade it for anything... so why do I let this bother me when it clearly doesn't bother him? Ugh!!