I feel sad,dejected sometimes on MYLOT!!!

You better develop a thick skin sjvg and move on. This is routine here. Just when you think that you have given a response that deserves a BR the topic creator does not even look at it!. And there is no penalty for those who do it. So why mull over it. You have enough on your plate I am sure that will occupy you happily here!

You have to wait and I am not a ROBOT it's not everyday that am online.I got things to do off line as well. unfortunately it had to be the last day of the month

Hello sjvg, The picky trend by some mylotters hurting the unfortunate ones. I can understand your feelings better because I have faced the same situation many times. I have stopped responding to that mylotters, at least for sometime, to avoid further hurts. They may not understand how it hurts others. I am happy that only few people are doing the same but majority is treating everyone as equal.

hello, sjvg1976. this is one interesting discussion. i have to say that there are instances i do not reply back to a comment or response. but there is nothing personal to it. there are reasons of course. one is, i could not relate to the comment, or simply, i did not understand. two, sometimes, a comment is a duplication, therefore, i think i do not have to reiterate. three, i am very busy at the moment and i could not respond ASAP (that really makes me guilty actually). i have to agree with one of the commenter that a starter does not owe anyone an answer. we just have to accept the fact that it was not responded but it is not personal or anything. we do not have to be slighted by that simple act. sometimes, no response is better than receiving one that insults or lambast. have a good day to you.

hello sjvg, I wonder why about it too. I want to think that he/she misses my comment that is why s/he did not comment back. But after a day i checked again and still no response to my comment and everyone s/he responded back (uhmnn) that're really something. Well,just ignore and go to other mylotters topics. Don't let a single comment make you feel down. There are more good and considerate mylotters than rude and inconsiderate ones. Take in real life,there are people who also behave same thing right? So,don't be affected,but keep posting and you will get to know more friendly mylotters and stick to them then. Have a good great weekend ahead

You are right. whenever my responses got no comments back from the poster I would feel like... what now? Mine is not good enough?... Even when they replied like: thanks for your responses.. I would still feel a bit disappointment.. come on this is a discussion not a yes or no survey...

sjvg I also feel like that and I think those who do not make a comment of every single response are lazy and are not thinking of the feelings of those they bypass. we all want to be valued for our work here and in order to do that others must respond or comment to our discussions and responses. do not leave out people as thats plain old mean discrimination. oh I know you think this an that and alway give excuses but the fact is you are picking and choosing and being discriminating against some mylotters.thats so mean.come on mylotters you made the discussions lets actually discuss it and quit leaving people out comment to all responses or do not make discussions if you think you have not time. not fair to those you bypass.

For me don't take it seriously we game only here to get money.

Hi sjvg. I agree with Jaiho. Don't let them put you down. Just continue responding to others. I haven't experience that yet, but i noticed that in some discussion, some responders are not commented back by the starter of the discussion, yet for the others she / he did. She/he skipped some boxes. Maybe it was an oversight, because i noticed once or twice too, that i did that. Whenever i would go back to see the responses to my discussions , there are pages that i thought i have answered, so i overlooked some. But i was able to go back to them, when i would review the responses.

Hello sjvg1976, I have had that happen but I do not get upset. I sometimes are responding to posts and I get real tired because it gets late and I log off. Then when I go back the next day, I sometimes forget. Then I get involved in other discussions. I get loads of emails with new discussions and I try to respond to all of them. Sometimes some do get missed.

I would not take it personal. People are very busy with all kinds of things going on in their lives. Sometimes they have time to respond and then something comes up and they have to go. And they forget to get back to responding to a specific discussion. I think that sometimes the comment stands on its own and does not require a response. Maybe, I am wrong but I thought that I read in mylot FAQ's that just a thank you was not acceptable???? Did I read this???? I wish that there was a way to message all those who respond at the same time. This would not be to replace individual responses but it would be nice to also have a way to message the entire group. Sometimes, I have gotten so many responses at the same time that i find it impossible to keep up with them all. I mean to go back and answer each response but I get busy and forget. I have a job and other obligations. And then there are all the unexpected things that come up, some requiring immediate attention. So, do not take it personal when someone does not respond to your response. You do not know what is happening in the other person's life. Also, look over all the responses. Are you the only person who did not get a response? Or were there others?

I sometimes feel that way but i tend to neglect it. Just don't bother about those stuffs and don't be so sensitive. Maybe the person who posted the discussion can't relate to what you've responded or he's too busy making his earnings higher and forget to reply on your response. Take it easy and keep on responding :)

Don't feel sad and dejected sjvg1976, there are still other myLotters who are interested in your responses. Just leave that feelings behind and continue responding. Cheer up! ^_^

i'll b so sad in such cases because i love my friends and when they avoid in any circumstances i feel very bad

Well not everyone who responses to our discussion comes back as well. In most discussions, maybe 1/3 of the responders come back to check what is already happening to the discussion. Even if you respond to all of them, most of them don't respond back.

Well, for me. I'm not thinki about that, cause I just share about what I know. Whether they will respond or not. Just try to think that we share a goodness, you will feel different.

I do try to comment on every response i receive and the only times i don't do this is when someone has left a similiar comment as someone else, so therefore i don't want to provide the same reply over again. Leaving "Thanks for your response" as a reply and nothing else is not an acceptable comment, as Mylot asks you to be as descriptive as possible when replying to any discussion and i really can't understand why replying that way alone would be appreciated,especially if most of the comments received a descriptive reply.

I really don't mind much about that thing. When i respond to a discussion and the member didn't bother to reply, I just ignore it. I think it's just my personality that i don't get involve much in this kind of things. But i do understand why you feel that way, especially if yours was skipped and the rest was responded to.

Okay, I actually wrote my response yesterday but got stuck with the connection. I guess it didn't post, so here I am again. Yea, I get it too sometimes, but I guess there's no forcing people to comment back to our response if they don't want to. Anyway, we have already done our part which we are earning from it. Many still do not know that by commenting back and forth will help boost our income. As for me, I will definitely comment back to any response that is posted on my discussions unless I really have nothing to say, then I'll just leave it.

maybe people dont feel the need to elaborate because they agree with u and theres not much to say if uv hit the nail on the head other people on the other hand might be talking about the same thing but from a different perspective.